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  1. 1. love or hate?

    • Hate Mother in law
      7
    • Hate Father in law
      3
    • Hate both!
      2
    • Hate neither
      35
    • My family is perfect and I love them all dearly
      24

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ED*Riza   0

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Both are gone ... I have no chance of meeting them. :crying:

God is Great .. God is good... all the time..

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12/13/2010- SEnt The packet

12/22/2010- The packet was returned due to missing page.

12/23/2010- Resend the packet with complete pages.

12/29/2010- Check cashed in

01/03/2010- Receive NOA

01/10/2011- Email from USCIS for the Required Evidence( Finger printing)

01/26/2011-Biometric Schedule

02/07/2011-USCIS online status update-

02/12/2011- Received Interview Letter Scheduled March 14

02/12/2011- Received Descheduled letter

02/17/2011- USCIS online Status update

02/22/2011-New IL arrived schedule for March 29

02/22/2011-Descheduled Letter Again ( 2nd Time)

02/23/2011- I called USCIS and I was told new schedule in the computer for March 22

02/23/2011-USCIS ONline update....

03/01/2011-Interview Letter for March 22 @ 7:15 AM

03/22/2011- Interview and Oath; US Citizen

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bratikicks   0

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Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Philippines
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i love my father in law....he is so kind to me and so do i to him....

sad to say i haven't meet my husband's mom,she already passed away last year.... :(:(:(

04-12-08.........Married

06-11-08.........I-130 Mailed

06-13-08.........I-130 Received

06-18-08.........NOA1

06-20-08.........Touched

06-21-08.........Received NOA letter

06-23-08.........Check cashed (Hon's birthday)!

08-08-08.........Touched

08-08-08.........I-130 Approved

08-08-08.........Case completed

08-09-08.........Email Received

08-15-08.........NOA2 Hard Copy Received

08-28-08.........Received AOS Notice

09-04-08.........I-864 Received by NVC

09-04-08.........DS3032 email resent

09-11-08.........Paid IV bill online

09-12-08.........Sent DS230

09-15-08.........Sent a email to NVC requesting for early interview due to pregnancy

09-23-08.........RFE

09-26-08.........Found out that a expedite was granted due to pregnancy (NVC RULES)!

10-01-08.........Case Received at Embassy

10-03-08.........Faxed Expedite request to Embassy

10-05-08.........Expedite granted! USEM Rules!

10-07-08.........Delbros Paid (no longer required)

10-15-08.........Medical

10-16-08.........Medical Passed

10-22-08.........Interview PASSED!!(Pink Slip)

10-24-08.........Visa in hand

11-01-08.........POE (Hawaii),flight #######!

11-13-08.........SSN arrived

11-26-08.........welcome note

12-16-08.........GREEN CARD RECIEVED

02-12-09......... gave birth to a beautiful Baby Girl

04-21-09......... Veterinary LabTechician (job) (Cleveland Veterinary Hospital)

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Zee Bee Grand Master

Zee Bee   61

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We love each others parents. Sometimes when I call my parents they only want to speak to him and vice versa.

I guess we lucked out too :)

Mama to 2 beautiful boys (August 2011 and January 2015)

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jundp   191

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Best in-laws ever. And that includes sister-in-law, little brother-in-law, cousins-in-law, and aunt/uncle-in-law. His grandmother is a lovely woman, but my German and her English are rudimentary at best so our conversations take place with much hand expressions! I also get along well with his friends.

Both my parents are deceased, but P gets along famously with my siblings, my niece, all my friends, and of course my kids :)

We either 'lucked out' which I don't really believe in, or we just have amazing families!

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Done with USCIS until 12/28/2020!

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"What difference does it make to the dead, the orphans, and the homeless, whether the mad destruction is wrought under the name of totalitarianism or the holy name of liberty and democracy?" ~Gandhi

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sweet_peach   0

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I like all of my in-laws.....however I can't really speak to them......so that may have something to do with it!

Same here

¨*:•.(¯`'•.¸ K-1¸.•'´¯) .•:*¨

~ 07/05/06 - Met Hayz online by accident

~ 03/30/08 - Packet sent to VSC

~ 04/22/08 - NOA1 issued - Yeah they took it this time

~ 05/22/08 - Touch

~ 07/25/08 - Touch (showed about 1pm on the USCIS site)

~ 07/25/08 - NOA2 sent (must have been later in the day - noticed it on 7/26)

~ 09/10/08 - INTERVIEW - VISA APPROVED ! ! ! !

~ 09/12/08 - VISA RECEIVED

~ 10/17/08 - Arrival in the USA (JFK POE)

~ 10/31/08 - MARRIED! ! !

¨*:•.(¯`'•.¸ AOS¸.•'´¯) .•:*¨

~ 03/26/09 - Sent AOS (I-485, I-765, I-131)

~ 03/27/09 - AOS packet signed for by V BUSTAMANTE

~ 04/02/09 - NOA for AOS/ EAD / Travel Doc

~ 04/03/09 - Check cashed

~ 04/25/09 - Biometrics

~ 04/20/09 - Transferred to CSC

~ 04/25/09 - Transfer notice received in the mail

~ 04/27/09 - Arrived at CSC

~ 05/09/09 - Employment Auth / Travel Document Approved

~ 05/12/09 - AP approved - without an interview

~ 05/23/09 - Welcome letter received

~ 06/05/09 - GREEN CARD RECEIVED! ! !

