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LucianoDavid   1

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Hi

I dont know this is the right place to ask about this, but since its related to the K1 visa, im posting here.

If the mods think its not the right place for this topic, please, change it to another thread!

Im from Brazil and my fiance is from NC. We are together since 2010,and now that DOMA dont exist, he sent the I-129F package to the USCIS.

I found out he has cheated on me, and I no longer want to be with him,and asked him to withdraw the petition, but he says he's always busy.

Can I call USCIS and withdraw it,being the beneficiary?

Thanks in advance

Mid 2007: First "Hi" online.
Jun 05 2010: First met in person
Jun 07 2010: He Proposed, I said YES
Jun 12 2010: He Flew back to The USA
Jul 17 2010: He Came here to see me for the second time.
Aug 26 2010: He Flew back to The USA.
Oct 22 2010: He came here to see me for the third time.
Jan 22 2011: He Flew back to The USA.
Mar 27 2011: He came here to see me for the fourth time.
Mar 28 2011: He went back to The USA (Stayed here in Rio for only 1 day, very romantic :) )
May 21 2011: He came here to see me for the Fifth Time.
May 23 2011: He went back to USA.
Aug 11 2011: He came here to see me for the sixth time.
Aug 13 2011: He went back to USA.
Nov 06 2011: He came here to see me for the seventh time.
Apr 07 2012: He came here to see me for the eight time.
Apr 14 2012: He Flew back home to USA
Sep 08 2012: He came here to see me for the ninth time
Sep 14 2012: He Flew back home to USA :(
Jun 21 2013: He Came here to see me for the Tenth time.
Jun 26 2013: He went back home to USA.
Jan 23 2014: He came here to see me for the 11th time.
Jan 29 2014: He went back home to USA
Mar 13 2014: K1 Visa Package sent to USCIS
Mar 20 2014: NOA1
Aug 29 2014: NOA2 (No RFE's)
Oct 07 2014: Packt 4 sent to my e-mail
Nov 10 2014: Medical Exams
Nov 16 2014: My baby will arrive here in Rio :)
Nov 18 2014: Interview

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Harpa Timsah Grand Master

Harpa Timsah   13,258

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Sorry to hear that. You can't withdraw it, but you aren't obligated to do anything more with it, like apply for the visa. Just don't continue. Best of luck.

AOS for my husband
8/17/10: INTERVIEW DAY (day 123) APPROVED!!

ROC:
5/23/12: Sent out package
2/06/13: APPROVED!

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Pitaya   2,576

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~Moved from K1 Process to Effects of Major Family Changes on Immigration Benefits Forum~

~Similar topics are often discussed at this forum~

Completed: K1/K2 (271 days) - AOS/EAD/AP (134 days) - ROC (279 days)

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Hotter Otter   1,211

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The petition not being withdrawn is only a problem if the beneficiary falls for another USC and files another K1 soonish right?

My blog about my visa journey and adjusting to my new life in the US http://albiontoamerica.wordpress.com/

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Harpa Timsah Grand Master

Harpa Timsah   13,258

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The petition not being withdrawn is only a problem if the beneficiary falls for another USC and files another K1 soonish right?

Yes, an approved I-129F petition will most likely just expire after a few months. I have seen a few where the consul said an old petition was still active, but that's rare.

AOS for my husband
8/17/10: INTERVIEW DAY (day 123) APPROVED!!

ROC:
5/23/12: Sent out package
2/06/13: APPROVED!

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LucianoDavid   1

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Thank you for your answers

Well, unfortunately I cannot with draw the petition being the beneficiary then

I will just let it go then

I told him to withdraw it

I dont want to go to America anymore since we are not together anymore

Mid 2007: First "Hi" online.
Jun 05 2010: First met in person
Jun 07 2010: He Proposed, I said YES
Jun 12 2010: He Flew back to The USA
Jul 17 2010: He Came here to see me for the second time.
Aug 26 2010: He Flew back to The USA.
Oct 22 2010: He came here to see me for the third time.
Jan 22 2011: He Flew back to The USA.
Mar 27 2011: He came here to see me for the fourth time.
Mar 28 2011: He went back to The USA (Stayed here in Rio for only 1 day, very romantic :) )
May 21 2011: He came here to see me for the Fifth Time.
May 23 2011: He went back to USA.
Aug 11 2011: He came here to see me for the sixth time.
Aug 13 2011: He went back to USA.
Nov 06 2011: He came here to see me for the seventh time.
Apr 07 2012: He came here to see me for the eight time.
Apr 14 2012: He Flew back home to USA
Sep 08 2012: He came here to see me for the ninth time
Sep 14 2012: He Flew back home to USA :(
Jun 21 2013: He Came here to see me for the Tenth time.
Jun 26 2013: He went back home to USA.
Jan 23 2014: He came here to see me for the 11th time.
Jan 29 2014: He went back home to USA
Mar 13 2014: K1 Visa Package sent to USCIS
Mar 20 2014: NOA1
Aug 29 2014: NOA2 (No RFE's)
Oct 07 2014: Packt 4 sent to my e-mail
Nov 10 2014: Medical Exams
Nov 16 2014: My baby will arrive here in Rio :)
Nov 18 2014: Interview

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(F) U will meet the right one. Don't let this deter you. Wishing you the best of luck!

