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Hi every one, before going forward, i am a Nigeria and i have never seen a divorce been done in 1 week. My sister in Nigeria is going through a divorce for almost 5months now, and they have not finalize there divorce. So my sister, i am a born and bred Nigeria, and i am teling you that divorce in 1 week can not be done.

LIFTING OF CONDITION

12/19/2007 Mailed out I-751

12/29/2007 Received extension letter

01/15/2008 NOA/Biometric appointment

01/25/2008 Biometric taken

01/27/2008 Touched (Now waiting)

05/14/2008 Green Card approved (Card production ordered)

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sandybabe_onuh   0

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Hi every one, before going forward, i am a Nigeria and i have never seen a divorce been done in 1 week. My sister in Nigeria is going through a divorce for almost 5months now, and they have not finalize there divorce. So my sister, i am a born and bred Nigeria, and i am teling you that divorce in 1 week can not be done.

Hi,

In response to your message about my x-husband filing and getting a divorce in 1 week. It actually happened for a fact. He filed for divorce on June 6 2007 and it was granted in a Kubwa court on June 15 2007.

I myself actually have questioned this fast process. I have a very good friend in Abuja (actually he was my witness to the marriage) who I had to go to the court and inquire into the legality of the divorce. His inquiry from the court found the divorce to be 100% true and legal.

I did however have to send him a copy of the marriage certificate before they would give him the information questioned.

So yes, it can be done in just 1 week.

Also to furthur update on the divorce reversal we were going to do, we actually filed a reversal in the appeals court there and the case was dismissed because he was late on getting to the court. The court found to there understanding, my x-husband or myself was present the time our case was called and it was dismissed as a no show.

So now, unfortunately, my x-husband will remain just that, my x. He has said that after 3 1/2 yrs of waiting to be together and all involved, he doesn't want to go on furthur in the relationship of starting all over again.

So now he is moving on with his new life in Abuja, and I am stuck here in the states greiving for a man i will never get to share my life with now. Is sad and a pity it turned out this way.

Please I need all your prayers to help me come to terms with all this and losing the love of my life over something that was out of my hands.

God Bless all of you and God speed on your journey.

Sandybabe_onuh

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You deserve a man who knows what a gem he is getting and will hold on to you! You believe in God, He makes all things work together for good to those who love Him and are called according to His purpose. It may be hard now, but He will work it in your favor and you will see how He will arrange things for you through this. Amen.

04/16/2007 - I-129F Mailed to TSC

04/24/2007 - Official NOA1 Date

08/10/2007 - NOA2!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

10/17/2007 - INTERVIEW (PUT IN AP)

02/18/2008 - VISA ARRIVED IN MAIL!!

02/28/2008 - Arrives in the U.S.A!!!

03/15/2008 - Wedding Day!!

04/10/2008 - AOS Package Mailed (almost 1 year to the date later)

04/11/2008 - Received in Chicago

04/17/2008 - Check cashed

04/19/2008 - 3 NOAs received!

05/09/2008 - Biometrics Appt in SATX

05/14/2008 - Case transfered to CSC

06/11/2008 - EAD & AP Approved CRIS email

06/17/2008 - AP received in mail

06/21/2008 - EAD received in mail

01/21/2009 - FINALLY AOS APPROVED!!!!!!!!!!

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Hi every one, before going forward, i am a Nigeria and i have never seen a divorce been done in 1 week. My sister in Nigeria is going through a divorce for almost 5months now, and they have not finalize there divorce. So my sister, i am a born and bred Nigeria, and i am teling you that divorce in 1 week can not be done.

Hi,

In response to your message about my x-husband filing and getting a divorce in 1 week. It actually happened for a fact. He filed for divorce on June 6 2007 and it was granted in a Kubwa court on June 15 2007.

I myself actually have questioned this fast process. I have a very good friend in Abuja (actually he was my witness to the marriage) who I had to go to the court and inquire into the legality of the divorce. His inquiry from the court found the divorce to be 100% true and legal.

I did however have to send him a copy of the marriage certificate before they would give him the information questioned.

So yes, it can be done in just 1 week.

Also to furthur update on the divorce reversal we were going to do, we actually filed a reversal in the appeals court there and the case was dismissed because he was late on getting to the court. The court found to there understanding, my x-husband or myself was present the time our case was called and it was dismissed as a no show.

So now, unfortunately, my x-husband will remain just that, my x. He has said that after 3 1/2 yrs of waiting to be together and all involved, he doesn't want to go on furthur in the relationship of starting all over again.

So now he is moving on with his new life in Abuja, and I am stuck here in the states greiving for a man i will never get to share my life with now. Is sad and a pity it turned out this way.

Please I need all your prayers to help me come to terms with all this and losing the love of my life over something that was out of my hands.

