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Shoot Em Straight

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    Shoot Em Straight reacted to destiny64 in Casablanca, You made a big mistake! :'( (merged)   
    Another thought....maybe his x american wife reported something bad about him when she withdrew his petition?
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    Shoot Em Straight reacted to MKA092211 in Casablanca, You made a big mistake! :'( (merged)   
    I am so sorry you are having to go through this denial process. We had three interviews before my husband was approved, the process is a test of faith, patience and love. Political involvement is not typical as this is just they way Casablanca Consulate is. I wish you the very best and the patience needed to endure the time it takes. Time seems to move slow while waiting, but soon you will look back and see how quick time went.
    God Bless you both!
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    Shoot Em Straight got a reaction from Jacklyn.Younes12 in Interview preparation   
    I dont believe that people were given AP for taking too little to the interview. If you frontloaded your application and sideloaded when it went to CASA (so they r forced to have it in front of them at some point)... your did your duties. The amount of paperwork that you are compiling for your SO to take to an interview sounds like a physical encumbrance.
    In our case...with the years of yahoo messaging I felt did not need the Consulate to read our personal communications just wished to show how many and and how long it has been going on..... so I condensed the the months and printed the totals as proof with a "snapshot" of the yahoo email page. And within each year it is listed the amount of back and forth texts we had were in the hundreds of 1000's I showed these numbers. Then just went through and printed about three pages to show a snippet of content. The usually hi, how was work. Where are you? I cooked this for dinner. Say hello to your family...And good night sleep well, talk to you in your afternoon.
    Good Luck at the interview.
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    Shoot Em Straight reacted to thedude6752000 in Discrimination on ap that's all   
    If you could provide an example of someone using an CR-1 or Ir-1 visa to come into the US and "blow themselves up" it might be possible to take this rubbish as anything other than the outright ignorant bigotry it is.

    OP is absolutely right, it's nothing but institutionalized racism and bigotry on the part of the US government, but then you would expect that from a country that officially persecuted and enslaved African people for more than 150 years and totally wiped out the indigenous people who lived here.
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    Shoot Em Straight reacted to Harpa Timsah in Please help....Evidence of a bonafide marriage in I-130   
    This is not true. No need to spread rumors based on misinformation.
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    Shoot Em Straight reacted to Ryan H in married instead   
    You can do this but it's not necessary for you to do this. If you are living apart in separate countries, you are not required nor are expected to have joint bank accounts, own property together, have a lease in both names, or have bills in the same name.
    Focus on evidence of time spent together in person, that is your strongest evidence.
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    Shoot Em Straight reacted to tehans in husnand ruined my life now what?!   
    I didn't see anywhere the OP stated her husband physically abused her
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    Shoot Em Straight got a reaction from Happytobe in i need help please and i type in arabic because i only speck english very will (merged)   
    Good to read she started treatment....I hope she gets the complete medical help she needs soon.
    There are good Drs in Morocco, though It is no comparing to the condition your wife is in.... I had an experience with a private physican that Traveled and had practiced both in France and Maroc and found to my surprise the care was very good efficiant and affordable there. He was in private practice, in one appointment did an ultra sound, diagnosis and prescribed great medicines that gave me releif in a day and cured in weeks.
    My husband was constatny telling me before this incident, that they have good medical services in his country. I was very grateful to recover.
    Now I do understand I paid with U.S. dollars and MAD would have been a stretch for others there but here in the U.S. It would have cost thousands for my treatment (with out ins.)and probably scheduled separate appt for the ultra sound then results etc....There IS competent medical help in Morocco. And great pharmacutial supplies from France.
    If wife has nobody in the U.S. and she has been living with you in Morocco not working .... WHO is sponsoring you on the VISA? This will be an important factor even if the expidite for an interview is granted.
    I feel your words of love for her in all your posts but If it is so serious (Ovarian Cancer? stage 4 you wrote) Then VISA approvals should take second or third priority over your wife getting medical help.
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    Shoot Em Straight reacted to B_J in How can a mid-20's man be in love with mid-50's woman?   
    I'm going to go way out on a limb here and say: maybe they fell in love just like everybody else.
    It is very common for me to see two people and wonder, "what do they see in each other?" But, that doesn't make me think it's a business transaction or anything else. I just assume they see something in each other that I don't.
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    Shoot Em Straight reacted to agrabs in How can a mid-20's man be in love with mid-50's woman?   
    So, it's acceptable for a man to be older than his woman but if it's the other way around it's probably a business transaction or a scam?
    I would be curious to know the statistics on how many older man- younger woman marriages end up in divorce vs older woman- younger man marriages.
    I am older than my husband. He is no longer in his 20's and I am not yet in my 50's however, I can tell you, since you said you are curious and wanting to understand it... our relationship is no different than if we were the same age. When we met we had no idea what each others age was. I met him on a medical mission trip. He translated for me. We had a lot in common - I know this is the part you question - what we could possibly have in common so I will be specific. We both enjoy cooking - we would exchange recipes and talk for hours about the different foods and customs in each others countries. We would discuss news stories and current events. He would send each other books to read or movies that we thought the other would like to see. We both love to travel so we would spend hours dreaming of the places we would like to go. Every night he would send me a new song to listen to while I fell asleep. By the time we knew each others age, it was more than a friendship. My husband is college educated, had a good job, was very close with his family and was happy with his life in his country. I am a medical professional with a good career and plenty of activities to keep me busy. I wasn't lonely, bored or in need of a man or money, and he certainly didn't need another mother (his is wonderful). We look the same age. If you were to see us, you wouldn't know I was the older one. There are the specifics for you.
    To generalize a bit more:
    Personally, I think women age better than men ( color their hair, make up, etc) so may not look their age.
    Men have been marrying younger women through out history. Men were typically the breadwinners and women were dependent on them. In the last few decades, women's role in society has changed. They are educated and no longer have to be dependent on men financially or otherwise, so they have more freedom to enter into non- traditional relationships, no different then men.
    I'm not sure that the older women - younger man marriage is anymore likely to be a scam for a green card than the older man- younger woman.
    I'm not saying all these relationships are legit - any time there is an age difference, regardless of who is older there is a higher risk of fraud. There are plenty of " my spouse ran off after green card was issued " threads that seem to apply to any relationship that wasn't legit, or maybe it was legit but just didn't work out.
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    Shoot Em Straight reacted to belinda63 in helpppppppppppppp helpppppppppppppp (merged)   
    All you can do is wait
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    Shoot Em Straight reacted to Krikit in Fiancee Got Arrested, Serious Question to Ask   
    Wouldn't the sequence of events be more like arrest, call a lawyer, pay the $$ (in this case, Dad), release? I'd also be concerned that the fiance takes no responsibility in the demise of the marriage. It is not possible for one spouse to do everything right and the other to do everything wrong. Child support is exactly what it states. It supports the child(ren). His child(ren). There are serious red flags here.
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    Shoot Em Straight reacted to aaron2020 in K1 Visa Rejection....   
    (quoted post advocating illegal immigration activity removed - VJ Moderation Team)
    ????

