Immigrant spouses vs. American Spouses

[Kez/JWolf 6]

Well Said........

Kez

[xoxo77 1]

Filipinas have this glowing womanhood image of frugality, faithfulness, sensitivity, patience, perseverance, thoughtfulness and diligence. We appreciate hard work and do not believe in divorce, we are willing understand and do extra sacrifices. If this isn't true, then why does USCIS marriage statisitics report that " marriages from foreign spouses have lower divorce rate than the nation as a whole?" …"fully 80% of these marriages having lasted over the years for which reports are available. This isn't a just a word of mouth, It's somehow true.

I don't blame dear hubby's she-friends criticizing him about our relationship.. that's all they are-- closed-minded, hypocrite, arrogant, ignorant, brat and rude. I'm not saying this to offend all American women, this is based according to my personal encounter and experiences with dear hubby's she-friends. They're dying from envy..lol.

It isn't about wanting a wife to be a slave. It isn't about marrying someone submissive and weak. It's about building a lasting relationship, it's about reality and the truth is that American men found that relationship from a foreign spouse, a seasoned rock in a foreign land. .

This has nothing to do with "Filipinas" specifically. Take note there are many a foreign man married to an American woman on just this board alone.

My husband had every English woman in town tossing a hissy fit when they found out he had met and was marrying an American woman. I was nit picked with a fine tooth comb for any possible flaw they could find!

I am faithfull, thoughtful, patient, sensitive and want a lasting relatioship with my husband as well.........does that make me a filipina?

Every time this topic comes up I want to scream...THERE ARE GOOD MEN AND WOMEN FROM ANY COUNTRY IN THE WORLD.

So you got one bad apple and have to travel thousands of miles to find a spouse? This still doesn't make sense. My personal story I did not go looking for a foreign spouse, it just happened we met and fell in love. To each his own but I would not go in search of a spouse anywhere in the world, it just seems like desperation to me.

Many post in the forum for life in America after arrival, that have a fiancee running off a moment after she arrives are typically from one specific country. What if all of us American women started jumping on that and saying how much better we are than that particular group? It is hogwash just because 8 of the 10 post my fiancee/wife ran off with another man once she arrived in the states, does not make every woman from that region a money grubbing, ho-bag that wanted a green card and free trip to the states. So I wish some would lay off the whole "I am better than you.........because" rubbish!

This is my personal opinion about the topic madame, it's my point of view and by any means not harsh to anyone reading it unless you are affected and hurt because it's true to you and by any means you are entitled to your own defensive opinion. That's why I said: I'm not saying this to offend all American women, this is based according to my personal encounter and experiences with dear hubby's she-friends. comprende??? And about the ho-bag, gold digger filipina..oh yeah we did condemn that lesbo madame, and we feel sorry for the Amerikano about it. God bless your heart ma'am and your briton hubby. There's no reason for you to be angry, because you aren't like them are you?? PEACE.

[Kiv 32]

All countries, cities or towns in the world have good and bad people.

When you are lucky to find a person with the values that you appreciate and you fell in love with that person and you are so lucky that this person loves you back. You will do everything to stay together.

Every couple has a different story, I don't believe in white or black Scenarios, Is so difficult and unfair to generalize

[Alex+R 0]

Filipinas have this glowing womanhood image of frugality, faithfulness, sensitivity, patience, perseverance, thoughtfulness and diligence. We appreciate hard work and do not believe in divorce, we are willing understand and do extra sacrifices. If this isn't true, then why does USCIS marriage statisitics report that " marriages from foreign spouses have lower divorce rate than the nation as a whole?" …"fully 80% of these marriages having lasted over the years for which reports are available. This isn't a just a word of mouth, It's somehow true.

I don't blame dear hubby's she-friends criticizing him about our relationship.. that's all they are-- closed-minded, hypocrite, arrogant, ignorant, brat and rude. I'm not saying this to offend all American women, this is based according to my personal encounter and experiences with dear hubby's she-friends. They're dying from envy..lol.

It isn't about wanting a wife to be a slave. It isn't about marrying someone submissive and weak. It's about building a lasting relationship, it's about reality and the truth is that American men found that relationship from a foreign spouse, a seasoned rock in a foreign land. .

This has nothing to do with "Filipinas" specifically. Take note there are many a foreign man married to an American woman on just this board alone.

My husband had every English woman in town tossing a hissy fit when they found out he had met and was marrying an American woman. I was nit picked with a fine tooth comb for any possible flaw they could find!

I am faithfull, thoughtful, patient, sensitive and want a lasting relatioship with my husband as well.........does that make me a filipina?

Every time this topic comes up I want to scream...THERE ARE GOOD MEN AND WOMEN FROM ANY COUNTRY IN THE WORLD.

So you got one bad apple and have to travel thousands of miles to find a spouse? This still doesn't make sense. My personal story I did not go looking for a foreign spouse, it just happened we met and fell in love. To each his own but I would not go in search of a spouse anywhere in the world, it just seems like desperation to me.

