Iyawo Ijebu

Are you purposely trying to prove "issha2lynden" right? Cause you're doing a pretty good job of it.

I'm matured enough to be able able to decide what is valueable to me and what is not.
I suggest that forum members, like in the real world, be able to sift the wheat from the chaff.
May I suggest the Ignore User function to you Sir?
Some of us find her thoughts valuable in our journey.
Perhaps someone should do a poll

OP, don't allow this co consume you.
Divorce, as quickly as you can, notify USCIS, and move right on.
As humans, we have emotions and who is to say she didn't just meet this chap? Either way notify USCIS and move on. 13 years marriage with 4 kids, numerous homes purchased but when I divorced my Ex she still thinks I was scamming her so like someone else said above 4 years may not be really scamming.

Bravo.

This is a RFE situation.

Well, from a legal standpoint it shouldn't matter but it does matter from a biological standpoint which I am now understanding that the Consulates makes their business. Sad in any case, but once one knows the perceived requirement then one must be prepared to engage on that level. I think this is what our "Sachinky" was hinting at.
This idea that every couple wants to, or can for that matter, produce offsprings is a fallacy and shouldn't be a benchmark for the petition decision.

A most ridiculous statement, rather infatile if you ask me.

Alas for some bashing the POTUS is a full-time job, as stated in the back of their Kool-Aid ration book...

I agree... And I think that they should express their unmitigated outrage but refusing to take any financial aid from the USA and pay back all they money they have received in the past decades immediately.
That would speak louder than any whining...

Sounds like Poland is a bit sensitive and needs to quit whining. The sentence might have been better structured but the only folks who don't hold the Germans responsible for the Holocost deny it happened all together.

More proof that he is a real American.

I'm just glad Darren is back, I have a way to entertain myself at work now!
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Never experience your first statement.... I mean when my brother-in-law brings his kids to creamery, they just tell them, and they will just get in the car.
As for your second statement...... Never heard that before, usually, for non-necessary item, they don't get it and put it as credit. I've known this as when I was younger, we had sari-sari store.
I don't think you are trying to portray difference in culture, but difference in family perspective as it's not common practice in both countries.

I saved money when my wife came here. She cooked food for us, and it is cheaper than eating out. Also stop going out to bars with friends, and spending money on little stuff when out of the house so much.

I don't know about all that but when the oxygen masks drops I'm told to put mine on first before any other

Many Mods are in a clique with other long term members here. Those regular members get to be moral police for the forum. If anyone of the clique gets their nose in a snit about a post they will have it removed by their friendly mod. There used to be the follow the simple rule here that if one doesn't like the thread then don't enter it but the moral police decided that they should be removed. They now rule this forum so toe the line.
Why should we stay and help others anyway? I got what I needed from the site.

Nina thanks for the response - I am not talking about a thread where long term member has been rude or condescending.
When someone makes a post and a long term member responds back saying what poster is looking to do is visa fraud and unfortunately posters does not want to hear this and starts attacking the long term member.
This situation mods have sided for OP.... in this section another thread was going on and dicsussion started to happen about this particular mod.... (s)he comes and closed the thread... how nice
No action from Captain or Kathryn.....
If mods/owners cannot appreciate that these long standing members who have been thru their journey and are only sticking around coz they like to give something back or help someone than thats too bad.

Charles – I don’t know how you are in Mod hierarchy but MOD abusing their power is becoming more and more common on VJ.
There seems to be no action from Captain or anyone else… if this continues believe me you will see ppl dropping out of VJ.
Specially when MOD takes illegal actions against the old members who are done with their own immigration but have stayed on here either they like it or they think they might own something back to VJ.
If these guys start dropping out VJ would not have anyone to post response to queries… these guys are the asset for VJ.

Mods aren't like regular people.

he may have some super powers that guide him.

How is anybody casually reading the forum going to tell the difference? How did you determine I was being malicious, while you were just playing grab ####### with a longtime aquaintance?

Welcome to VJ thats how it works..... I challenged a mod in couple post.. mod would threaten to ban you or would come and close the thread......
Most likly even this would be closed or deleted.

Dad is white right? Easy peasy, white. Any questions just tell them she's been playing in the sun too long.
My kids are all listed as black like me though with a UK Mom, even the blonde hair, blue eyed one

My sentiments exactly. I wanted to say as much but I was worried of "if you need help not posting, moderation is here to assist you"

Reread every post that you've made in this thread. Then sit down and do some serious thinking.