    How is the government to blame when the OP failed to follow the written instructions and fail to provide the required evidence?

    Instead of the generalization that it is the government's fault when someone gets an RFE and mischaracteres it as a rejection/denial, let's focus on why people get RFEs. Generally, it's the failure to follow written instructions.
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    Shoot Em Straight reacted to elmcitymaven in K1 Visa Rejection....   
    If they did not submit their letters of intent, it is not the fault of the service center. Your political rant is not necessary.
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    Shoot Em Straight reacted to isabooo in K1 Visa Rejection....   
    You're just starting out the process, you might want to relax a bit, or you'll have a heart attack before it's over
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    Shoot Em Straight got a reaction from Crossed_fingers in Casablanca, You made a big mistake! :'( (merged)   
    OP~ keep strong....been there done that. Sorry about the frustration. You seem to had all things done right.
    Your opinion based on what? How many sucessfully APPORVED K1 visas going through CASA have NOT come on here to NOT get their unneeded advice?
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    Shoot Em Straight reacted to ashleyphilly in Casablanca, You made a big mistake! :'( (merged)   
    Was he petitioned by an American lady before?
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    Shoot Em Straight got a reaction from kristen_maroc in Moroccan K1 approval?   
    Well why didnt we all think of this before? I feel Stupid.
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    Shoot Em Straight reacted to Cathi in Casablanca, You made a big mistake! :'( (merged)   
    K-1's work for many in Morocco.
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    Shoot Em Straight reacted to baron555 in 40 day till K-1 Visa expires; Fiancee doesn't want to marry. Options?   
    What's not fair. The exact terms of the K-1 are well stated.
    The K-1 is NOT a get to know you visa. These two should have had a strong relationship BEFORE deciding to file the petition.....and it is incumbent on both parties to fully vet out the relationship before filing.
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    Shoot Em Straight reacted to sandinista! in Moroccan K1 approval?   
    Move where? What countries are going to be faster/easier that guys in MENA can easily pick up and pack for? With equal employment opportunities/pay during the waiting period?
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    Shoot Em Straight got a reaction from kristen_maroc in Moroccan K1 approval?   
    wait till the bacon is added in.
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    Shoot Em Straight reacted to AKukreti in Fiance's new friend   
    I ended it. I hope I can stay strong. Deleted the apps on my phone er use to message with. Deleted skype from my phone. No longer going on skype on my computer. All his emails go to my trash. And blocked his cell number. I really thought I would make this post and people would be on his side. Like I was the problem.
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    Shoot Em Straight reacted to flora01 in Fiance's new friend   
    Who knows he is actually going out with doctor or just telling her that he is going out.
    In India doc girls don't date non working,depressed , just college graduate and suicidal 21 year old guy.
    No doubt whole family is manipulating her but i don't understand that in whole world USC couldn't find better man than him.Believe me there are lots of better men in world who are far more better and looking for partner.
    I want one reason for a matured woman having 4year old to go for this suicidal guy who has started manipulating her even before getting fiancé visa and there is long way to go.
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    Shoot Em Straight reacted to Harpa Timsah in Fiance's new friend   
    He sounds like a manipulative a$$hole.
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