found new info that could hurt my case

[bryonm4 0]

I found out they want the details of how my friend and my fiancee's brother met and how they set us up. Before my friend told me they met over 10 years ago at a birthday party in las vegas. Durning the interview when they asked Tran specifics she did not know she had to call her brother and ask. Last night I pressured my friend into telling me the trueth and he told me they were gambling buddies. I know gambling is legal but I think it would hurt our case even if they have other stuff in common.

I was told to marry and not to cancel the denied visa even if it expires however I was also told you had to cancel it to start a new visa because if you have 2 in the system it will cause a problem so im not sure how that works.

[Otto 83]

I found out they want the details of how my friend and my fiancee's brother met and how they set us up. Before my friend told me they met over 10 years ago at a birthday party in las vegas. Durning the interview when they asked Tran specifics she did not know she had to call her brother and ask. Last night I pressured my friend into telling me the trueth and he told me they were gambling buddies. I know gambling is legal but I think it would hurt our case even if they have other stuff in common.

I was told to marry and not to cancel the denied visa even if it expires however I was also told you had to cancel it to start a new visa because if you have 2 in the system it will cause a problem so im not sure how that works.

Why do I get the feeling of having walked into a conversation/story that is half way through...?

OP - Is there a question in the above statement?

[jundp 191]

OP, not really sure what you are saying/asking.

[TBoneTX 47,143]

Why do I get the feeling of having walked into a conversation/story that is half way through...?

Because there are multiple other threads pertaining to his situation...

[himher 634]

So tell them they're gambling buddies. That's legal. Just leave out the stories about the vegas hookers.....

I found out they want the details of how my friend and my fiancee's brother met and how they set us up. Before my friend told me they met over 10 years ago at a birthday party in las vegas. Durning the interview when they asked Tran specifics she did not know she had to call her brother and ask. Last night I pressured my friend into telling me the trueth and he told me they were gambling buddies. I know gambling is legal but I think it would hurt our case even if they have other stuff in common.

I was told to marry and not to cancel the denied visa even if it expires however I was also told you had to cancel it to start a new visa because if you have 2 in the system it will cause a problem so im not sure how that works.

[bryonm4 0]

So tell them they're gambling buddies. That's legal. Just leave out the stories about the vegas hookers.....

I found out they want the details of how my friend and my fiancee's brother met and how they set us up. Before my friend told me they met over 10 years ago at a birthday party in las vegas. Durning the interview when they asked Tran specifics she did not know she had to call her brother and ask. Last night I pressured my friend into telling me the trueth and he told me they were gambling buddies. I know gambling is legal but I think it would hurt our case even if they have other stuff in common.

I was told to marry and not to cancel the denied visa even if it expires however I was also told you had to cancel it to start a new visa because if you have 2 in the system it will cause a problem so im not sure how that works.

Yeah that might work I was just worried they might think to bring her over here was part of a gambling debt. I think the best thing after reading the time it takes is just to go threw with the appeal and rebuttle. I do see it is taking on average of 2 years to appeal and since my case is already at the california service center it might take less time than that. If I marry her it wont be until april or may then we have to file IMBRA waver that will take 2 months then 11 months from there she would have her interview. So we would only save a few months at best and it would cost allot more to marry her and I don't think one would give us an advantage over the other one as long as we can succesfully rebuttle there disputes.

[Old Dominion 26]

You don't give much information about your case status so it's hard to advise. Gambling is a crime in some parts of the U.S., which is why people flock to Vegas.

[Hell0W0rld 10]

[desert_fox 32]

I found out they want the details of how my friend and my fiancee's brother met and how they set us up. Before my friend told me they met over 10 years ago at a birthday party in las vegas. Durning the interview when they asked Tran specifics she did not know she had to call her brother and ask. Last night I pressured my friend into telling me the trueth and he told me they were gambling buddies. I know gambling is legal but I think it would hurt our case even if they have other stuff in common.

I was told to marry and not to cancel the denied visa even if it expires however I was also told you had to cancel it to start a new visa because if you have 2 in the system it will cause a problem so im not sure how that works.

What in the hell are you talking about??

[bryonm4 0]

I found out they want the details of how my friend and my fiancee's brother met and how they set us up. Before my friend told me they met over 10 years ago at a birthday party in las vegas. Durning the interview when they asked Tran specifics she did not know she had to call her brother and ask. Last night I pressured my friend into telling me the trueth and he told me they were gambling buddies. I know gambling is legal but I think it would hurt our case even if they have other stuff in common.

I was told to marry and not to cancel the denied visa even if it expires however I was also told you had to cancel it to start a new visa because if you have 2 in the system it will cause a problem so im not sure how that works.

What in the hell are you talking about??

We were denied a K1 as not a bonafide relationship they think it was a scam. I had a consult done with a lawyer they had stated that I had to prove how we met. Her brother and my friend are friends. They want to know how they are friends it turns out they are gambling buddys. I didn't know this neither did my fiancee and we are caught in the middle of this. If they sign an affidavid of how they met that coudl be detrimental to our case. The lawyer also stated now here is where I get confused." under no circumstances to withdraw my denied petition because my fiancee would be inadmissible for life from coming to the US but also stated I must cancle my denied petition to file for a K3" after I marry her.

Edited December 25, 2008 by bryonm4

[bryonm4 0]

I guess I should watch what I say on here not sure if somebody can read it and use it against you

[sunny_vn00 0]

I found out they want the details of how my friend and my fiancee's brother met and how they set us up. Before my friend told me they met over 10 years ago at a birthday party in las vegas. Durning the interview when they asked Tran specifics she did not know she had to call her brother and ask. Last night I pressured my friend into telling me the trueth and he told me they were gambling buddies. I know gambling is legal but I think it would hurt our case even if they have other stuff in common.

I was told to marry and not to cancel the denied visa even if it expires however I was also told you had to cancel it to start a new visa because if you have 2 in the system it will cause a problem so im not sure how that works.

Even if you have to cancel that petition it still on their system, they have record and they will check it when you refile petition. IF USCIS send you notice to let you know it expires you can refile petition, but if they send notice that your case is being review you should rebut what Consulate denied your visa. The old petition will get touch each time USCIS work on new petition.

[brnidokiegurl 1]

her brother? your brother? your friend her friend? their relationships are not the factor but under what circumstances did you two meet, if thru these other people oh well you cant control what they do but tell them YOUR story of meeting. You say k1 denied, was it returned to calif? if so it will prob be allowed to expire on its own, then you can refile or marry whatever. If vermont they seem to hold forever to sometimes actually open them again and restart. Best thing is to just always tell the truth...(also i was told in calif a return to expire is not a deny but just that an expire)

[bryonm4 0]

her brother? your brother? your friend her friend? their relationships are not the factor but under what circumstances did you two meet, if thru these other people oh well you cant control what they do but tell them YOUR story of meeting. You say k1 denied, was it returned to calif? if so it will prob be allowed to expire on its own, then you can refile or marry whatever. If vermont they seem to hold forever to sometimes actually open them again and restart. Best thing is to just always tell the truth...(also i was told in calif a return to expire is not a deny but just that an expire)

Thanks I will take that to heart.

[Cham 3]

anybody else confused or is the op adhd??? I really am lost!