Many post in the forum for life in America after arrival, that have a fiancee running off a moment after she arrives are typically from one specific country. What if all of us American women started jumping on that and saying how much better we are than that particular group? It is hogwash just because 8 of the 10 post my fiancee/wife ran off with another man once she arrived in the states, does not make every woman from that region a money grubbing, ho-bag that wanted a green card and free trip to the states. So I wish some would lay off the whole "I am better than you.........because" rubbish!

This is my personal opinion about the topic madame, it's my point of view and by any means not harsh to anyone reading it unless you are affected and hurt because it's true to you and by any means you are entitled to your own defensive opinion. That's why I said: I'm not saying this to offend all American women, this is based according to my personal encounter and experiences with dear hubby's she-friends. comprende??? And about the ho-bag, gold digger filipina..oh yeah we did condemn that lesbo madame, and we feel sorry for the Amerikano about it. God bless your heart ma'am and your briton hubby. There's no reason for you to be angry, because you aren't like them are you?? PEACE.

Wow, what a "patient," "sensitive" and "thoughtful" reply.

[Trompe le Monde 1,107]

very sensitive and thoughtful indeed.

[Kez/JWolf 6]

I'm not saying this to offend all American women, this is based according to my personal encounter and experiences with dear hubby's she-friends. comprende???

OMG and all that comes from someone who claims to be a lady with good maners.... wow oh and by the way I AM NOT SAYING THIS TO OFFEND ANY FILLOPINA WOMEN.... BUT IS IT NOT TRUE THAT AMERICAN MEN ONLY WANT THEM BECAUSE THEY ALL LOOK LIKE LITTLE GIRLS......

Of cousre maybe its just because that who you fell in love with.... but who knows.... does it make you a better person than me..... NO

Kez

[Louwelyn ALLen 0]

I was in class last week discussing political views on our immigration system here in the U.S., with men and women petitioning relatives especially fiancees to enter the U.S. Some of the outspoken opinions were very mannerable and calm, while majority of the others were choatic and harsh. For example, one woman stated that, "men should not be able to bring a woman in from another country because all they want is slaves, the 60's and 50's are long gone!" So to get our mines off our fiancees for a little bit if we can, lol, I welcome your insight on this particular view?

Thanks,

Austin

There is a time for everything. A time to forgive and a time to forget the painful relationships in the past. A time to pick up the the broken pieces and start a new life. A time find a real woman who will stick by your side rain or shine.

Dear hubby has never been so proud than being married to a foreign spouse. Let me tell you why according to my personal opinion. I am inside out every inch a foreign spouse and a Filipina. And the reason why dear hubby chose to travel 11,000 miles away from where he lives is because he was looking for a gem. Not all that glitters in your own backyard are gems, if you all know what I’m trying to mean.

Filipinas have this glowing womanhood image of frugality, faithfulness, sensitivity, patience, perseverance, thoughtfulness and diligence. We appreciate hard work and do not believe in divorce, we are willing understand and do extra sacrifices. If this isn’t true, then why does USCIS marriage statisitics report that “ marriages from foreign spouses have lower divorce rate than the nation as a whole?” …”fully 80% of these marriages having lasted over the years for which reports are available. This isn’t a just a word of mouth, It’s somehow true.

I don’t blame dear hubby’s she-friends criticizing him about our relationship.. that’s all they are-- closed-minded, hypocrite, arrogant, ignorant, brat and rude. I’m not saying this to offend all American women, this is based according to my personal encounter and experiences with dear hubby’s she-friends. They're dying from envy..lol.

It isn’t about wanting a wife to be a slave. It isn’t about marrying someone submissive and weak. It’s about building a lasting relationship, it’s about reality and the truth is that American men found that relationship from a foreign spouse, a seasoned rock in a foreign land. .

I daresay that not all filipina married to foreigner is a successful marriage too.There are many filipina out there living like a slaved.I do not know where?I know too there are few filipina who is not good too.(like what u said sir?)But these are there choiced but you ca not blame them if they are not voicing this out! because they have a family to care about..(talking like sacrifices)we need the foreigner as like we need to breathed the air of life..but it doent mean ....we are stupid.We just dont have all the privileged and I am just new here.Even me ...i still do not know my hubby yet..but im learning to know him better so far he is good & kind to me.I worked the household chores but i did not find myself a slaved..he did not command me i just worked it coming from my heart because i am now belong to this family.I lived with his son 16 years old.And i do not have problem with him so far we are happy & contented.

So i do not see any reasons why..they are against it? Visit My Website

[dave_ehssa 0]

I was in class last week discussing political views on our immigration system here in the U.S., with men and women petitioning relatives especially fiancees to enter the U.S. Some of the outspoken opinions were very mannerable and calm, while majority of the others were choatic and harsh. For example, one woman stated that, "men should not be able to bring a woman in from another country because all they want is slaves, the 60's and 50's are long gone!" So to get our mines off our fiancees for a little bit if we can, lol, I welcome your insight on this particular view?

Thanks,

Austin

There is a time for everything. A time to forgive and a time to forget the painful relationships in the past. A time to pick up the the broken pieces and start a new life. A time find a real woman who will stick by your side rain or shine.

