US Spouse cheated on marriage and kicked me out of home

[gurmit 0]

Pleassseee Help

I am 26 years old. My US citizen spouse married me in India and there was no indication that he doesn't like me. I came to US on K3 visa. I don't know anybody else in this whole country except my in-laws family.

After 5 days he started flirting around. Then I came to know that he married 3 girls in India prior to me and used them for his pleasure and abondoned them without divorce. He kicked me out too and thretened the people who provided me shelter with gun. I was so afraid of his gun and didn't know english and rules of this country. Some people from my country came forward and helped me with shelter.

I am still on K3 after 6 months being in usa. K3 is valid upto Dec 2008.

Please help what do I do to apply for EAD and other forms, social security card etc.? I have no money and no medical.

How can fraud case be filed agaisnt spouse? Will it affect my future case processing?

(The people I am living with helped entered this information on my behalf)

Thank you very much.

[Dan J 277]

As far as the gun part, make a report to the local police.

You may not be able to file for AOS to stay in the country without your husbands cooperation. There are provisions to allow spouses who have been subject to abuse to file. I'm not really sure what that entails. But there is no guarantee of any success. You can find free legal help at places like catholic charities and you don't have to be catholic to use them.

You may also want to look in your area for abused women shelters. They may also be able to offer you help. At least for a safe place to stay.

You can initiate divorce on your own if it comes to that.

[MissStacey 1]

If he is still married to 3 women, you don't need a divorce. You're not legally married.

Get him arrested for Polygamy.

[Lance27 19]

I dont know how a K3 was filed if he was still married to someone else? I do not understand how this could be possible? Were the prior marriages terminated?

[Dan J 277]

I assume they were. It would be hard to get a K-3 through if they were not.

[KarenCee 3]

Pleassseee Help

I am 26 years old. My US citizen spouse married me in India and there was no indication that he doesn't like me. I came to US on K3 visa. I don't know anybody else in this whole country except my in-laws family.

After 5 days he started flirting around. Then I came to know that he married 3 girls in India prior to me and used them for his pleasure and abondoned them without divorce. He kicked me out too and thretened the people who provided me shelter with gun. I was so afraid of his gun and didn't know english and rules of this country. Some people from my country came forward and helped me with shelter.

I am still on K3 after 6 months being in usa. K3 is valid upto Dec 2008.

Please help what do I do to apply for EAD and other forms, social security card etc.? I have no money and no medical.

How can fraud case be filed agaisnt spouse? Will it affect my future case processing?

(The people I am living with helped entered this information on my behalf)

Thank you very much.

How was he able to (1) marry you and (2) petition for you with a K3 if he has been married three other times?????

Something doesn't sound kosher here....

[Lance27 19]

I do not know if you can stay legally after the expiry of the K3 unless you Adjust Status. You may want to contact CIS and see what your options are. Sorry I could not be of more help.

[Lance27 19]

definately something fishy. I would definately contact the CIS office to see what your options are as you said you do not have $$ and am assuming you will not be able to contract an Immigration Lawyer.

How was he able to (1) marry you and (2) petition for you with a K3 if he has been married three other times?????

Something doesn't sound kosher here....

[Alex+R 0]

I'm guessing he married the women in India but not legally?

[doodlebug 3]

If you only know your in-laws why on earth would you want to stay here? Why not go home and be with your family?

[doc_cute 0]

I'm guessing he married the women in India but not legally?

yes alex the marrige isnt legal

well i really want to put a light on this matter

have really heard a lot of usc marrying indian women specially from punjab

and these guys just dont get the marriage registered

the women belong to mostly rich classes n give lots of dowry for the marriage n

suppose the usc calls the girls there they torture her take away all her money as the girl isnt educated she just doesnt know what to do next

however these women are not much educated

these usc guys marry these in small temples n not getting the marriage registered take dowry from these girls n never call them back

i have read lots of these things in indian newspapers

the lack of education among these girls is a big problem here in our country

[doc_cute 0]

If you only know your in-laws why on earth would you want to stay here? Why not go home and be with your family?

doodlebug she said she doesnt know english she doesnt have the money whatever she brought has been taken away from her husband

these cases come every alternatively in indian newspapers no wonder

she really needs help

n gurmit i feel u should really find ways to go away back to your country rather than getting tortured here

[j-manu 0]

My I suggest that you file a police report and contact an attorney. You will need this if you plan on filing for a Lifting of Conditions I-751 (please get a copy of the instructions and read it). The I-751 will tell you how to file without a USC spouse. As for your relationship with this man, I am sorry that your dreams did not materialize as you hoped and I am afraid that the next year will not get any easier. God bless.

[maya62 7]

Namaste Bhaini,

From my limited understanding of Indian culture, I would guess that going back to India is not without risk either (in addition to costing probably over $1K USD for the plane ticket). It is my understanding that there may be a stigma attached to returning as a divorcee. She may not even be welcomed back by her family. Perhaps someone with more knowledge will come along and shed more light on this aspect.

This is most unfortunate. I suggest she contact an immigration attorney, perhaps through a pro-bono outfit such as Catholic Charities, and find out what her options are. This USC should definitely be reported for this behaviour (but to whom? ICE? State Dept?). Atrocious.

Best wishes.

Maya

[moelarrycheese 0]

I think this OP is a great big TROLL!!!