how do i send my wife back to vietnam

[GREEN/TRAN 0]

yeah but right now im not working i would like to find a job in wichita where i grew up but i think i need to go to vietnam and relax for a while. anyw3ays i was worried sick about my wife but i guess shes ok. booses wife just called and offered any money for lawyer for divorced or get her out of country if i need

You aren't working and you need financial help from "booses wife" for your divorce, yet, instead of looking for work, you are going to Vietnam to "relax." I don't suppose that "relax" is an euphemism for using prostitutes, is it?

no tom its not. i dont se prostitutes and i dont drink or lookat porn. i have some money saved.i never said i needed any help i said it was offered. #### you tom

[GREEN/TRAN 0]

yeah but right now im not working i would like to find a job in wichita where i grew up but i think i need to go to vietnam and relax for a while. anyw3ays i was worried sick about my wife but i guess shes ok. booses wife just called and offered any money for lawyer for divorced or get her out of country if i need

You aren't working and you need financial help from "booses wife" for your divorce, yet, instead of looking for work, you are going to Vietnam to "relax." I don't suppose that "relax" is an euphemism for using prostitutes, is it?

no tom its not. i dont se prostitutes and i dont drink or lookat porn. i have some money saved.i never said i needed any help i said it was offered. #### you tom

also her boss is 57 years old and been married 25 years. dont beleave if you want the number to chineses chef you can call and ask his about it. send me a pm if you do

[terri and jay 0]

Based on what you posted here and the other info about the gambling and $$$ I have to say...

1. focus on the divorce..

2. look at it as a bad experience and put it behind you..

3. Get an HIV test ASAP.

I'm not trying to be a #######, just a realist... we all make mistakes and she was your mistake.. let it go and enjoy the rest of your life... Imagine how much pain you would still be going through if you had not taken that step to part ways.. she's out making a mess of someone elses life now not yours....Things can only get better from here... Life is a mission... you got wounded in a battle but are not out of the fight.... you know what to avoid next time....

u hit the nail on the head! i totally agree with u. i made my mistakes in the past, i moved on and now i have the best person every!

[RubyWine 0]

Sorry nothing to add but just had to add that I LOVE these and wish they had been around in my day as an old timer here at VJ

[Brianandphuong 0]

How old is ur wife? Post a pic, just curious as to why so many guys pay to sleep with her....

[Old Dominion 26]

what does she charge?? Just forget about her, don't get involved in any way with the boss's wife who is also angry, and get the divorce. With whatever information it has, the government will take care of getting her back to Viet Nam if they want to. Yes, and get the HIV test quickly.

[Mrs.J06 4]

O.k., how can we get the guy who is watching Bridezillas and complaining about American women to read this threat carefully?

Sorry OP, I guess I would very carefully gather all evidence that you have about what your "wife" is doing and make very sure she gets nowhere with her upcoming VAWA case.

[Donna A 4]

dont do anything. let her boss pay for the divorse out of his pocket.

[Sprailenes 47]

what does she charge??

[Chica Yeyé 41]

She's a PERSON not a package. You can't just "send her back"

WORD.

[GREEN/TRAN 0]

She's a PERSON not a package. You can't just "send her back"

WORD.

shes not a person shes a #######. and shes a conditional resident. i can send her back

what does she charge??

same as ur wife

How old is ur wife? Post a pic, just curious as to why so many guys pay to sleep with her....

shes 32 her picture is posted

[NArocks 13]

She's a PERSON not a package. You can't just "send her back"

WORD.

shes not a person shes a #######. and shes a conditional resident. i can send her back

I beg to Differ, YOU can do nothing of the sort as far as sending her back. Get over it and on with your life, let her see what she can and can not do with this situation. A conditional resident still has rights whether you like to hear it or not.

Karma works very well and can go both ways.......

From your time line she has been here a while, she can surely remove conditions on her own? You have know her for over 3 years and did not see the signs? Or maybe you thought she would change? How did you meet her? Was there a red light outside her front door?

Edited July 10, 2009 by NArocks

[payxibka 10,044]

From your time line she has been here a while, she can surely remove conditions on her own?

AFAIK, only if the divorce is final, otherwise it will require his cooperation....

[JimVaPhuong 4,863]

She's a PERSON not a package. You can't just "send her back"

WORD.

shes not a person shes a #######. and shes a conditional resident. i can send her back

I beg to Differ, YOU can do nothing of the sort as far as sending her back. Get over it and on with your life, let her see what she can and can not do with this situation. A conditional resident still has rights whether you like to hear it or not.

Karma works very well and can go both ways.......

From your time line she has been here a while, she can surely remove conditions on her own? You have know her for over 3 years and did not see the signs? Or maybe you thought she would change? How did you meet her? Was there a red light outside her front door?

Actually, he can do something - he can divorce her. The "condition" in her "conditional residency" is that she remain married to her sponsor for 2 years. Technically, her conditional residency is voided if they are divorced. "Remove conditions on her own" is a bit of a misnomer - what she can actually do is file an application for a waiver at the same time she files the I-751. The burden is then on her to prove she entered the marriage in good faith. Even that route would not be available to her if the divorce hasn't been granted yet. She'd have to wait until the removal proceedings to request a continuance.

Also, as I mentioned before, if he has evidence that he was duped for immigration purposes, then he can file for an annulment. If the annulment is granted, then her residency is revoked - no chance of appeal, no opportunity to remove conditions - she has to leave the country.

Finally, if she's convicted of prostitution then she can be deported, regardless of whether or not she's removed conditions.

[Dau Que 6]

Green/TRAN,

Judging from your grammar and vocabularies, combined with your using profanity and anger expression today (I want to remind everyone here in his previous post about his marriage, he got into trouble with the police about gun issue. Search for that post. I'm too lazy to dig it up), I would say your wife is a perfect fit for you.

Noi nao up vun nay (ask your wife. She'll translate that for you)

And good luck finding another wife in Tra Vinh. Apparently, you have NOT learnt your lesson............yet.

PS> In case you haven't figured out on your own yet, when you have to come to an online forum for consultation what to do with your marriage, may be you're not mature/ready to be married. You are a perfect example why certain people although are of legal age, yet should not be allowed to get married.