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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Philippines
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"The perfection/respect/credibility of a man decreases by the number of marriages he has had and by the number of kids he has outside his current marriage. ", Quote by Bite YourDust
  • Met on yahoo chat through a friend.
  • April 2010 - Decided to meet in person
  • 06.01.2010 - She flew from Dubai to Philippines for vacationing
  • 06.21.2010 - We met in Philippines
  • 06.24.2010 - Engaged
  • 06.28.2010 - Came back to USA
  • 07.05.2010 - She flew back to Dubai (work)
  • 08.02.2010 - Mailed I129F to VSC
  • 08.03.2010 - Delivered to VSC. Signed by D RENAUD.
  • 08.09.2010 - Check cashed
  • 08.14.2010 - NOA1 (Dated 08/06/2010)!!!!!!!!
  • 08.19.2010 - Touched!
  • 08.27.2010 - Received snail mail that typographical error was fixed.
  • 10.03.2010 - Touched!
  • 11.21.2010 - Visited her for a week in Dubai!
  • 02.14.2011 - NOA2 Approved on St. Valentine day!!!!!!!
  • 02.17.2011 - Packet left from NVC to ABU DHABI (Dubai)
  • 02.19.2011 - NOA2 hard copy received
  • 02.22.2011 - Packet reached ABU DHABI's consulate
  • 03.02.2011 - packet 3 & 4 received by email
  • 03.02.2011 - Confirmation of Interview on 04.14.2011 -
  • 03.07.2011 - Fiancee passed medical exam.
  • 04.14.2011 - K1-Visa Approved!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • 04.21.2011 - Picked up Visa !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Pakistan
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awwww... it just means that your nervous about doing smthing like the marriage.....


10/02/2010 Nikah/Marriage in Karachi
USCIS JOURNEY
11/10/2010 -Sent
03/24/2011 i 130 approved!!!
NVC JOURNEY
03/30/2011 NVC received case-04/07/2011 NVC Case Number Assigned
05/03/2011 CASE COMPLETE- In Que for INTERVIEW!!-05/17/2011 Received interview letter and info via email
EMBASSY JOURNEY
05/20/2011 Medical Appt/passed
06/15/2011 Interview result AP
06/21/2011 Submitted requested docs..under review
07/25/2011 CO called did phone interview result: PENDING MANDATORY AP/CO told us they have to do namechecks

03/07/2013 Case returned to USCIS waiting for NOIR/reaffirmation

04/18/2013 USCIS received case for review

08/19/2013 Received NOIR to respond by 9/18/2013

9/9/2013 Responded to NOIR/USCIS received documents awaiting response

9/20/2013 USCIS reaffirmed sent to embassy

1/04/14 Case opened for review

8/31/15 Interview- no questions visa approved on the spot

9/8/15 visa status issued

9/10/15 visa received

9/19/15 POE Charlotte

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Nigeria
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Means ur having second thoughts about something.....


November 5, 2010 Interview 7am APPROVED!!!!!! (6months 4weeks 1day) THANK YOU LORD!!!!!

(look at my about me page in my profile if you want to see my entire k1 journey)

AOS Journey:

Feb.4, 2011 Mailed AOS packet

Feb. 7, 2011 Pkt delivered in Chicago

Feb. 10, 2011 Received txt and email of NOA for AOS, EAD, and AP

Feb. 11, 2011 Check cashed for AOS

Feb. 12, 2011 Touched

Feb. 14, 2011 received hard copy of NOA for AOS, EAD& AP

Feb. 18, 2011 received appt letter for biometrics

Feb. 28, 2011 biometrics appt @10am

Feb. 28, 2011 received txt/email AOS case transferred to csc

Mar 1, 2011 AOS Touched

Mar 3, 2011 received hard copy of AOS transfer to csc

Mar 4, 2011 AOS Touched

Mar 28, 2011 Received txt/email saying card production has been ordered. (1month 3eeks 3days)

Mar 28, 2011 Received 2nd txt/email saying we have registered this customer permanent residence status

Mar 29, 2011 Received 3rd txt/email says card production has been ordered.

