I got slapped in my ear and face

[begood 8]

Hi I feel very bad, I can't sleep thinking about my situation, he 'husband' was arrested for domestic violence months ago, I had no experience or knowledge to do anything, the case was dropped , he asked for forgiveness, I gave him a chance , and he came back to the house, he was nice in short time, then now he is totally different and worse than anytime before, he insulted me 2 days ago, I take it especially there is a trip between us to see some family overseas and to do some work for myself , I'm not working yet , he is the one and only support for me, after when he insulted 2 days ago, he made me very nervous I started screaming until he slapped me for the first time on my face, I asked him for divorce because the relationship is over since he put his hand on my face, I knew he is not going to ask for aplogise , I didn't do anything blaming myself why I was tripping and screaming when he insult me until he slapped me , today i was trying to forget whats happened days ago, he came to the house still angry, he wanted to fight again, I was talking to him because I'm stupid I should not be speaking to somebody who slapped me, I don't remember well how fight was strong until he gave me another slap in my ear, face, it was hard I was shocked at point that I run to the room, to call the police, I was thinking do I have to call the police or no, I take time, just thinking while I was in big shock, he wanted to leave the house, I followed him he spit in my face, he left the house, then he come back asking where the police? I'm ready! I don't know why I didn't call the police, I can't sleep thinking about how disrespectful woman I'm , how can I now live in the same small house with him? I wish if I have job to be able to leave him as quick as possible? I feel I'm the only women she is going through this situation, I never been disrespectful from somebody, but now I'm

[TBoneTX 43,184]

Move out immediately into a women's shelter. Remove yourself from the abuse, as the highest priority.

[Boiler 43,570]

Seems the OP is a PR so no immigration issues.

[begood 8]

Move out immediately into a women's shelter. Remove yourself from the abuse, as the highest priority.

the first time when i called the police , he didn't slap me, this time i got very hard slap the slap made my ear and face and mouth all together hurting me, when i get up if i sleep hopefully there is no mark left,he sleep every day very loud like a baby, i take a sleep aid but i still cant sleep very well, he feel very strong now since he slapped me the first time and he repeated it, i want a divorce like i told him , i want to remove myself from the abuse

[Boiler 43,570]

Move out immediately into a women's shelter. Remove yourself from the abuse, as the highest priority.

Then follow this advice.

[begood 8]

Seems the OP is a PR so no immigration issues.

Im CR1 visa, he do not cooperate at all with me for any future immigration process , but no problem, anything but having the courage to slap me twice and spit on me in 3 days

[begood 8]

there is a lot of signs he is cheating , having an affair, he stopped answering his phone inside the house, stopped socializing, angry,....... i feel he hate me and cant wait to see me outside of the house,

please how can i remove myself from the abuse this time ?

[Boiler 43,570]

Leave

[begood 8]

Leave

leave ? go to shelter or go to my home country ?i was supposed to go next coming months to my home, now i cant do that because i need to have my own job to do that,

[Tim/Mav 305]

Immigrating to the US does not mean your a designated Punching Bag for an A__Hole! That appears the way you are being treated. Get the hell out! What date is he planning on finally killing you?

[Glyn and Kathy 288]

MOVE OUT!!! LEAVE!! Get yourself to a women's shelter. The abuse will only get worse. I'm very sorry for your situation. Keep yourself safe.

[NikLR 13,220]

Why are you on here talking about this instead of going to a women's shelter? You do not have to live with someone who you feel is abusing you.

You are also cr1 and do not need vawa.

[Lauren and Kevin 55]

Not going to judge either way here. Whether he slapped you to stop you screaming in his face, there is no excuse for physical or emotional violence in a relationship (from either side). Ever.

(and I regard your screaming in his face as emotional violence)

Once your partner Man or Woman does this, the respect is gone and will never return, and the relationship is over. You are both doing this, so it's completely broken.

Staying in the same small house with the situation unchanged will mean it will happen again. You only have control over your own actions - google a woman's refuge in your area, go there, and once you are in a safe calm environment, work out what to do next.

Edited December 30, 2014 by Lauren and Kevin

[mrsangie 1]

Do you have any friend that could help you

[Coach217 0]

Hi I feel very bad, I can't sleep thinking about my situation, he 'husband' was arrested for domestic violence months ago, I had no experience or knowledge to do anything, the case was dropped , he asked for forgiveness, I gave him a chance , and he came back to the house, he was nice in short time, then now he is totally different and worse than anytime before, he insulted me 2 days ago, I take it especially there is a trip between us to see some family overseas and to do some work for myself , I'm not working yet , he is the one and only support for me, after when he insulted 2 days ago, he made me very nervous I started screaming until he slapped me for the first time on my face, I asked him for divorce because the relationship is over since he put his hand on my face, I knew he is not going to ask for aplogise , I didn't do anything blaming myself why I was tripping and screaming when he insult me until he slapped me , today i was trying to forget whats happened days ago, he came to the house still angry, he wanted to fight again, I was talking to him because I'm stupid I should not be speaking to somebody who slapped me, I don't remember well how fight was strong until he gave me another slap in my ear, face, it was hard I was shocked at point that I run to the room, to call the police, I was thinking do I have to call the police or no, I take time, just thinking while I was in big shock, he wanted to leave the house, I followed him he spit in my face, he left the house, then he come back asking where the police? I'm ready! I don't know why I didn't call the police, I can't sleep thinking about how disrespectful woman I'm , how can I now live in the same small house with him? I wish if I have job to be able to leave him as quick as possible? I feel I'm the only women she is going through this situation, I never been disrespectful from somebody, but now I'm

Pack up and run run run....there are many shelters out there...go to one.