does it affect my VAWA case if i have a baby with other guy during marriage

[Randyandyuni 2,682]

You need to get a good lawyer, in many states if you are married to someone and a child is born, they are the legal father of the child. It sounds like the BF has not taken a legal paternity test. You are saying/praying the child is the BF's but do not have the test to prove that, depending on the state you live in, that may be a moot point and your husband may be the legal father and as such entitled to birth right parental rights. You need good legal representation, seek support and information here, but you are at the point you need professional support for this

[Ontarkie 15,099]

On 11/9/2018 at 1:32 PM, Randyandyuni said:

You need to get a good lawyer, in many states if you are married to someone and a child is born, they are the legal father of the child. It sounds like the BF has not taken a legal paternity test. You are saying/praying the child is the BF's but do not have the test to prove that, depending on the state you live in, that may be a moot point and your husband may be the legal father and as such entitled to birth right parental rights. You need good legal representation, seek support and information here, but you are at the point you need professional support for this

The ex husband has already had DNA tests in court. He is not responsible for anything or have any rights to her child. 

[Boiler 48,512]

Seems only the BF can be the Father and she needs to go through the proper process to find out.

[Randyandyuni 2,682]

1 hour ago, Ontarkie said:

The ex husband has already had DNA tests in court. He is not responsible for anything or have any rights to her child. 

depending on the state, if married at time of birth it may not matter

[geowrian 22,344]

13 minutes ago, Randyandyuni said:

depending on the state, if married at time of birth it may not matter

Simply being married is usually not the determining factor. It's having a relationship with the child. No such relationship appears to be in the picture here.

[Ontarkie 15,099]

20 minutes ago, Randyandyuni said:

depending on the state, if married at time of birth it may not matter

Yes some states do that, court overrules what the state says. He is off the hook.

[Randyandyuni 2,682]

Thanks for the update, wasn't trying to argue

[Meingandu 13]

On 11/2/2018 at 8:22 AM, jacobamanda63 said:

I did not explained well. He actually does not want to pay child support. that is why he said will get an attorney to take away baby from me to scary me off ; I told him , You try. so he think I am not worry about that part. so he said will half of custody , I said ok, he thought I don't want to share custody with him.  I said okay with both of his options because I know he has no idea how to take care of baby. He needs go to work and have no time for baby for sure. 

then he said will give up the parental rights up , so he does not need to pay for child support. it does not means he wants half custody and give up the parental rights . He just dont want to pay child support that is why he is willing give up his parental rights. 

   I said i am okay he give up parental rights but I still need he to pay child support. 

 

   anyway , he try hard to get way from any responsibilities for this baby.  

  I do not  have immigration attorney now ; and I do  not have attorney for this case . but I went to department of social service family service and told them he might be the father since my ex abuser husband not the father. then they let me filed some forms and sent to him. 

  He is very mad , he thought first fake DNA test will stop me to do the 2nd one. I did not wanted to against him , I thought he will be happy to know he has a baby but he is not. 

   some one replied for me here ealier and said I am very selfish that dont want to let him know he has a baby. that I owe my baby and ex bf a chance to getting to know each other and love each other. 

  I thought that is right , then I tried to share joy from have this baby with ex bf but he is not happy to has this baby and pays child support. 

  Thanks guys. have a wonderful day today. 

What happened with your case?

[Crazy Cat 46,073]

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