I want a divorce

[asthania 4]

My fiancé came here in April using a k1 visa . We got married, he received his work permit but the green card is in process. We didn't go to an interview yet. I want to divorce him and make sure he goes back to his native country. How can I do that? Any advice? I was thinking abt calling immigration to come get him, but he is not illegal

[clairegie 265]

You need to get in touch with USCIS asap and withdraw the I-864 to kill the petition.

[Cody and Daisy 373]

First of all, that is horrible.

coming from a fiances point of view you cannot turf us away and send us away like an unwanted puppy.

also wanting to call immigration on us? I am lost for words.

I won't judge on you because I obviously don't know your reasons for wanting a divorce, but it gets sad when I see people treating those of us

who come over in what was good faith be treated like you can send us back like a gift you didn't like.

If you divorce BEFORE AOS is approved then yes this person will probably be deported.

You have to contact USCIS and withdraw your support/application.

Someone should be along to explain it better.

[asthania 4]

Why struggle to live with someone who clearly does want to be with you? It's better to react early than to suffer all your life. Marriage is supposed to be happiness not pain.

If he gets deported how will I obtain a divorce from him?

[Cody and Daisy 373]

My comments had nothing to do with your reasoning, I take no opinion in them because they are true to you.

My comments were with your choice for words to do with deportation.

You should divorce him before deportation.

Does he know you want a divorce so soon?

[asthania 4]

I haven't told him yet

[lolo83421 9]

Asthania is the only person who knows what her situation is and it is unfair for us to come on this forum and judge her. Everyone's situation is not the same. Just give God thanks that you are not facing any problem in your own relationship that would cause a change of heart.

[Cody and Daisy 373]

I've already said twice I am not judging her relationship.

For all I know he's been awful to her which is why she feels like this.

I'm replying to the comments about wanting to send him away and calling immigration.

(And now I see this is before she even tells/told him she wants a divorce)

One cannot do that.

To call immigration on someone you brought over to marry not matter the circumstances is wrong.

If my husband did that to me no matter what I did would break me in half.

Anyway.

You need to tell him you want a divorce, get a divorce lawyer, and withdraw your support.

Best bet is to call uscis and get information from them on what to do.

[asthania 4]

I don't want him to escape while the divorce is in process.

[NigeriaorBust 4,087]

Some people come here and are abused, other arrive and start abusing. Lucky for most of us we are not at these extremes. If the OP wants a divorce and NOT to be on the hook for this man for life possibly she can terminate the I864 and the AOS petition will be impossible. She should also be careful that he doesn't stage a fake VAWA claim as it ruins lives. Many people jump into things they aren't ready for. Neither the US person nor the foreigner should move based on a relationship they are not 100% certain of and they shouldn't go into this without extensive face to face time ( monitor to monitor is a poor imitation )

[Ontarkie 14,279]

~~Moved to Effects of Major Family Changes on Immigration Benefits, from K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & Procedures- As similar topics are discussed here.~~

~~Please stick to answering the question(s) asked with out the extra opinion.~~

[Ebunoluwa 6,136]

My fiancé came here in April using a k1 visa . We got married, he received his work permit but the green card is in process. We didn't go to an interview yet. I want to divorce him and make sure he goes back to his native country. How can I do that? Any advice? I was thinking abt calling immigration to come get him, but he is not illegal

If you want to divorce him then simply divorce him and withdraw the I-864. End of story.

You aren't immigration and can not deport him neither can you call immigration to have him 'picked up' and returned like a fed ex package.

[Pianist27 31]

You need to get in touch with USCIS asap and withdraw the I-864 to kill the petition.

You can't withdraw the I-864 once he has adjusted status - that's a bit ambiguous with your original post when you write his green card "is in process". If he hasn't adjusted status, then you can.

Edited September 27, 2014 by Pianist27

[NigeriaorBust 4,087]

If AOS hasn't been approved she can withdraw the I864 if she acts quickly

[asthania 4]

The application is in process. But no approval letter has arrived yet.but also if we don't attend the interview, doesn't it put the case on hold?