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There are two betrayals here: using other women for sexual stimuli, and then continuing to do it after you've told him how you feel. This is not simply a harmless guy thing, in my opinion, but a sexua

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Hey Everyone, wow, I never thought that this thread would get this much of a response. It's kind of crazy. I just want to clear some things up that I think people kind of started going along with that

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This thread is home to many of us lol, good thing it is a friendy place :D

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My opinion on this is, if he is sneaking it while you are sleeping or out of the house he is seeking gratification beyond you.. that is cheating. As is "chatting" with other women online, as is spending time at a strip club. I think many women feel replaced somehow when their husbands turn to porn. I wonder how he would feel if he was in the other room and his wife fired up a sex toy with no intention of including him. I understand that many couples share porn together, that it may enhance their sexual experience.. but the key word is share. It is hurting their relationship and he needs to know just how much. Whether it be porn, or scrapbooking.. if it needs to be done in secret from the other.. there is a problem that needs addressed between them.

Keeping things erotic and exciting between two people only without the "help" of outside influences is the wonderful challenge we have as a married couple. It should intensify over the years, not dwindle. I think that men or women looking elsewhere for sexual gratification is not beneficial to a marriage at all and they are missing out on what they can be discovering about each other which is a shame.

My own experience with this in my previous marriage was it starting out as poses of women that turned to much worse and much more frequently. It actually changed how he looked at me and how he thought a woman should be "made love" to. Now he is alone with his porn :whistle:

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01/31/06.....NOA

03/15/06.....Biometrics Appointment

04/10/06.....Interview letter received

05/24/06.....Interview

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06/08/06..... Sent out I-90 to have green card error fixed

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05/24/06.....Interview

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OMG Lorelle I love it :thumbs:

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2011 March 31 - Sent off Naturalization pkg overnight to Texas

2011 April 1 - Arrived in Texas at 10:21 am

2011 April 1 - NOA (rec'd via snail mail April 8)

2011 April 7 - Cheque cashed

2011 May 5 - Biometrics (letter rec'd via snail mail April 15)

2011 May 9 - Placed in line for interview scheduling

2011 June 13 - Rec'd yellow letter (no change in status online)

2011 June 23 - Rec'd text that my case has been scheduled for interview

2011 August 1 - Interview (rec'd via snail mail June 27) PASSED

2011 August 3 - Rec'd email that my case has been scheduled for Oath

2011 September 1 - Oath ceremony (rec'd snail mail Aug 5)

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So this has become a chitty chatty topic? Also know as SPAM !!! :P

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I did not realise the thread had been de-railed. I only read in a few pages and wanted to respond to the OP. My apologies for stepping in on your fun. I am not really in the elite VJ chat group, just post when I read something that inspires me to share. Guess I should stay out of the Off Topic forum.

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01/31/06.....NOA

03/15/06.....Biometrics Appointment

04/10/06.....Interview letter received

05/24/06.....Interview

AOS APPROVED

06/05/06Greencard received... with an error

I-90 Timeline

06/08/06..... Sent out I-90 to have green card error fixed

09/29/06.....Correct Green Card

K2 AOS/AP

01/17/06.....Sent out AOS/AP

01/31/06.....NOA for AOS and AP

03/07/06.....AP approved

03/16/06.....Biometrics Appointment

04/10/06.....Interview letter received

05/24/06.....Interview

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oh dear......good grief...don't be like that....this is not an 'elite' thread at all.....the orginal topic has been over for ages thats all....will ppl ever just chill out on here, it's crazy lately :unsure:

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I did not realise the thread had been de-railed. I only read in a few pages and wanted to respond to the OP. My apologies for stepping in on your fun. I am not really in the elite VJ chat group, just post when I read something that inspires me to share. Guess I should stay out of the Off Topic forum.

Oh please dont do that :( You are more then welcome in OT, everyone is. I had done exactly the same thing pages back lol when I didnt know how far it had been derailed :P No offence meant

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