Can i withdraw co sponsorship after a 10 yrs GC to the husband

[NiNi123 0]

Hello All

I need your advise and this situation.

Make the store short. My sister sponsored her husband over to the U.S. He automatic got his 10yrs GC. She is just gave birth to their first child. Just a week old. Her husband want to leave her after he got his green card. As a co sponsor for my sister, I want to withdraw the Affidavit of support. IS that possible? also, can my sister deport him? She feel hurt that he has been decieve her alongs just for the GC. And she is just gave birth. The issues is that she want him to go work and bring home money to help her out with the child instead of depending on her mother income. He got mad and threated and want to leave her, if she continued pushing him to go find a job. Please help. Thank you. Most people said that we can't do anything. There got to be a way to protect those who sponsor this type of person. Who later find out to be a lier. Which we thought he is honest and love my sister. It is all a setup. My sister is deeply hurt and now she has his baby.

Thank you.

Edited August 28, 2012 by NiNi123

[Cesar & Cata 35]

Hello All

I need your advise and this situation.

Make the store short. My sister sponsored her husband over to the U.S. He automatic got his 10yrs GC. She is just gave birth to their first child. Just a week old. Her husband want to leave her after he got his green card. As a co sponsor for my sister, I want to withdraw the Affidavit of support. IS that possible? also, can my sister deport him? She feel hurt that he has been decieve her alongs just for the GC. And she is just gave birth. The issues is that she want him to go work and bring home money to help her out with the child instead of depending on her mother income. He got mad and threated and want to leave her, if she continued pushing him to go find a job. Please help. Thank you. Most people said that we can't do anything. There got to be a way to protect those who sponsor this type of person. Who later find out to be a lier. Which we thought he is honest and love my sister. It is all a setup. My sister is deeply hurt and now she has his baby.

Thank you.

I am very sorry to hear of these situations, and really feel for your sister and her new born baby. But from everything i have read on this forum, regarding the AOS, it is really a binding 10 year agreement that you will be held accountable for, even after they are divorced.

As to get him deported that will be very difficult (considering he is not even on conditional status), she will need to prove that he married her only to gain immigration status, and with a baby, sounds even less likely. On the other hand why would she want him deported, she should just take him to court for child support and make him get to work, if she gets him deported he probably wont have the chance to help at all.

Best of luck.

[danzz 11]

I think the contract you sign for the AOS is pretty specific about the fact that there are only 3 ways to get out of it:

-He dies.

-He leaves the US permanently.

-He becomes a citizen.

Also it seems from what you're saying that it's not like he got GC and wants to leave now that he has it but he wants others to support him or he leaves. Is that an ####### move? absolutely! but i'm not sure it's immigration fraud.

[NiNi123 0]

I am very sorry to hear of these situations, and really feel for your sister and her new born baby. But from everything i have read on this forum, regarding the AOS, it is really a binding 10 year agreement that you will be held accountable for, even after they are divorced.

As to get him deported that will be very difficult (considering he is not even on conditional status), she will need to prove that he married her only to gain immigration status, and with a baby, sounds even less likely. On the other hand why would she want him deported, she should just take him to court for child support and make him get to work, if she gets him deported he probably wont have the chance to help at all.

Best of luck.

Thank you.

What if he turned around and want to take her baby with him just to get the welfare and medical and all the benefit through a baby.

Is not fair for her and her co sponsor. Also, what if he don't want to get a divorce? Thank you

[Anh map 2,098]

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No, you cannot withdraw your sponsorship.

If your sister can provide good evidence that he only used her for a green card then she could report him to ICE and perhaps he could be convicted of fraud and deported.

It sounds like your BIL needs to get off the lazy train. If he wants to sponge off your family then tell him no and to get a job. If it leads to divorce, so be it.

[del-2-5-2014 1,339]

Hello All

I need your advise and this situation.

Make the store short. My sister sponsored her husband over to the U.S. He automatic got his 10yrs GC. She is just gave birth to their first child. Just a week old. Her husband want to leave her after he got his green card. As a co sponsor for my sister, I want to withdraw the Affidavit of support. IS that possible? also, can my sister deport him? She feel hurt that he has been decieve her alongs just for the GC. And she is just gave birth. The issues is that she want him to go work and bring home money to help her out with the child instead of depending on her mother income. He got mad and threated and want to leave her, if she continued pushing him to go find a job. Please help. Thank you. Most people said that we can't do anything. There got to be a way to protect those who sponsor this type of person. Who later find out to be a lier. Which we thought he is honest and love my sister. It is all a setup. My sister is deeply hurt and now she has his baby.

Thank you.

Sir, did you read the deatiled instrucions for the I-864 before signing it?

[pushbrk 12,103]

Hello All

I need your advise and this situation.