~ 09/11/11 - DIVORCE - DIVORCE - DIVORCE

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kaffy   2

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Love my inlaws :) I couldnt have asked for better ones.. and that includes the grandparents, aunts & uncles, cousins, etc too

DCF Timeline here

POE Timeline

08/24/2008 POE Seattle

08/29/2008 SSN assigned

09/08/2008 SSN (Card) received

09/29/2008 Green Card received

I-90 Timeline (USCIS error)

11/10/2008 Send I-90 to Texas service center

12/xx/2008 NOA1

01/07/2009 Card production ordered

01/14/2009 Card mailed

01/xx/2009 Card received

I-751 Timeline

06/02/2010 Send I-751 to California service center

06/04/2010 Received at CSC

06/07/2010 NOA1

06/09/2010 Check cashed

07/27/2010 Biometrics

07/28/2010 Touch

09/02/2010 Approved

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rajemr2119   0

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well, i love both my MIL and my FIL! they are the most awesome wonderful peps I have met!

they are so kind and nice and loving.. :dance:

my MIL is so sensitive on my needs rather his son..

to my upsetness, i did think I should marry my MIL than my husband!? :crying:

at first it was so scary for me to think about my MIL and FIL.. especially MIL for you know, it

is always the MIL that will be the enemy of the DIL!

heheh :blink: ! anyways, am so greatful that I have a parent in law like my husbands parents!!

--rajemr2119

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Dr. Obvious   49

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We either 'lucked out' which I don't really believe in, or we just have amazing families!

Hard to believe it isn't luck when you are sitting on the otherside of the fence. :P I mean, I had no idea who his parents were before I could actually speak to them in true, meaningful, and deep conversation and by then I was already married to their son.

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CasandraYounes   0

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Love my MIL and FIL, except I can communicate more with my FIL because he speaks Spanish fluently. Communication with my MIL is not totally the way I would like it to be. They are both great though :yes:

Casandra and Aziz's Timeline
03/26/07 - Received my first call from Aziz
07/21/07 - 1st trip
12/14/07 - 2nd visit to Morocco
05/20/08 - 3rd visit to Morocco
07/10/08 - Married in Morocco
02/15/09 - 4th trip to Morocco

05/12/12 - 1st trip to Morocco together

CR1 Visa Journey
10/06/08 - Sent I-130 Packet
10/09/08 - Received NOA1
04/24/09 - Approval Notice Sent for I-130
07/13/09 - Informed by NVC Casa consulate busy***wait for September interview
07/27/09 - Received appointment letter from NVC WOHOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
09/14/09 - CR1 interview in Casa @ 8:00 am ******APPROVED******
09/15/09 - Visa in Hand
11/07/09 - Travel to US
11/27/09 - Received greencard
ROC
10/21/11 - Sent I-751 package
10/24/11 - USCIS receives the package
10/31/11 - NOA1 received
11/18/11 - Biometrics Interview in JAX
06/27/12 - Approval Notice sent

N-400

09/21/13 - Application filed

09/26/13 - NOA received

10/24/13 - Biometics apt

12/12/13 - Interview date

01/01/14 - Approval notice sent

03/27/14 - Oath ceremony

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chri'stina   190

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FIL deceased. MIL and I don't speak the same language, literally. :(

Same here...I have learned some phrases so I can say hello to her over the computer mic now and that makes her happy. I haven't had a chance to be around my in laws, but I love them even with all our differences. I don't think I could ever hate an in-law since I hardly ever hate anyone. Dislike is one thing, but I think hate is more extreme. I am sure they'd drive me crazy on certain things if I was around them all the time, but we have had a unique experience over the years which have made the situation something that was wished for, not just granted automatically. It's been a long journey and it's still not over until I go to India this spring to meet them finally in person.

Married since 9-18-04(All K1 visa & GC details in timeline.)

Ishu tum he mere Prabhu:::Jesus you are my Lord

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Dr. Obvious   49

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It's been a long journey and it's still not over until I go to India this spring to meet them finally in person.

Are you really exicited or really nervous or both? I bet they are. I hope it all goes smoothly over there. :)

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chri'stina   190

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It's been a long journey and it's still not over until I go to India this spring to meet them finally in person.

Are you really exicited or really nervous or both? I bet they are. I hope it all goes smoothly over there. :)

I am excited now. I used to be more nervous but I have gotten to know them better over the internet on mic over the past months. I think they feel like they know me better, so that makes me less nervous. It's less formal feeling and more friendly. :)

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Married since 9-18-04(All K1 visa & GC details in timeline.)

Ishu tum he mere Prabhu:::Jesus you are my Lord

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Dr. Obvious   49

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I am excited now. I used to be more nervous but I have gotten to know them better over the internet on mic over the past months. I think they feel like they know me better, so that makes me less nervous. It's less formal feeling and more friendly. :)

Sweet! How long are you staying over there? I hope long enough to pick a few more things up from the language, even if it is just simple nouns or commands. I bet they can't wait to see Kavi. :)

My in-laws haven't seen their granddaughter in 21 months. My daughter wasn't even walking when we left and now she will run you over. My MIL might explode soon from excitement. :lol:

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gladys   0

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Both MIL and FIL are very nice to me.. I belong to the lucky ones!!! :D

Adjustment of Status

Date Filed : 2008-09-21

NOA Date : 2008-09-24

RFE(s) : 2008-10-14

Bio. Appt. : 2008-10-17

AOS Transfer** : Online status was not updated

Interview Date : March 11, 2009

Approval / Denial Date :

Approved :

Got I551 Stamp :

Greencard Received:

Comments : NOA for initial interview was sent January 29, 2009 and received February 5, 2009

Employment Authorization Document

CIS Office : San Jose CA

Filing Method : Mail

Filing Instance : First

Date Filed : 2008-09-21

NOA Date : 2008-09-24

Bio. Appt. : 2008-10-17

Approved Date : 2008-12-05

Date Card Received : 2008-12-12

SSN

Date Filed: 2008-12-23

Date Received: 2009-01-19

State ID:

Date Filed: 2009-02-19

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