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[lovely24 0]

Hi EveryOne i am new here vj i need advice and help i am filipina

i am here now US i Merriede Over 2 yrs now and i never apply my greencard i never greencard

and now my husband have plan to get divorce with me and i am worry bcoz i dont have greencard

what ganna happend with me f i am divorce what can i do i want to stay here In US but I ask my Husband to apply my greencard but he dont want to apply it he said no reson to apply f we going to divorce all the time i am here @ home and i really love my husband i merrige with him not bcoz of greencard and he know that i never lie with my husband i always taken care with him always and my step son i never cheat with my husband i never left him for badtimes i show him that i love him not bcoz greencard we live in florida b4 but my husband lost he job never lift him i always advice him dont give up and untill he found another job and we left in florida and move to another state and also i try to live in shelter for 2 weeks with my husband and step son.. and know my husband whants to divorce with me i dont have fult with him and he just only told me you are nice woman have good heart and nice wife i know you love me but i cant be merried bcoz i am not contendet 1 woman only and also last year he go to vication but he want to philippines meet other girl for almost 2 weeks me and my step son stay home and i am taken care he son when he was in vication but i still for give him and give him to second chance but after few months he said with me he dicisition to get divorce after new year what can i do i want to stay here in US pls Help Me what can i do i cant also get imigrant law bcoz i dont have money i need advice thank you

[canadian_wife 1,823]

How did you initially enter the US?

Good luck

[Anh map 2,098]

If you entered on a K1 you may be able adjust status on your own (without your husband's involvement). This is something that you do not want to try and do without knowledgeable guidance. Somehow you need help with the process.

There are immigrant advocacy groups that can offer you free or low cost help.

[lovely24 0]

i am k1 holder

hello Anh map

Its That Ok To Apply My Onw GreenCard

[lovely24 0]

You Know Guys untill now

My Husband He Chating Another Woman I saw He Profiles

Dateing site i try to save our merried but how come if he give on me

i always wait with him so that we can spend time together he just go @ work after work

go home and go to computer room he ganna out 5am morining i dont know what to do but i really love to

have a greencard so that i can stay here US i dont know where can i start

[ceadsearc 516]

Not that easy. Potentially possible but you should really consider consulting an attorney. Generally K-1 holders can only adjust through marriage to the original petitioner or VAWA - if you can prove he was abusive to you (cheating isn't abuse).

[lovely24 0]

i have copy he send money to the girl in philippines

and also i have copy of he bording pas he went to philippine last july

on he birthday and i have email add to girl and also i have copy of he profiles for dateing site and i also have copy of convetion of girl between him

[Josie-Be-Happy 11]

I am so sorry to hear about what you are going through. You seem like you're a very nice woman and you did the best that you could do to save your marriage even to the extent of forgiving his affairs. Anh map has provided you some good information. Good luck to you and stay strong.

[ceadsearc 516]

i have copy he send money to the girl in philippines

and also i have copy of he bording pas he went to philippine last july

on he birthday and i have email add to girl and also i have copy of he profiles for dateing site and i also have copy of convetion of girl between him

Again, though, that isn't abuse.

That is not to say you definitely will not be able to get a green cars anyway - you might. We can't tell you for certain. Contacting an immigration attorney for a free consultation is really where you need to start to figure out exactly what options you have.

[VanessaTony 3,567]

Based on your post there isn't abuse. Cheating isn't abuse.

Therefore the only change is AOS but a you're getting a divorce you can't do that. I do not believe Ahn Map's suggestion is valid but speak to an immigration attorney to find out for sure.

Your only choice is to leave and return to the Philippines.

[lovely24 0]

he didnt abuse with me for me ots look like abuse with me

and also sometimes he told me i love new ##### all the time

and he said he can still merried with me but he want open meried

and he also want me to find a friends so that he can have sex to try our he said that with me always told find friend to join sex with me and also he said i want you to ready if i bring girl @ home and having sex that hurting to much with me i told him if u love u never to do that with me

[Anh map 2,098]

You need a family law attorney (divorce) and a good immigration attorney ( learn about adjusting status on your own).

[jojolicious 38]

I will echo what the previous posters have said just for emphasis and tell you that your husband cheating or expressing his 'special' sexual preferences to you is not abuse. I'm sorry if you did not know you were going to be in an open marriage before you got here. Now is not the time to dwell on your husband's actions though. You need to focus on your sorting out your (status) situation, get a good immigration attorney and get a divorce.

The good thing is that most immigration attorneys offer a free initial consultation so you'll be able to compare advice and get a feel for who you would feel comfortable working with.

Good luck!