US Immigration from Philippines

Looked for the answer here, but did not see it.

Just curious what the consequences are for marrying after the 90 days? Say you marry on day 95 and then file the AOS. Is that a major problem?

I didn't include an I-765 with my wife's I-485 packet because I wrongly assumed it wouldn't be that long before her GC was approved. Anyway, before I send it off I'm wondering if I have everything. The I-765 itself, copy of the I797C receipt for the I-485, her I-94, passport bio page, B-2 visas, and the G-1145 to get notified. 2 photos with A number. I think everything else was in the I-485 pack. Actually, I'm not sure if they want some of that but I figure they can toss what they don't need.

Am I missing anything?

I am a Christian and got married in the Philippines, because I did not believe in shacking up. I notice that USCIS encourages I-130 process for all married in the Philippines, and a fianc e requesting their fianc to immigrate.

My problem is, I used the new online system, and spoke to a tier 1 person to clarify I only needed 1 I-130 application.

I submitted 1 added the child, added the I-130a and added the child. 14 months later we were approved, but found out The child was not represented. NVC said i must submit an I-130 for the child, which goes against the rules, but I did it anyway. Now we wait...

What rights do I have to insure they both can (must) travel together?