Okay so need input/ data/ anecdotes/ advice to help deciding a route.
I am a British citizen living and residing in BC Canada on permanent residency, 1 month short of being a citizen of Canada.
Partner is US citizen and lives permanently in MT USA. We live two hours away by car.
We are not yet married. Nor engaged. But we would do both in an instant. Pending visa requirements.
We want to have our lives together and do not know the best option, balancing efficiency, security, ease and time apart.
My understanding is we are 1.5 - 2 years away from any closure on this. And this is hurtful.
Family based options, source:
1- Fianc (e) Visa (K1)
2- Spousal Visa (K3)
3- Spousal Visa (IR1 / CR1)
4- Direct Consular Filing
All seem possible, with 1 & 3 being the obvious choices and the other 2, 4 being side door options that we found recently. Do not know the credibility of choosing these.
We have done a lot of reading and the more I read the less I am sure of the way to proceed. We desperately need advise, falling into a wormhole. We want to start out on the right foot and not choose an option that is going to extend being apart more than it needs to. Or extend the inability to work as is often the case, how does that benefit a new family starting out in a new country? Im not sure being dependent on resources really helps anyone.
I had a lawyer/ consultant from Visa Place tell me to disregard the fianc visa (mostly due to Canadian consulate wait times) and focus on spousal visa or one other side door option, involving being a Canadian citizen. Do the lawyers and consultants tend to have an ulterior motive behind advice? Are they skewed toward revenue generating options?
Processing times: I find every website has different information for processing times making my understanding worse and worse. Does both the fianc K1 and spousal CR1 have to go through the Canadian consulate? Is the wait times here as bad as they say? Are both options the same wait times? Can the Canadian consulate be avoided?
What are realistic expectations of processes - start to finish?
Can I lean on my British citizenship and go home to get a faster consulate time?
Direct Consular Filing: the key word in the descriptions here are 'typically'. Has anyone had any luck short cutting any process by going direct to consulate? Do they serve to help out people for any circumstances.
Consultants or lawyers: can anyone advise or suggest someone that can help? What experience have people had?
Thanks ya'll