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[joevegas 67]

You should have advised your wife to keep her calm no matter what. Since it's ROC she probably won't get denied, that's just my amateur opinion. Also, Caps Lock is not your friend.

totaly of topic,but WHO THE HECK CARES IF THEY TALK IN CAPS!THEY ARE NOT REALLY YELLING AT YOU!..BUT I AM!..kinda gets me a little upset when people mention the caps thing,let it be,and just answer the question.

[rade2rising 205]

well i don't think its so much about shouting but its really hard and annoying to read in all caps. you have to strain your eyes and read everything twice

[freetv 7]

Give him a break about CAPS, he feels like his entire life just hit the fan and is worried sick. To the op, find your congressman's phone number and get ready to call if you are denied... you should also start find a good lawyer and be ready to pay if it is a denial because you will want a lawyer in front of a judge. Just take it slow, be rational, and it will all be ok.

[SAT 9,609]

I agree with the former poster who mentioned that it is prudent to keep calm and cool during an interview, no matter how hostile you may think the interviewing officer is. If the answers that your wife gave is true and correct, they can ask the same question 10, 100 times, and the answer will always be the same. It's easy to tell the truth.

I wouldn't worry if your marriage is bonafide, there is nothing to hide. It's difficult for the USCIS to prove a marriage fraudulent if it's not. After all, it IS what it IS...

[Darnell 8,478]

imo, the IO was trying to sweat the wife, a USC. She lost her cool, and the IO declared the 'meeting' over.

[goce delcev 0]

Absolutly darnell!! Thats what happend and today I got the district uscis office director mumber and i did call and complain about the attitude she got drom the holly Keniya officer ! Let me tell u something ! She will line up infront of unemployment office veeery sooon!!!

[DaniG 3]

Call your congressman now and get him involved in your case!

[LinaMD 8]

If i were you I'd wait for the decision letter before I start "firing" people. You weren' t denied on the spot so there's a pretty good chance you might get approved. Good luck!

Edited April 10, 2012 by LinaMD

[DaniG 3]

I personally understand why IOs are so strink and sometimes bluntly rude. If you get on a foreign immigration forum you'd be shocked to see how many people would do anything to get a green card through marriage. Good luck!

That's no excuse for rudeness, some people just abuse their position of power. If someone is trying to commit fraud, those USCIS officers could still be civilized and just deny that applicant instead of acting like school bullies towards everyone who enters their office.

[LinaMD 8]

DaniG, I totally get where you're coming from. I was in no way referring to this particular case. I do think it is outragous that two years and two! Interviews later the op does not have a final decision. I edited my previous post right after I posted it because I thought it was inappropriate.

[lovelyalex 99]

You said they asked you the same ten questions over and over... do you mind explaining a little more as to what they were?

[AmberOctober 25]

I know it's useless to ask "why didn't you do this" and "why didn't you do that" after everything's done. But in your previous topic everyone was telling you to contact your congressman and get a lawyer.

I'm sorry it went along this way for you yesterday.

Guess it's a good and hard learned lesson for everyone else.

[goce delcev 0]

no no no,,, they didnt ask me anything ,they didint even let me in.thea ask my wife which is american citizen and i was in the waiting room.they didnt talk to me at all.so i gues they were trying to convict my wife for a fragile merrige and didint go very well !!same question asked 10 times and they got same answers all the times !! im so sick of this roc thing and green cards and averything that is related to it!!god bless the illegals!!

That's no excuse for rudeness, some people just abuse their position of power. If someone is trying to commit fraud, those USCIS officers could still be civilized and just deny that applicant instead of acting like school bullies towards everyone who enters their office.

daaa!! te sa gospod

[SAT 9,609]

Goce, VJ is a great place for you to vent your frustrations, and we're here for you. So keep venting if it makes you feel any better. We'll lend you emotional and moral support as we all stand on common ground.

But I tend to agree with LinaMD, don't lose your cool. There's an old saying..."Don't drink the soup until it's cooked". So perhaps before you go "firing" the USCIS officer, wait and see what happened. If he/she asked the same question 10 times, and got the same answer 10 times, well then she has no inconsistencies to base any fraud on.

In our experience, when my wife and I went to her AOS interview,they did sit us together, but most of the questions were directed at me (I'm the USC sponsor). The 1 question that she asked my wife, my wife answered it wrong! (The question was how old was I when we met). Anyway, our interview could have been perceived by someone else as "hostile", but I saw it as nothing other than "Professional". So there's the matter of perception, it's how you look at it, and from what angle. Of course none of us was there to witness this, but neither were you. So even you might not have seen the interview the same way your wife did.

Now just because the I/O said the interview is over, doesn't mean that you are denied. May be the I/O too, lost her patience, slammed the file shut and thought "OK, what the hay, that's enough, I'll let it pass".

So hang in there Goce, and lets see what happens. We're behind you.

Edited April 11, 2012 by SteveAndTiff

[SAT 9,609]

By the way Goce. Years ago, I was in the Military (USMC). I had a Military Occupational Specialty where I had to take a written and oral psychological exam, the written portion of which was 1500 questions. And in it they asked the same questions like 15 times, all phrased in different forms. (i.e. question#10-do you like tall women? then question #120-do you think tall women are attractive. etc). The test took so long, that if you lied on question 20, you would not remember it if question 830 was the same question. Anyway, when you answered inconsistently, they would ask you the question again in the oral exam. These regents are designed to seek out the truth and inconsistencies. May be the USCIS employ the same tactics?