Heart broken, case returned to USA after 2 interviews

[zenyouness 0]

Ok, just got off the phone with my hubby, he had his second interview today, and guess what? He got DENIED the CO said he does not believe our relationship is real, so he is returning the case to USA. What do I do? Please help

[cristina.c 2]

i'm sorry!maybe it's better to get a lawyer

[AYMAN_RINA 92]

I'm so sorry... My heart is with you so sad I don't know anything much because I'm kindof new on VJ but someone with information will leave you a message soon....Keep faith and best wishes you find an answer soon

[Harsh_77 716]

Lawyer cannot prove your relation is real.

If you can provide what happen during the interview and what were the reason why CO did not believe your relation was real, there is not much anyone can help on the forum.

Even for that I believe its little too late and the best option I have read on this forum in the past in cases like yours is for the USC spouse to move to foreign country and spend some time there.

[marjus's girl 6]

If you can maybe better to move there and live together for awhile to establish relationship, if not maybe a lawyer but be very careful because there are alot of ones out there just for the money..good luck..

[moroccogirlny 100]

A lawyer is not going to help, just take the money. Have you tried contacting the Chief Consular? You're looking at at least a year for a review once it comes back to USCIS.

[Dave and Kinnari 31]

Lawyer cannot prove your relation is real.

If you can provide what happen during the interview and what were the reason why CO did not believe your relation was real, there is not much anyone can help on the forum.

Even for that I believe its little too late and the best option I have read on this forum in the past in cases like yours is for the USC spouse to move to foreign country and spend some time there.

That's correct. We need details of the case in order to help you further.

[zenyouness 0]

The "secontd interview" he was not asked any questions he just went in and was told case will be returned to usa. The first interview went well but the CO that interview him could hardly talk spanish which is how my hubby and I comunicate when he asked him when did we meet the answerd 11/7/08 asked a couple of more questions he answerd, again asked when did we meet answered again 11/7/08 the CO said why did you change your answer? He said I did not change my answer, so the CO went and got a 2nd Co that spoke spanish better and she asked when did you meet? again my husband says 11/07/08 and she just asked him to sit down and that was it... am about to loose it, I really have never gone through this so I don't know what to do!!!

[cristina.c 2]

Lawyers can make sure that you're rights are respected!

[crazy.eclipse 0]

The "secontd interview" he was not asked any questions he just went in and was told case will be returned to usa. The first interview went well but the CO that interview him could hardly talk spanish which is how my hubby and I comunicate when he asked him when did we meet the answerd 11/7/08 asked a couple of more questions he answerd, again asked when did we meet answered again 11/7/08 the CO said why did you change your answer? He said I did not change my answer, so the CO went and got a 2nd Co that spoke spanish better and she asked when did you meet? again my husband says 11/07/08 and she just asked him to sit down and that was it... am about to loose it, I really have never gone through this so I don't know what to do!!!

i have question for you is your husband have brown skin and u have a son and he sent him a letter draw somthing for him and in his first interview they ask about sponsore and he told them that his sponsor sent the forme but they dont get it yet if he was hime i was with him in the same day i had interview in 06/06/2011 and the CO was so ugly they really mad me so mad because ur husband was talking spanish and they was laughing like they dont care about realtionships and they are so so so ugly im sorry about what happend but we have to be patient i was so broken too but im fine now and just fight for ur love and dont give up they meant make us suffer we have to fight

[zenyouness 0]

i have question for you is your husband have brown skin and u have a son and he sent him a letter draw somthing for him and in his first interview they ask about sponsore and he told them that his sponsor sent the forme but they dont get it yet if he was hime i was with him in the same day i had interview in 06/06/2011 and the CO was so ugly they really mad me so mad because ur husband was talking spanish and they was laughing like they dont care about realtionships and they are so so so ugly im sorry about what happend but we have to be patient i was so broken too but im fine now and just fight for ur love and dont give up they meant make us suffer we have to fight

No that's not him his but pretty much similar situation becuase the CO does not speak spanish clerly so if he dont speak it I dont think he understand, it is such a impotent feeling am just upset.

[BlueBonnet 84]

Lawyer cannot prove your relation is real.

If you can provide what happen during the interview and what were the reason why CO did not believe your relation was real, there is not much anyone can help on the forum.

Even for that I believe its little too late and the best option I have read on this forum in the past in cases like yours is for the USC spouse to move to foreign country and spend some time there.

I agree wholeheartily with this statement. People tend to forget that immigration isnt a right. Just like driving isnt a right. If you really want to be together, and the US consulate isnt approving of this move, why dont you as the USC move to your partners country and try that route.

I know for my husband and I, we talked about whom would move to whom. We wanted to be together, where wasnt an issue. We both knew going into this process that if for some reason I wasnt permitted to move to the USA, then we would go the spousal route and bring him up to Canada. I think that all couples should have this conversation and try to be prepared for anything with a back up plan or two.

Good luck to you both

[crazy.eclipse 0]

No that's not him his but pretty much similar situation becuase the CO does not speak spanish clerly so if he dont speak it I dont think he understand, it is such a impotent feeling am just upset.

if you have the form showing how he they denied his visa pleas download it and put it here .that will help all friends here to help you

[Golden Gate 530]

Hi,

I would like to know, because it seems that there are three of you who have CR-1 Petitions, how long it was from meeting each other to when you got married? I saw that for one of you it was 8 months, and on the first visit. How about the others?

[Rushton50 10]

I agree wholeheartily with this statement. People tend to forget that immigration isnt a right. Just like driving isnt a right. If you really want to be together, and the US consulate isnt approving of this move, why dont you as the USC move to your partners country and try that route.

I know for my husband and I, we talked about whom would move to whom. We wanted to be together, where wasnt an issue. We both knew going into this process that if for some reason I wasnt permitted to move to the USA, then we would go the spousal route and bring him up to Canada. I think that all couples should have this conversation and try to be prepared for anything with a back up plan or two.

Good luck to you both

Agree to this, my wife and I have already had this discussion and in our case there are a few things in many cases that could seem them denied, mine included....so best be prepared to do what your heart tells you