Help! Need advice!

[cdneh 3,112]

23 minutes ago, David & Zoila said:

You must tell your gf.  She may be questioned at her interview and she must have the correct answer.  You also must answer each and every question posed by the government with complete honesty.  Lying includes leaving out pertinent information.  ALWAYS BE HONEST...NEVER LIE.   And one more thing...  What in the world were you thinking when you hired a prostitute?!  Seriously? 

This gentleman is here asking about his case. What he was, or was not thinking, isn't germane. VJ is a place to get assistance and ask questions, not have your character judged. Whatever we might think about the situation, what happened is between him, and his fiancee. And USCIS. They may judge, but it isn't our place to do that.

 

OP: You absolutely need to tell her the truth, and you absolutely need to tick the box inquiring as to your arrest.

[Boiler 43,700]

I would search the forum, can not imagine this is not a common issue and must have come up before.

[Illiria 980]

8 hours ago, luisarm1234 said:

Hello, 

 

This happen when me and her were together for 5 months already. Also this happen 1 year and 4 months ago

They may ask her when you told her about the arrest, as has happened for those who are convicted of other offenses. The fact that you didn't tell her right away might weigh into their consideration at the embassy. She has to be completely honest with them and may be asked to described how and why she got past what you did/intended to do. 

 

I think you have to talk to her first, to know if there will still be a petition to make. 

 

It might be best to wait on the petition and tell her, have some couples therapy to ensure you are both on the same page going forward, then proceed with immigration thoughts. 

[JFH 12,189]

21 hours ago, luisjohn123 said:

 

 

And also if the CO will determine my relationship with her is fake due to my past mistake. Thanks for the help guys. really appreciate it.

Your "past mistake", as you like to call it, may or may not affect your application. However the CO who interviews your fiancée will not be happy if you have not been honest with her. They are required to make sure that fiancées are aware of any past criminal activity of the petitioner. A bona fide relationship is one based on honesty. If I were her, it wouldn't be the arrest that bothered me, but the deceit on your part not to tell me. 

 

My my husband has a felony and although I was fully aware of this from the early days of our relationship I was questioned about it at the embassy. And this was for a spousal visa where the IMBRA rules do not apply. But still the CO was concerned that I should be fully aware. 

Edited June 10, 2017 by JFH

[NYCruiser 423]

22 hours ago, luisjohn123 said:

Hello everyone, 

 

Thanks for the advice and help. I know I have to tell my fiance about the misdeed I was doing. I know lying is not a good thing. Also just to let you guys know I am the petitioner and I am a US citizen. Also i will provide the police report and the disposition which a stamp on from the police. I wonder if this is enough evidence that it was dismiss and the reason for my arrest. Also I'm also concern if this will affect the application I am filing for my fiance. And also if the CO will determine my relationship with her is fake due to my past mistake. Thanks for the help guys. really appreciate it.

100% disclose yes. That is tick the box yes to arrests plus include all copies of the case disposition, not just the court record. Disclose to your Laotian Fiance before you submit in case she has second thoughts about the relationship or put things on hold. That way you are not out of $$ for the application.

 

Both USC and the foreign born fiance(e) are subject to rigorous checks by USCIS and State.

[DILAW 94]

The biggest thing for her should be how many times you did it and didn't get caught, what assures her you wont do it in the future.  To be honest with you and I am sorry to say this, but if she takes it well and doesn't seem bothered deeply by it, then she doesn't love you.  Either way, good luck and I hope you get it worked out with her without being concerned with this visa. 

[Merly labra 0]

Hello just want to get some advice about  problems  as my birth year its different from my passport when i got my visa it was written 1999 instead of 1990, just worried now cuz my plane ticket is already purchased.. thanks

[Redheadguy03 505]

1 minute ago, Merly labra said:

Hello just want to get some advice about  problems  as my birth year its different from my passport when i got my visa it was written 1999 instead of 1990, just worried now cuz my plane ticket is already purchased.. thanks

You need to get it fixed. Contact the embassy, it should be an easy fix. 

[Merly labra 0]

4 minutes ago, Redheadguy03 said:

You need to get it fixed. Contact the embassy, it should be an easy fix. 

Thanks appreciated i was sending emailed already the day i received my visa but haven't heard yet  im very worried now because im leaving on Saturday june 17 early 

[Redheadguy03 505]

57 minutes ago, Merly labra said:

Thanks appreciated i was sending emailed already the day i received my visa but haven't heard yet  im very worried now because im leaving on Saturday june 17 early 

You definitely shouldn't buy your ticket until you get the visa and verify it's all the information is correct. For that very reason!  If I were you I'd try calling the embassy and speaking with someone, I have no idea it would take to get a new one printed. I wouldn't think it would take long, but you're definitely leaving soon.