FYI to all my VJ buddies: Dad is doing well. He most likely had a stroke and is now in permanent high-level care. Mum's doing better dealing with it but it's still hard. Thanks for the kind wishes all.
How absent-minded I can be - I addressed you as Tony in my IM and forgot to glance at the "gender" icon in your profile! Won't make that mistake again; hope dad is doing as well as possible.
Next time I make a mistake like that please smack me around!
As you may have noticed I'm often direct and blunt and don't consider the gender of the poster when I'm replying, only the message. Maybe I can twist that into a compliment, LOL. What you posted made sense to me because it made sense is what I mean. Tony certainly found a gem.