April 1, 2011 greencard and welcome letter in hand!!

April 5, 2011 received txt/email EAD card production ordered

Will Start Removing Conditions Dec 2012!!!!

Dec. 26, 2012 mailed ROC paperwork

Dec. 28, 2012 NOA for ROC paperwork

Jan. 7, 2013 received bio appt letter

Jan. 24, 2013 bio appt.

June 22, 2013 10yr green card received

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Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Scotland
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Is it you or her who has cold feet?

Your timeline says that you only met in person a year ago. Have you seen each other since she flew to Dubai for work in July last year?

If it is you...perhaps the reality of bringing your fiancee and her kids halfway across the world is real now. I think that is sensible. Especially if you haven't seen her for a while, and do not have the experience of living together and knowing each others daily lives. It is quite unknown...but also it will be an adventure if you both want it.

If it is her who has cold feet...of course she does. Again, you only met in person a year ago and now she is about to pack up and leave everything to move with you. I can imagine that would be scary. Perhaps you could go over and travel back to the States with her? Perhaps she just needs to see you in person again and remember why she's doing all this?

Just my 2 cents.

Cold feet either means second thoughts...or nerves.

I hope it is the latter.

Good luck!

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Edited by Helen Louise Pile

05-2010 I-129F application received by USCIS.

05-2010 NOA1 received.

07-2010 NOA2 received.

07-2010 Packet 3 received.

08-2010 Packet 3 returned.

09-2010 Medical in London.

10-2010 Interview at US Embassy in London: Approved.

10-2010 POE Newark, NJ.

11-2010 Married in Vermont.

03-2011 Notice of acceptance of AOS packet.

03-2011 Biometrics appointment in St Albans.

03-2010 Case transfered to California Service Centre.

04-2011 I-485 Approved.

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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Philippines
Timeline

Is it you or her who has cold feet?

Your timeline says that you only met in person a year ago. Have you seen each other since she flew to Dubai for work in July last year?

Read my time line a bit more .

# Met on yahoo chat through a friend.

# April 2010 - Decided to meet in person

# 06.01.2010 - She flew from Dubai to Philippines for vacationing

# 06.21.2010 - We met in Philippines <---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- 1

# 06.24.2010 - Engaged

# 06.28.2010 - Came back to USA

# 07.05.2010 - She flew back to Dubai (work)

# 08.02.2010 - Mailed I129F to VSC

# 08.03.2010 - Delivered to VSC. Signed by D RENAUD.

# 08.09.2010 - Check cashed

# 08.14.2010 - NOA1 (Dated 08/06/2010)!!!!!!!!

# 08.19.2010 - Touched!

# 08.27.2010 - Received snail mail that typographical error was fixed.

# 10.03.2010 - Touched!

# 11.21.2010 - Visited her for a week in Dubai! <----------------------------------------------------------------------------------- 2

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"The perfection/respect/credibility of a man decreases by the number of marriages he has had and by the number of kids he has outside his current marriage. ", Quote by Bite YourDust
  • Met on yahoo chat through a friend.
  • April 2010 - Decided to meet in person
  • 06.01.2010 - She flew from Dubai to Philippines for vacationing
  • 06.21.2010 - We met in Philippines
  • 06.24.2010 - Engaged
  • 06.28.2010 - Came back to USA
  • 07.05.2010 - She flew back to Dubai (work)
  • 08.02.2010 - Mailed I129F to VSC
  • 08.03.2010 - Delivered to VSC. Signed by D RENAUD.
  • 08.09.2010 - Check cashed
  • 08.14.2010 - NOA1 (Dated 08/06/2010)!!!!!!!!
  • 08.19.2010 - Touched!
  • 08.27.2010 - Received snail mail that typographical error was fixed.
  • 10.03.2010 - Touched!
  • 11.21.2010 - Visited her for a week in Dubai!
  • 02.14.2011 - NOA2 Approved on St. Valentine day!!!!!!!
  • 02.17.2011 - Packet left from NVC to ABU DHABI (Dubai)
  • 02.19.2011 - NOA2 hard copy received
  • 02.22.2011 - Packet reached ABU DHABI's consulate
  • 03.02.2011 - packet 3 & 4 received by email
  • 03.02.2011 - Confirmation of Interview on 04.14.2011 -
  • 03.07.2011 - Fiancee passed medical exam.
  • 04.14.2011 - K1-Visa Approved!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • 04.21.2011 - Picked up Visa !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Filed: AOS (pnd) Country: Philippines
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Cold feet means your feet out out from under the blankets getting cold... :rofl:

