Sent $2000 to my fiancé in Qatar - a RED FLAG?

[TheaG 0]

Hi! I'm new here. I'm just about to send my I-129F application however, I can't decide whether to include the receipt of the money transfer that I sent to my fiancé recently. I'm worried that it will become a red flag. This was the first time that I sent him money to help him out. But I've also included the receipt of the money that he sent me way back in December amounting to $1000 cos he actually paid for my plane tickets to visit him. 

 

I really need an advise guys. I don't want it to be taken against us. 

 

Thank you. 

[Rachel n Tyler 45]

Why would you want to include it?

[TheaG 0]

As a supporting evidence? But then I've started reading about it here and it seems that it might be a red flag but I don't know really. 

[powerpuff 6,733]

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I would not include it. It may be interpreted in a negative way.

 

[Rachel n Tyler 45]

5 hours ago, TheaG said:

As a supporting evidence? But then I've started reading about it here and it seems that it might be a red flag but I don't know really. 

Do you not have better evidence? Texts, pictures? I'd also exclude it

[Sam Burns 157]

17 hours ago, TheaG said:

Hi! I'm new here. I'm just about to send my I-129F application however, I can't decide whether to include the receipt of the money transfer that I sent to my fiancé recently. I'm worried that it will become a red flag. This was the first time that I sent him money to help him out. But I've also included the receipt of the money that he sent me way back in December amounting to $1000 cos he actually paid for my plane tickets to visit him. 

 

I really need an advise guys. I don't want it to be taken against us. 

 

Thank you. 

Do not include any receipts like this of any sort, it’s nobody’s business

[JeanneAdil 6,560]

it would be considered a red flag as would look like foreigner is using USC for money

This is bf not spouse 

It's one of the most obvious signs that someone is talking to you for all the wrong reasons. No one you've just met should be asking you for money. It doesn't matter how much you have in common or what kind of a connection you feel. There are people out there who will prey on your kindness 

 

BTW  would u give american bf $2000 even as a gift

 

Not sure if he asked for the money or hinted he needed it and u volunteered the money but if he is Muslim ,  this is wrong in Islam

 

[TheaG 0]

Sorry I forgot to include that we are both Malaysians and he's been my college friend. I don't know how to reply using quotes, my bad.

 

I have evidences like pictures together in Doha, chats and 8-hour video call logs, flower gifts, letters sent to Doha thru USPS, hotel booking, flight itineraries, boarding pass, engagement ring etc. He's a long lost friend. He asked me to visit him but at that time I've already made plans to go to Japan and it would be such a waste to change my flight itinerary last minute to make a detour to Qatar. So he sent me money to book a flight from Japan to Doha that way I don't have to make any changes to my original itinerary.  Re the money I sent him, I had to send him some money to help him out a bit because he's recently changed jobs. But he is gonna pay me back. So there is a receipt that he sent me $1000 and then there is also a receipt that I sent him $2000.  Now I am debating if I will include them or not. 

 

@JeanneAdil @Sam Burns @Rachel n Tyler @powerpuff

 

 

[Rosaly 32]

My fiancé has been paying for all my gaming subscriptions the past 2 years, almost as soon as we started dating and we never included that either. 
When i visited him, i paid for groceries and such, we never included that either. granted, i always paid for my own planetickets regardless him offering to pay that as well.

 

I would just leave it out.

your list of what you already have collected is even more than my fiance and i submitted when we filed our petition and it was just fine.

 

 

4 hours ago, TheaG said:

 

 

I have evidences like pictures together in Doha, chats and 8-hour video call logs, flower gifts, letters sent to Doha thru USPS, hotel booking, flight itineraries, boarding pass, engagement ring etc.

 

 

 

Dont worry too much about it, leave the money transfers out  

[powerpuff 6,733]

I would exclude both.