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Missing my husband so bad there are times I really wanna call him or at least see him one more time inspite of what he did to me,I missed the days that he's really nice to me...Last I went to see my therapy I asked him if it a good idea if I will send a Christmas card to my husband and she said no she said If do that he might think that what he did to me is not that bad that I'm ok with it...

Also I sent Christmas card to his parents but I didn't get any response from them..his parents especially his mom was really sweet and we had a good relationship when me and husband are still good...but right now I don't know..

I was thinking that maybe they got mad at me because I made my a report of what my husband did to me..

Sorry I'm just depressed again..I will also see a psychiatrist next month my therapist cannot prescribed anti depressant/anti anxiety but Psychiatrist can do...

I really wanna forget that part of my life because its really painful but I still care about my husband.

So help me God :(

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Missing my husband so bad there are times I really wanna call him or at least see him one more time inspite of what he did to me,I missed the days that he's really nice to me...Last I went to see my therapy I asked him if it a good idea if I will send a Christmas card to my husband and she said no she said If do that he might think that what he did to me is not that bad that I'm ok with it...

Also I sent Christmas card to his parents but I didn't get any response from them..his parents especially his mom was really sweet and we had a good relationship when me and husband are still good...but right now I don't know..

I was thinking that maybe they got mad at me because I made my a report of what my husband did to me..

Sorry I'm just depressed again..I will also see a psychiatrist next month my therapist cannot prescribed anti depressant/anti anxiety but Psychiatrist can do...

I really wanna forget that part of my life because its really painful but I still care about my husband.

So help me God :(

Sorry about that. There's no problem that cant be solve. if you miss him so much call him, talk to him. i suggest you give LOVE a second chance! good luck.

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Sorry about that. There's no problem that cant be solve. if you miss him so much call him, talk to him. i suggest you give LOVE a second chance! good luck.

thanks..maybe one of this day I will....I will always have an open arms for him even after divorce...

I just missing him soo much :(

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thanks..maybe one of this day I will....I will always have an open arms for him even after divorce...

I just missing him soo much :(

you welcome. sounds good! maybe his feeling the same way as you do you never know. just call him and see how his doing. take care.

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you welcome. sounds good! maybe his feeling the same way as you do you never know. just call him and see how his doing. take care.

It make me feel a lil excited but i know my husband for sure he's really mad at me right now as he found out that I made a report of his abuse to me...oh life oh life

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Sounds like you miss something that doesn't exist anymore. An "abusive husband" is not "a nice husband" anymore, these two terms cannot coexist, they exclud each other. Do you understand what I mean? Is picking up the phone and calling a good idea?You decide. But the reality is - you would be calling an abuser. That's what your spouse has become.


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Sounds like you miss something that doesn't exist anymore. An "abusive husband" is not "a nice husband" anymore, these two terms cannot coexist, they exclud each other. Do you understand what I mean? Is picking up the phone and calling a good idea?You decide. But the reality is - you would be calling an abuser. That's what your spouse has become.

I know.. thats why I'm trying hard not to but its like a heart vs. mind...reality vs fantasy...

thanks

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I suggest each time you feel you are missing him ?

Hit yerself with a taser for 10 seconds.

It's in-expensive, but effective, electro-shock therapy.

Over time, you won't have these feelings anymore, as your sub-conscious understands that to miss him represents physical pain.


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I suggest each time you feel you are missing him ?

Hit yerself with a taser for 10 seconds.

It's in-expensive, but effective, electro-shock therapy.

Over time, you won't have these feelings anymore, as your sub-conscious understands that to miss him represents physical pain.

if he beat you up physically then he was abusive. International relationships have high rates of failure. due to many many issues. if you are in the divorce process. good luck. time will heal your wounds. who knows you may end up marrying again. you will always feel something for your ex husband. because thats normal. time will heal the wounds.

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I suggest each time you feel you are missing him ?

Hit yerself with a taser for 10 seconds.

It's in-expensive, but effective, electro-shock therapy.

Over time, you won't have these feelings anymore, as your sub-conscious understands that to miss him represents physical pain.

Where I can get one?? :D

I slap my self every time I'm tempting to call him that's why I don't put my phone or laptop close to me at night or else I will dial as fast as I can lol....

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any personal security store, or spy shop.

You could ask a friend to get one for you - is also great personal protection, to use against any attacker.


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if he beat you up physically then he was abusive. International relationships have high rates of failure. due to many many issues. if you are in the divorce process. good luck. time will heal your wounds. who knows you may end up marrying again. you will always feel something for your ex husband. because thats normal. time will heal the wounds.

No he never beat me physically....he just hit my laptop.throw stuff,disconnected internet.dont give me access to see my friend isolate me.never bought grocery food and kicked me out of the house i stayed home no job and no car....I suspect he's seeing his somebody else....

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