Actually it means you are seriously losing confidence in completing a course of action. there is something you are doing but do not believe it is a worthy cause to finish or want to complete the course. Something on the present path has made you extremely nervous and anxious. Something has happened on the current path to worry you as to it being successful. This is something you must pay extreme attention to. This is a HUGE warning sign.

I wish you best of luck on this. "Cold feet" is saying you no longer "feel comfortable in bed with the plan" "'climb into bed' or 'in bed' means to be in cahouts (agreeable) with the plan."

example: He got "cold feet" this month on restoring the truck with his friends after being "in bed" with it for the last 2 years. His friends have been asking him for money every single time a need came up, can't says as I blame him for getting "cold feet".


K-1 Visa Timeline:

02/11/2011 - Engaged at her house by her Godmother.

02/18/2011 - Engagement party with relatives - propose in Visayan.

02/24/2011 - K-1 packet sent.

09/18/2011 - POE, Viva Las Vegas, Baby !!!!! Home to Phoenix.

12/10/2011 - Official Wedding

07/05/2012 - Princess Rose born.

07/07/2012 - AP/EAD received.

07/17/2012 - AOS passed. (Birthday for Mama Rayos)

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Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Vietnam
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my translation of "cold feet" she is having second thoughts about moving here and marrying you... not a good sign...


"Every one of us bears within himself the possibilty of all passions, all destinies of life in all its forms. Nothing human is foreign to us" - Edward G. Robinson.

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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Philippines
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my translation of "cold feet" she is having second thoughts about moving here and marrying you... not a good sign...

That is if she is the one with cold feet right?


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"The perfection/respect/credibility of a man decreases by the number of marriages he has had and by the number of kids he has outside his current marriage. ", Quote by Bite YourDust
  • Met on yahoo chat through a friend.
  • April 2010 - Decided to meet in person
  • 06.01.2010 - She flew from Dubai to Philippines for vacationing
  • 06.21.2010 - We met in Philippines
  • 06.24.2010 - Engaged
  • 06.28.2010 - Came back to USA
  • 07.05.2010 - She flew back to Dubai (work)
  • 08.02.2010 - Mailed I129F to VSC
  • 08.03.2010 - Delivered to VSC. Signed by D RENAUD.
  • 08.09.2010 - Check cashed
  • 08.14.2010 - NOA1 (Dated 08/06/2010)!!!!!!!!
  • 08.19.2010 - Touched!
  • 08.27.2010 - Received snail mail that typographical error was fixed.
  • 10.03.2010 - Touched!
  • 11.21.2010 - Visited her for a week in Dubai!
  • 02.14.2011 - NOA2 Approved on St. Valentine day!!!!!!!
  • 02.17.2011 - Packet left from NVC to ABU DHABI (Dubai)
  • 02.19.2011 - NOA2 hard copy received
  • 02.22.2011 - Packet reached ABU DHABI's consulate
  • 03.02.2011 - packet 3 & 4 received by email
  • 03.02.2011 - Confirmation of Interview on 04.14.2011 -
  • 03.07.2011 - Fiancee passed medical exam.
  • 04.14.2011 - K1-Visa Approved!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • 04.21.2011 - Picked up Visa !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Nigeria
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Cold feet means you are setting off to do something and once you get ready to start the task and your feet hit the ground they get cold and you run back to where you were so your feet get warm rather than do what you intended.