Love is a gift and not to be earned, therefore one should never hold any regrets for giving love regardless of the outcome...

http://www.whitehouse.gov/share/immigration-and-economy?utm_source=email&utm_medium=email&utm_content=email221-text1&utm_campaign=immigration

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Mckenziemick   2

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My Wife of 4 years is having an affair. Where do I stand with all the support I am obligated to .It's been awhile since I've been here and I forgot how to navigate the site so surely I'm posting in the wrong place..I am so emotionally drained now could someone direct me to the right thread?

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Ebunoluwa   6,136

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My Wife of 4 years is having an affair. Where do I stand with all the support I am obligated to .It's been awhile since I've been here and I forgot how to navigate the site so surely I'm posting in the wrong place..I am so emotionally drained now could someone direct me to the right thread?

You can click on this link and post where it says 'start new topic' on the top right of the forum.

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/forum/127-effects-of-major-family-changes-on-immigration-benefits/

Ask your specific questions there. Sorry you are going through this. Going " through" means one day coming out of it for better days ahead.

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I-129F Sent : 3-31-2014, NOA2: 4-6-2014

NVC Received : some dinkelsberry yehoo in the house of clingons send our petition to the wrong consulate.

Consulate Received : July 30,2014 Transfer to right embassy complete.

Interview Date : Oct 22, 2014

Interview Result : AP , requesting another PC (not expired) and certified divorce decree (was submitted)Stokes interview via phone for petitioner 4 hrs after interview.

Oct 23 email notification visa approved.
Visa Received : Nov. 3 , 2014 VISA IN HAND.

US Entry : Nov. 21, 2014

Marriage : Dec 27, 2014

AOS send : May 12, 2015, received May 14, 2015 USPS priority

Email &text : May 18, 2015, check cashed May 19,2015, return receipt May 21, 2015 stamped USCIS Lockbox, NOA1 (3x) May 22,2015

Biometrics : June 1, 2015 letter received for appointment June 8, 2015, successful walk-in June 1, 2015

RFE : June 12, 2015 for income not meeting guideline. Income does ( ! ) exceed guideline.

RFE response : June 26, 2015 returned with a boat load full of financial evidence.

UPDATE: July 5, 2015 updated on all 3 cases, RFE received June 30, 2015.

Service request : Aug 12, 2015, letter received that it will be processed within 90 days from receipt of RFE.

UPDATE: Aug 24, 2015, EAD card being produced/ordered. ( 102 days from AOS receipt day and 55 days from RFE response received.) Thank you Jesus !

Emails : Aug 24, 2015, EAD approved, EAD card ordered.

I-797 EAD/AP approval notice received : Aug 27, 2015

EAD/AP combo card mailed : Aug 27, 2015, EAD/AP combo card received: Aug 31, 2015

Renewal application send for EAD/AP : May 31,2016 (AOS pending over 1 year). Received June 2, 2016,Notice date June7, 2016, emails,texts, NOA1 hard copy

Service request for pending AOS April 21, 2016, case not assigned yet.
Service request for pending AOS June 14, 2016, tier 2 said performing background checks.
Expedite request for EAD/AP Aug 3, 2016, Aug10 notification >request was received, assigned, completed. RFE letter requesting evidence for expedite, docs faxed Aug18

*Service request for I-485 Aug 3, 2016, Aug11 notification> request was assigned. Service request Dec 2, 2016.
AOS Interview letter received Aug 12, 2016

AOS Interview September 21, 2016.

Second Biometrics appointment letters received for EAD and AOS on Aug 15, 2016 for Aug 17 ( 2 day notice).

Second Biometrics completed Aug 17, 2016

Third Biometrics appointment letter received Aug 19, 2016 for Sept. 1, 2016. WTH ?!

EAD/AP (renewal) approval Aug 22, 2016, NOA2 received Aug 25, 2016

Renewal EAD in production notification text and online, expedite successful 4 days after RFE request response was faxed, Aug25mailed,Aug29received.

Sept. 21 Interview, 2 hour interview, we were separated and asked about 50 questions each for an hour each. IO was firm but professional, some smiles.
Several service requests made, contacted Senator and Ombudsman. Background checks still pending.
July 21, 2017 HOME VISIT.  Went well. Topic thread in AOS forum.
Waiting to skip ROC and get 10 yr GC due to over 2 year while pending AOS
AOS APPROVED Oct. 4, 2017 * Green card in hand Oct 13, 2017 !!!!!

First K1 denied after 16 month of AP. Refiled. We are a couple since 2009. Not a sprint but a matter of endurance.

 

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I & B   273

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My Wife of 4 years is having an affair. Where do I stand with all the support I am obligated to .It's been awhile since I've been here and I forgot how to navigate the site so surely I'm posting in the wrong place..I am so emotionally drained now could someone direct me to the right thread?

You should probably start your own thread with the details of your situation.

See My Threads Below for More Info on the I-129F Processing Delays at the CSC

1. Mega Data Analysis Thread on Why I-129F Petitions Are Being Delayed at the CSC

2. Projections for the Extent of the Delay of I-129Fs at the CSC

3. My I-129F Delay Calculator Spreadsheet (V. 2.0) (Works for CSC and VSC Filers and Anyone Can Download It for Free)

4. My Guide to Contacting Your Elected Representative(s) About the I-129F Delays

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