Make the store short. My sister sponsored her husband over to the U.S. He automatic got his 10yrs GC. She is just gave birth to their first child. Just a week old. Her husband want to leave her after he got his green card. As a co sponsor for my sister, I want to withdraw the Affidavit of support. IS that possible? also, can my sister deport him? She feel hurt that he has been decieve her alongs just for the GC. And she is just gave birth. The issues is that she want him to go work and bring home money to help her out with the child instead of depending on her mother income. He got mad and threated and want to leave her, if she continued pushing him to go find a job. Please help. Thank you. Most people said that we can't do anything. There got to be a way to protect those who sponsor this type of person. Who later find out to be a lier. Which we thought he is honest and love my sister. It is all a setup. My sister is deeply hurt and now she has his baby.

Thank you.

No, you cannot withdraw your sponsorship. Unless your sister has compelling evidence the marriage was fraudulent on his part, it's unlikely there's anything she could do that would result in his deportation. The concept is that if they've been married for two years, that was supposed to be sufficient time to work out any issues with the validity of the marriage. Sounds like her best bet is to first, decide if she want to terminate the marriage. If she does, she can do so. If he is no longer in her life, he will most likely find a way to take care of himself. If he does, neither affidavit of support will come into play anyway.

[Anh map 2,098]

Thank you.

What if he turned around and want to take her baby with him just to get the welfare and medical and all the benefit through a baby.

Is not fair for her and her co sponsor. Also, what if he don't want to get a divorce? Thank you

She can petition for divorce and 100% custody of the child. So all he can do is pay support money.

If you believe that the divorce path is most likely, contact a qualified family law attorney. Don't settle for someone that is a friend or close by. Get good advice and let him have it!

[NiNi123 0]

She can petition for divorce and 100% custody of the child. So all he can do is pay support money.

If you believe that the divorce path is most likely, contact a qualified family law attorney. Don't settle for someone that is a friend or close by. Get good advice and let him have it!

Thank you

One question if he decided to go out there and applt for the government benefit such as welfare, foodstamp, housing, etcc.. Can he be qualified? will the place check to see if he had a sponsor? I afraid he will do it behind our back if the government didn't check. And me and my cosponsor will be liable, Can we stop it?

Thank you again.

[Anh map 2,098]

Thank you

One question if he decided to go out there and applt for the government benefit such as welfare, foodstamp, housing, etcc.. Can he be qualified? will the place check to see if he had a sponsor? I afraid he will do it behind our back if the government didn't check. And me and my cosponsor will be liable, Can we stop it?

Thank you again.

Your sister is the first in line to pay, then you.

He shouldn't qualify for means tested programs for a while, but there are exceptions/mistakes.

I can't see where you can do anything to prevent it short of following him around 24/7. Or, you make a STRONG fraud case and pursue it in court and that results in deportation.

[pushbrk 12,103]

Your sister is the first in line to pay, then you.

He shouldn't qualify for means tested programs for a while, but there are exceptions/mistakes.

I can't see where you can do anything to prevent it short of following him around 24/7. Or, you make a STRONG fraud case and pursue it in court and that results in deportation.

Right. It's a contract between sponsors and government. It may be helpful to you to read the contract again. Chances are, he's not going to qualify for any means tested benefits anyway and will not only need to provide for himself but also pay child support. Once he realizes this, he'll either man up, disappear or self deport.

[NiNi123 0]

My sister is under diabilty benefit. She is consider handicap. Coz she has seizure sickness. And under her mother care and also under SSI benefit

if the husband and her get divorce. Can she have the custody for the child? I really dont' want this guy to take the baby for his benefits. He don't have a job no place to leave. He cannot take care of the baby. As for my sister she has a place to leave her mother her sisters. They are willing to support and help her with the baby. What you think? can she win?

[Anh map 2,098]

My sister is under diabilty benefit. She is consider handicap. Coz she has seizure sickness. And under her mother care and also under SSI benefit

if the husband and her get divorce. Can she have the custody for the child? I really dont' want this guy to take the baby for his benefits. He don't have a job no place to leave. He cannot take care of the baby. As for my sister she has a place to leave her mother her sisters. They are willing to support and help her with the baby. What you think? can she win?

That is where paying for a good family law attorney's opinion is money well spent. Don't guess and hope!!

[pushbrk 12,103]

My sister is under diabilty benefit. She is consider handicap. Coz she has seizure sickness. And under her mother care and also under SSI benefit

if the husband and her get divorce. Can she have the custody for the child? I really dont' want this guy to take the baby for his benefits. He don't have a job no place to leave. He cannot take care of the baby. As for my sister she has a place to leave her mother her sisters. They are willing to support and help her with the baby. What you think? can she win?

Contact a family law attorney. If you can't afford one, look for an agency that helps women in your sister's situation. You are asking a legal question. You need a legal answer from a qualified attorney.

[Kaoticor 5]

I think the contract you sign for the AOS is pretty specific about the fact that there are only 3 ways to get out of it:

-He dies.

-He leaves the US permanently.

-He becomes a citizen.

Also it seems from what you're saying that it's not like he got GC and wants to leave now that he has it but he wants others to support him or he leaves. Is that an ####### move? absolutely! but i'm not sure it's immigration fraud.

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