This will not be over quickly. You will not enjoy this.

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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Philippines
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Cold feet means your feet out out from under the blankets getting cold... :rofl:

Actually it means you are seriously losing confidence in completing a course of action. there is something you are doing but do not believe it is a worthy cause to finish or want to complete the course. Something on the present path has made you extremely nervous and anxious. Something has happened on the current path to worry you as to it being successful. This is something you must pay extreme attention to. This is a HUGE warning sign.

I wish you best of luck on this. "Cold feet" is saying you no longer "feel comfortable in bed with the plan" "'climb into bed' or 'in bed' means to be in cahouts (agreeable) with the plan."

example: He got "cold feet" this month on restoring the truck with his friends after being "in bed" with it for the last 2 years. His friends have been asking him for money every single time a need came up, can't says as I blame him for getting "cold feet".

Funny that you mentioned a truck? is the truck heavy to push?

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"The perfection/respect/credibility of a man decreases by the number of marriages he has had and by the number of kids he has outside his current marriage. ", Quote by Bite YourDust
  • Met on yahoo chat through a friend.
  • April 2010 - Decided to meet in person
  • 06.01.2010 - She flew from Dubai to Philippines for vacationing
  • 06.21.2010 - We met in Philippines
  • 06.24.2010 - Engaged
  • 06.28.2010 - Came back to USA
  • 07.05.2010 - She flew back to Dubai (work)
  • 08.02.2010 - Mailed I129F to VSC
  • 08.03.2010 - Delivered to VSC. Signed by D RENAUD.
  • 08.09.2010 - Check cashed
  • 08.14.2010 - NOA1 (Dated 08/06/2010)!!!!!!!!
  • 08.19.2010 - Touched!
  • 08.27.2010 - Received snail mail that typographical error was fixed.
  • 10.03.2010 - Touched!
  • 11.21.2010 - Visited her for a week in Dubai!
  • 02.14.2011 - NOA2 Approved on St. Valentine day!!!!!!!
  • 02.17.2011 - Packet left from NVC to ABU DHABI (Dubai)
  • 02.19.2011 - NOA2 hard copy received
  • 02.22.2011 - Packet reached ABU DHABI's consulate
  • 03.02.2011 - packet 3 & 4 received by email
  • 03.02.2011 - Confirmation of Interview on 04.14.2011 -
  • 03.07.2011 - Fiancee passed medical exam.
  • 04.14.2011 - K1-Visa Approved!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • 04.21.2011 - Picked up Visa !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Scotland
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Read my time line a bit more .

# Met on yahoo chat through a friend.

# April 2010 - Decided to meet in person

# 06.01.2010 - She flew from Dubai to Philippines for vacationing

# 06.21.2010 - We met in Philippines <---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- 1

# 06.24.2010 - Engaged

# 06.28.2010 - Came back to USA

# 07.05.2010 - She flew back to Dubai (work)

# 08.02.2010 - Mailed I129F to VSC

# 08.03.2010 - Delivered to VSC. Signed by D RENAUD.

# 08.09.2010 - Check cashed

# 08.14.2010 - NOA1 (Dated 08/06/2010)!!!!!!!!

# 08.19.2010 - Touched!

# 08.27.2010 - Received snail mail that typographical error was fixed.

# 10.03.2010 - Touched!

# 11.21.2010 - Visited her for a week in Dubai! <----------------------------------------------------------------------------------- 2

Ok, that answers my question, I didn't see that....

So you haven't seen each other for 7 months....and that was only your second meeting.

So the rest of my response still holds true to my opinion.

My answer was to say that perhaps she misses you and you miss her and you simply need to be in each others company again. Visiting is so different to immigration. Perhaps it is nerves over taking the 'big step'. Has she visited the States before? Perhaps it is cold feet over everything....not cold feet over marrying you? Or is it you with cold feet?