God Bless all of you and God speed on your journey.

Sandybabe_onuh

As bad as you may feel right now, I think that things turned out for the best for you.

Take some time to recover, and I'm sure that soon enough you'll realize you deserve a lot better...

AOS TIMELINE

02/15/2008 - Mailed Package via Overnight

02/18/2008 - Delivered

02/26/08 - Check cashed

02/28/08 - Received 3 noa's in mail : AOS, EAD and AP, Notice Date 02/25/08

03/11/08 - I-485 Transferred to CSC... EAD and AP still not in online system

03/12/08 - Boimetrics

03/22/08 - Touched

03/24/08 - Touched

04/04/08 - Touched

04/22/08 - EAD card production ordered, AP approval notice sent

04/29/08 - EAD Approval Notice Sent

05/02/08 - EAD arrived in mail

05/09/08 - AP touched

05/13/08 - AOS APPROVED!!!!!!

05/14/08 - AP arrived in mail

05/16/08 - Approval notice sent

05/20/08 - Green Card arrived in mail!!!!! Huge sigh of relief...

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My prayers are with you during this time.

7/20/05 - Visa received in the mail

9/13/05 - Arrival to Texas FINALLY!!!

12/2/05 - Wedding

1/25/06 - AOS/EAD sent

1/26/06 - AOS/EAD received at USCIS

02/4/06 - NOA received for EAD

02/6/06 - NOA received for AOS

02/7/06 - ASC appt notice rcv'd

03/2/06 - Biometrics appt.

05/15/06 - AOS Approval (stamp in passport)

05/23/06 - Received Welcome letter

05/26/06 - Green Card arrived in mail yaaaahhooooo

08/10/06 - Hubby 1st job in US

05/15/08 - ??? what next

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I'm sad of what happened to you and your ex.

But the fact that he divorced because of his family pressure being a fully grown adult, and that he showed up late to the hearing for the reversal of the divorce shows that he doesnt have much willing to pursue your relationship... Specially adding that after 31/2 years its not worthed...hell I would have wait 10 years to be with my husband if I would have had to.

I think it's probably the best thing for you now, you deserve someone better than that.

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I had been wondering what happened with you. I am SO sorry to hear about this new turn of events, only you (in time) will know whether this was for the best. In any case, I wish you strength as you deal with all of what has happened.

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I am very sorry to hear what happened to you. You are in my prayers. I agree that this is probably for the best.

K-1 Visa Journey

03/10/2007 - Sent I-129F to NSC

06/05/2007 - Approved

06/25/2007 - NVC Case Number received

07/05/2007 - Fiance received Packets 3 and 4

09/06/2007 - INTERVIEW----- APPROVED

09/13/2007 - VISA IN HAND

09/14/2007 - POE AT JFK

10/26/2007 - Wedding

01/17/2008 - Email from CRIS that I-129 was approved!

AOS Journey

10/28/2007 - AOS mailed to Chicago via Federal Express

10/29/2007 - AOS received at Chicago

11/05/2007 - NOA for I-131, I-485, I-765

12/28/2007 - Biometrics

12/29/2007 - Case appeared on USCIS website

12/31/2007 - EAD Card Production Ordered; AP Approved

01/10/2008 - AP Received in mail

01/12/2008 - EAD Card Recieved in mail

07/24/2008 - AOS Interview

07/30/2008 -Card Production Ordered

08/11/2008 - GREEN CARD RECIEVED

04/30/2010 - ROC mailed to CA via USPS Express Mail

08/10/2010 - EAD Card Production Ordered; AOS Approved

04/24/2011 - Mailed N-400

05/12/2011 - Received I-797C

06/08/2011 - Biometrics

07/25/2011 - N-400 Interview

07/25/2011 - Oath Ceremony

MY HUSBAND IS A US CITIZEN!!!

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*JG*   2

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I'm so sorry. You deserve better.

Life's just a crazy ride on a run away train

You can't go back for what you've missed

So make it count, hold on tight find a way to make it right

You only get one trip

So make it good, make it last 'cause it all flies by so fast

You only get one trip

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Moonie   0

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So sad. It is hard being the only one fighting to be in a relationship.

11/27/2006 Filed I-129F

12/01/06 received at CSC NOA1

12/09/06 checked cleared

02/28/07 touched!

02/28/07 NOA2 via email 3 of them!!!!

03/01/07 touched

03/09/07 NOA2 received via snail mail

03/20/07 Received email from Sydney that packet 3 should be mailed out tomorrow

03/26/07 Fiance received packet 3

4/26/07 Fiance medical appointment

5/01/07 New date of medical appointment

5/14/07 Fiance interview date!

VISA APPROVED!

6/8/07 My fiance arrives in America

7/14/07 Wedding day!

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