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Apologies, I've drifted into game theory jargon.

By "evolutionarily stable", I mean a strategy (in this case, "philanderer" / "faithful" [male] or "fast" / "coy" [female]) ubiquitous and consistent to a population which overwhelms and thus disposes of all other strategies.

Dawkins' aforementioned "battle of the sexes" model demonstrates (as he structures it, at least) that no such strategy exists; that (in other words) in a population of philanderers, the faithful male succeeds, and vice versa (and accordingly so with the female strategies).

In fact it's a cycle, whereby a preponderance in a population of any strategy favors the other, minority strategy.

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if anyone does, they've got a real problem...

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if anyone does, they've got a real problem...

I don't judge other people's kink.

Some are into pantyhose and shoes, or smelly used underwear.

Others fantasize and whack off to the sound of fingernails on a blackboard or Buddhist chanting.

Whatever cranks your engine, I say. Rainbows and unicorns are a-ok erotica for those who choose them, in my book.

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As someone with a dilettante interest in evolutionary biology myself, I don't think the science is nearly as conclusive as you suggest. Dawkins' game-theoretical "battle of the sexes" model of philanderer vs. faithful / fast vs. coy ('The Selfish Gene', 1976) provides a convincing mathematical argument that no one strategy is (or ever could be) evolutionarily stable across our species.

Further, we would be remiss to discount entirely quite overwhelming psychological phenomena such as love or jealousy, which appear both ubiquitous and (principally) monogamy-bound emotions. In fact, most of the recent studies I've encounted seem now resolved to investigating the lifespan of monogamous imperatives, rather than whether or not they're evolutionarily or socially manifested. One (though, you'll have to forgive me, I can't remember which) suggested that the bonds wane after a mutually reared child reaches 4, which was indicated to be the stage where the mother could care for the child herself.

I would agree that society, crafted as it has been by jealous men, fretful over uncertainty of paternity, has placed a perverse and unwarranted stigma on polygamy and infidelity. But that's not to say that there are no evolutionarily mandated monogamous impulses - just that we've crafted an artificial morality that vehemently lauds them over more promiscuous tendencies.

We largely agree. I also didn't mean to suggest that the science is settled. Far from it. What I was expressing was my opinion based on the reading I've done and the life experience I've had, nothing more.

I do agree that there are strong reasons for monogamy that pre-date human social history. Child rearing is easier with two than one - that's true in a pre-domesticated human habitat as much as post-domesticated. I agree that humans (and other animals) do likely have genetic predispositions to pair bonding. What I'm getting at is that a predisposition is not the same as a socially enforced code of behavior -- that all came later, much much later. As to the emotions you mention- love, jealousy etc. I'm inclined to think of these things as being (largely) the product of our social conditioning.

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What about role playing with your partner? You know, like you pretend you're the pool guy and she pretends to be a horny cougar just looking for some action.

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What about role playing with your partner? You know, like you pretend you're the pool guy and she pretends to be a horny cougar just looking for some action.

I'm more into Roman Gladiator and Christian slave, but that's just me.

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I'd tap that.

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Yet another thing modern women can blame their unhappiness on.

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US pr0n sux0rs big time. Hardcore looking fat chicks with bad ####### jobs and covered in tats. Screw that #######. You want good pr0n then look no further than Russian pr0n. Hot looking thin chicks with real tits.... they don't look like fat slob h0's with fake tits like you see with US pr0n.

*on a side note... Brazilian animal pr0n. Hot looking babes with ...well enough said. But if you have never checked it out, it's def. worth a google imo.

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US pr0n sux0rs big time. Hardcore looking fat chicks with bad ####### jobs and covered in tats. Screw that #######. You want good pr0n then look no further than Russian pr0n. Hot looking thin chicks with real tits.... they don't look like fat slob h0's with fake tits like you see with US pr0n.

*on a side note... Brazilian animal pr0n. Hot looking babes with ...well enough said. But if you have never checked it out, it's def. worth a google imo.

How much do you spend per month on average?

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How much do you spend per month on average?

Zero since this last marriage. :(

The only difference between marrying a RUB chick vs an American chick is your getting your life force sucked out of you by a hotter looking chick on the average. Other than that, it's pretty much the same... I think I'm more into the chase than what comes afterwards.

My next marriage (if it ever comes down to that), is going to be to a paraplegic RUB chick who was born without vocal cords. :yes:

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Zero since this last marriage. :(

The only difference between marrying a RUB chick vs an American chick is your getting your life force sucked out of you by a hotter looking chick on the average. Other than that, it's pretty much the same... I think I'm more into the chase than what comes afterwards.

My next marriage (if it ever comes down to that), is going to be to a paraplegic RUB chick who was born without vocal cords. :yes:

If you think marriage is "getting your life force stucked out of you" at all, you shouldn't have gotten married. I'm just saying. :whistle:

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If you think marriage is "getting your life force stucked out of you" at all, you shouldn't have gotten married. I'm just saying. :whistle:

Ya...I think I heard something like that right after my ex took me to the cleaners.

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