Cold feet means different things to different people, you and your fiancee should talk about it.

I wish you all the best. :thumbs:


05-2010 I-129F application received by USCIS.

05-2010 NOA1 received.

07-2010 NOA2 received.

07-2010 Packet 3 received.

08-2010 Packet 3 returned.

09-2010 Medical in London.

10-2010 Interview at US Embassy in London: Approved.

10-2010 POE Newark, NJ.

11-2010 Married in Vermont.

03-2011 Notice of acceptance of AOS packet.

03-2011 Biometrics appointment in St Albans.

03-2010 Case transfered to California Service Centre.

04-2011 I-485 Approved.

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Ok, that answers my question, I didn't see that....

So you haven't seen each other for 7 months....and that was only your second meeting.

So the rest of my response still holds true to my opinion.

My answer was to say that perhaps she misses you and you miss her and you simply need to be in each others company again. Visiting is so different to immigration. Perhaps it is nerves over taking the 'big step'. Has she visited the States before? Perhaps it is cold feet over everything....not cold feet over marrying you? Or is it you with cold feet?

Cold feet means different things to different people, you and your fiancee should talk about it.

I wish you all the best. :thumbs:

:thumbs:

:reading:


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"The perfection/respect/credibility of a man decreases by the number of marriages he has had and by the number of kids he has outside his current marriage. ", Quote by Bite YourDust
  • Met on yahoo chat through a friend.
  • April 2010 - Decided to meet in person
  • 06.01.2010 - She flew from Dubai to Philippines for vacationing
  • 06.21.2010 - We met in Philippines
  • 06.24.2010 - Engaged
  • 06.28.2010 - Came back to USA
  • 07.05.2010 - She flew back to Dubai (work)
  • 08.02.2010 - Mailed I129F to VSC
  • 08.03.2010 - Delivered to VSC. Signed by D RENAUD.
  • 08.09.2010 - Check cashed
  • 08.14.2010 - NOA1 (Dated 08/06/2010)!!!!!!!!
  • 08.19.2010 - Touched!
  • 08.27.2010 - Received snail mail that typographical error was fixed.
  • 10.03.2010 - Touched!
  • 11.21.2010 - Visited her for a week in Dubai!
  • 02.14.2011 - NOA2 Approved on St. Valentine day!!!!!!!
  • 02.17.2011 - Packet left from NVC to ABU DHABI (Dubai)
  • 02.19.2011 - NOA2 hard copy received
  • 02.22.2011 - Packet reached ABU DHABI's consulate
  • 03.02.2011 - packet 3 & 4 received by email
  • 03.02.2011 - Confirmation of Interview on 04.14.2011 -
  • 03.07.2011 - Fiancee passed medical exam.
  • 04.14.2011 - K1-Visa Approved!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • 04.21.2011 - Picked up Visa !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Vietnam
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That is if she is the one with cold feet right?

If he is having the cold feet then he is having second thoughts about her coming to the US to spend her life with him.. if its him then its a generalization for some specific issues that are sticking in his thoughts... rather than saying I have cold feet, the statement needs to be I am feeling****** or I keep thinking *****


"Every one of us bears within himself the possibilty of all passions, all destinies of life in all its forms. Nothing human is foreign to us" - Edward G. Robinson.

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I think it is just that he is going to have "cold feet" from reading his timeline.... Soon she will tkae the covers and he will be left with "cold feet" each night... she takes the comFortR".....


K-1 Visa Timeline:

02/11/2011 - Engaged at her house by her Godmother.

02/18/2011 - Engagement party with relatives - propose in Visayan.

02/24/2011 - K-1 packet sent.

09/18/2011 - POE, Viva Las Vegas, Baby !!!!! Home to Phoenix.

12/10/2011 - Official Wedding

07/05/2012 - Princess Rose born.

07/07/2012 - AP/EAD received.

07/17/2012 - AOS passed. (Birthday for Mama Rayos)

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