Dear hubby has never been so proud than being married to a foreign spouse. Let me tell you why according to my personal opinion. I am inside out every inch a foreign spouse and a Filipina. And the reason why dear hubby chose to travel 11,000 miles away from where he lives is because he was looking for a gem. Not all that glitters in your own backyard are gems, if you all know what I’m trying to mean.

Filipinas have this glowing womanhood image of frugality, faithfulness, sensitivity, patience, perseverance, thoughtfulness and diligence. We appreciate hard work and do not believe in divorce, we are willing understand and do extra sacrifices. If this isn’t true, then why does USCIS marriage statisitics report that “ marriages from foreign spouses have lower divorce rate than the nation as a whole?” …”fully 80% of these marriages having lasted over the years for which reports are available. This isn’t a just a word of mouth, It’s somehow true.

I don’t blame dear hubby’s she-friends criticizing him about our relationship.. that’s all they are-- closed-minded, hypocrite, arrogant, ignorant, brat and rude. I’m not saying this to offend all American women, this is based according to my personal encounter and experiences with dear hubby’s she-friends. They're dying from envy..lol.

It isn’t about wanting a wife to be a slave. It isn’t about marrying someone submissive and weak. It’s about building a lasting relationship, it’s about reality and the truth is that American men found that relationship from a foreign spouse, a seasoned rock in a foreign land. .

I daresay that not all filipina married to foreigner is a successful marriage too.There are many filipina out there living like a slaved.I do not know where?I know too there are few filipina who is not good too.(like what u said sir?)But these are there choiced but you ca not blame them if they are not voicing this out! because they have a family to care about..(talking like sacrifices)we need the foreigner as like we need to breathed the air of life..but it doent mean ....we are stupid.We just dont have all the privileged and I am just new here.Even me ...i still do not know my hubby yet..but im learning to know him better so far he is good & kind to me.I worked the household chores but i did not find myself a slaved..he did not command me i just worked it coming from my heart because i am now belong to this family.I lived with his son 16 years old.And i do not have problem with him so far we are happy & contented.

So i do not see any reasons why..they are against it? Visit My Website

For me...everywhere ..i mean in any country there is bad and good people. But i like Filipino values...still existing..respect to elders and women. Using polite words, thoughtful and humble. Before when i was in college never thought of marrying a foriegner..coz generally i was thinking that foreigners were bad people but i wasnt true when i met them. I was teaching in a school were i have different students..foreigners. met their parents some were nice and some were'nt. I dont know...dont want to judge them..maybe im wrong or im right. Just dont want to say something coz there r bad people even in our country.Since there r people like that, u can start living in a right way so people can see u that living in God's way is a good thing. My hubby is so nice. Very good guy. Respectful, caring and loving.

But when talking about LOVe...if we fall in love???? doesnt choose color, age,race, language, etc...when two hearts and soul meet and find each other...u cannot stop them...For me its not easy to leave my family...i have a wonderful family, very sweet..we live in a small house, we r happy...very important thing in this world is to live with a happy home...very special place. And coz i need to leave them and be with my hubby...and start my own....the reason to be here in US is to be with him...HE IS MY HAPPINESS AND HE IS MY HOME!

[almaty 19]

who started this sh!t..Matako?

[Mirorgate 0]

who started this sh!t..Matako?

I blame Bush... or the lack there of

[mRx 16]

who started this sh!t..Matako?

albeit being a troll, some of Matako's antics were quite humorous. Ill admit it.

[Nagishkaw 510]

You can't blame mawilson this time.

[Nancy2015 2]

This has nothing to do with "Filipinas" specifically. Take note there are many a foreign man married to an American woman on just this board alone.

My husband had every English woman in town tossing a hissy fit when they found out he had met and was marrying an American woman. I was nit picked with a fine tooth comb for any possible flaw they could find!

I am faithfull, thoughtful, patient, sensitive and want a lasting relatioship with my husband as well.........does that make me a filipina?

Every time this topic comes up I want to scream...THERE ARE GOOD MEN AND WOMEN FROM ANY COUNTRY IN THE WORLD.

So you got one bad apple and have to travel thousands of miles to find a spouse? This still doesn't make sense. My personal story I did not go looking for a foreign spouse, it just happened we met and fell in love. To each his own but I would not go in search of a spouse anywhere in the world, it just seems like desperation to me.

Many post in the forum for life in America after arrival, that have a fiancee running off a moment after she arrives are typically from one specific country. What if all of us American women started jumping on that and saying how much better we are than that particular group? It is hogwash just because 8 of the 10 post my fiancee/wife ran off with another man once she arrived in the states, does not make every woman from that region a money grubbing, ho-bag that wanted a green card and free trip to the states. So I wish some would lay off the whole "I am better than you.........because" rubbish!

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[Caladan 19]

How truly bizarre.

[Fandango 1,440]

When the two foreign countries are vastly different in economic stability, etc...the American has a lot more 'buying power' overseas.

Anyone who can't recognize that is being silly