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This may sound harsh, but they did the right thing. Extended visa, Girlfriend of a USC, from a 3rd world country. She's a huge risk to stay and adjust. What was written on her passport? Was it an expedited removal or did they allow her to withdraw her application for entry?
Remember IO's are allowed to lie. They could've just expected them to get married and used this as a dodge

Why is everyone telling OP being pregnant doesn't speed up immigration? She has said multiple times that it was the IO's words not hers, and saying it helped her and her husaband's case personally because it is actually a viable 'proof' of a bonafide relationship to be pregnant/have a child together, which was a positive for their application since their case is red flagged.

Your comments about "I can't cancel, because I don't want to." and the comment "I am worried it will affect immigration in the future." is a little concerning. I wouldn't be so worried about a visa if I loved someone and they were telling me we didn't belong together. It would worry me more that my relationship was failing. If he isn't ready at least he is honest. You are asking him what he wants but he is telling you. He doesn't know and doesn't feel like it is going to work. If you get here and he sees it isn't going to work what are you going to do? If he doesn't file for your papers you have to leave....if you don't and you get caught you better believe that will affect any future plans you ever have on immigrating here. I say thank you after every meal and so does my husband who is from Morocco. It is just having good manners but every culture is different. That is a minor thing and when someone is looking to get out they will use minor excuses and find any little thing to pick on. I would just let him go or postpone your interview and wait to see what happens. If you don't postpone it or cancel it and try playing games (not saying you will) it could jeopardize your immigration to the US if you look to reconcile with your fiance.

Exactly my thoughts too ! We certainly see all too many of those threads.
The K1 visa is with intent to marry. I can't stress it enough that it's not a "let's wait and see visa."
Communication is definitely needed but somehow I feel there are other issues only the USC knows.
OP, be careful to not step into a hornet's nest.

Reschedule
It will give you time to figure out if he's just wanting you on the side, rather then having you as a wife.
No matter how much you want this and love him it takes two to make this work.
Take a real hard look for any other warning signs in your relationship. I have a feeling you have been ignoring some.

What if you make it here and he then changes his mind again ?
It would be harder to leave the US and start all over again in your country.
If he is not sure then I would just let it go and move on but that's just me.
If you fight now you will fight when you are here, waiting for the work permit can get challenging, it's boring sitting in the house all day
not being able to drive and all hell can break loose if he changes his mind then again.
Believe him when he says he is not ready.
It ticks me off when people file who aren't ready, this is not a 'dating' visa. All of a sudden they get cold feet. Meh !

Get a divorce. I have zero idea why you'd still be married to a man after spending 3 years on a couch.
Be happy you're not on the hook for the I-864 anymore.
Move on with your life. ASAP.

Unless you can prove that he forged your signature, which is fraud, there likely isn't much you can do against him.

I disagree with the others' post about talking to her. Was this discussed prior to her coming here? Trust me, after you talk about this, next week you'll get a call about a family member is in the hospital and they need $600, you send it to them and this will continue. $200 per month in Thailand is an average full time monthly income. Let her go or you will be poor the rest of your life. You brought her here to have a better life, you did enough for her and her family.

You would rather be alone? Why did you marry someone if you prefer being alone? That was a little silly.
The fact that she sprung this on you almost immediately after settling down in the U.S. does make me question whether or not this is really just a cultural difference or something more.
There are plenty of cases where things like this are due to the emphasis on family ties and the responsibility for taking care of your parents that is present in many east Asian cultures. That being said, there are also cases where the immigrant spouse and/or their family is intentionally using the USC for financial support. It's nearly impossible to tell either way for sure, especially with the limited information you have provided us. Either way, discussing things like this BEFORE marriage and immigration would have been a smart thing to do.
I would hold off on giving any money for now, and see how she reacts. It may help you figure out which of the two situations you are in.

My wife's family did the same thing, I thought your wife would be from Vietnam, like mine. Let her go!!! When my wife got here her family called at least once a month needing $500 - $800. I 1.5 yrs we sent them 10K plus. That was enough for me. You were played, she wants to move to another city? That sounds like a wife to you? I wish I had listened to others but I didn't. These girls come from poor countries and they just want to come here and take your money, when there's none left, they are gone. Cut your losses before they get any bigger. I know you want to say I don't know your situation but if you are on here looking for advice, your story is typical. This will never end, her family wanting money, and the wife is in on it. I heard every medical emergency you can think of, everyone in the family needs operations in order to live. You feel you invested in this and don't want to quit but 10 - 20 yrs from now you will still be sending a monthly stipend. How long has she been here? And she wants to move to another city with a girlfriend to work? Great idea, let her go.

I am not trying to be mean in anyway and I totally understand that some families need to be supported and I encourage that to be done. But even if there is money left in the budget, its up to him to decide whether to send or not. If he did, that would be nice, if he didnt, that wont make him bad.

I fail to understand why you want him deported. From what you described I'd say you guys have a genuine relationship that fell apart. Just divorce the man if it does not work out for you anymore but trying to deprive your child of his father is counter productive. most immigrants come to the US because of love and a chance at a better life, otherwise you could have move to his country but you did not; instead he is here with you. marriage break apart all the time. It's no longer up to you, he'll remove condition alone once you divorce him.
I wonder about the other side of the conversation for you to get that reply "he married and came to USA was to earn money and education."

Our buddy, Homer The Beagle, was hanging with grandma and grandpa when all of a sudden he starts rubbing his neck and snout on the carpet. Unbeknownst to me, Homer The-Recently-Bathed Beagle was rubbing his neck and snout on the grandparents' cat vomit. Well, it was actually a hair ball, but that didn't stop Homer The-Now-Putrid-Smelling Beagle from rubbing and soaking up this pungent stench.
Homer The-Now-Twice-Bathed-In-One-Day Beagle was not happy.

And her name is Kristin? Nobody seventy-four years old is named Kristin. More like Jean, Nancy, Alice, Mary, Linda, Christine, Cynthia.... That's why I think Bruce Jenner picking Caitlin as a new name is kinda off. That's a young person's name. Are you pulling a prank here?

Once she was blind, but now she can si, man!

I'm leaving a comment because you said I can't....

Guys... a person can vent here without all the criticisms. Please stop with the judgement. We're allowed to be annoyed at people who circumvent the law.

I can see ur frustration, like people said here just leave it be. But hey, they are the ones who are gonna worry later. Not you, u can sleep well at night cus u know u did it the good way,

No offense intended, but consider taking your own advice for all the reasons you listed above. Let them live their lives and you yours. Curiosity for curiosities sake is overrated.

Well my opinion is that leave them alone and focus on your life, good for you that you are legal and you will not face any troubles. Whatever they will face wont be your problem.

I believe you must marry within 90 days of arriving in the US, not before the K-1 visa expires.
Once your fiance enters the US, the K-1 visa is invalid anyway and can't be used again for any other purpose.

Congrats, F-Bone!

Omg he just got it from bus luggage in the last 20 mins of departure. Thanks everyone for ur comments. Problem is thankfully solved.

No need to report. He has no path to residency without you. Just move on and ignore his request.

And report the legal person to the State Bar.