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And I am telling JC the same thing, not to ask me to comment on a situation that I know nothing about. Why must I have a personal opinion about your siuation. I commented only on the immigraion advice until JM wanted me to form an opinion.

Your story is your story, I have NO opinion what so ever.

Its just called being human. The original post was riddled with emotions. Throwing in a "sorry" wouldnt make you too human. I guess a lil compasionate.

Why should I be saying 'sorry" to the poster. Woulld my saying sorry make her situation any better or worst. I have no personal opinion. Should I apologize becasue I have a Jamaican flag, what?

According to the poster the one who should be apologizing is in NY.

Every story has two sides, and the truth lies in the middle.

Sincere thanks. Any suggestions on whrreto get s divorce for a couple hundred $??

Your local court house has a DIY.

Look at the big picture the nightmmre is gone. The chance of him using any government benefits is slim to none. So stop worrying about what you can't change and focus on what change you can control and make.

You said he has gone to NY, so he must have friends and family there, he is their problem now.

ROC = Removal Of Conditions.

Filing for a divorce can cost as little as $300 dollars. Move on wih your life if that is what you wish to do.

Your husband has his GC, there is nothing you can do but move on. File for a divorce and let him ROC on his own.

Good luck.

A lawyer cannot help you on this denial, once divorce the reason for AOS went away. Marry the 2nd woman, file and hope/pray for the best. Save the lawyers fee, marry and re-file the 2nd AOS for this marriage.

This is the same advice a lawyer is going to give to you.

To be fair and kind to you a 80 years old paralegic woman will NEVER qualify for a work visa. So you should just get this out of your head. Second by the time your mother qualifies to petition for her mother, the grandmother will be 84 years old. Health insurance will be completely out of reach for her, most companies will not even covered her.

A nurse starting salary is from mid 45-60 thousand a year, depending on the specialty. You will have a hard time keeping 2 people covered in health insurance. Your mother will not be able to work, since she will need to be the care giver for he grandmother.

I generally don't respond to these non-sense post, but I am only stating what you are refusing to believe.

Visa wavier Program, Look at the US embassy site for US embassy in Australia. Educate your self on how to use this type of visa properly.

You can visit on the VWP, this may help with some of he seperation and adjustment for the children.

There is no visa option for you, if you are indeed the ex-wife. Your children and husband are USC, so they will not have any problem, unless your ex USC husband is willing to re-marry you, there is nothing avavilable for you unless you apply for some type of work visa seperately from their process.

Your USC children will be able to petition for you when they are 21 years of age.

Well Aaron if he is going to say he will stay for 3 months he might as well have a LOT of money in his account. It really is a white lie, far from fraud , since visa would allow him to stay up to 6 months anyway.

The word "fraud " is excesivelly over used on this site and it really does not help people when they are in desperate need.

It is really painful to not be able to see your family because they couldn't get something as simple as a tourist visa just because their accounts are empty and as stated before, they don't care if the person who invites you will pay for your costs. The embassy wants you to have money in your account for every day of your trip . For 3 months I would think they would like to see quite a bit.

Thanks for the bullying

Mariana, you may see it as a white lie, but a lie is a lie. So let's not start out by color coding lies. If the brother would like to obtain a tourist visa he should do it without lying. Really folks all of this missing your family is not the responsibility of the US government. The brother has migrated, he needs to find a way to travel back home to put the family at ease.

Yes, it is fair for any country to expect if you are traveling as a VISTOR to their country for you can pay for your day to day expense. A tourist visa is exacly what it stands for you are visting as a touris and you have funds to pay for your expenses.

And to report back to the parents about his brother married life. Skpe works jus as well for this, married brother can skpe the parens and leave it on for 24 hours a day.

I just wanted to let you know how that statement can be used against him.

How will the broher-inlaw family be without 3 months of income, will they be able to surival?

Security and background check will uncover this fact. Since it is a government job, some type of background check will be done. Different level for different type of jobs.

Typical government. One hand never talks to the other and the feet are going in two different directions. /sigh

They are two different governments, one is state, the other is federal. So why should they talk to each other, two different se of laws.

This is much more complicated rthan just going back and claiming a child, first the birth father has to sign over his legal rights to the child for migration. 2nd the birth mother has to show proof that this is her birth child aswell along with the fact that she has been providing for this child the last 5 years.

This child school records will show someone else as their parents, remember you are dealing with a high fraud country. There will be a full and through investigation.

Also can we please get the topic title changed since this child was not legally adopted. The information being presented now will not pretained to a legal adopted child thru the system.

The mother has no path to a GC thru her child until the child is of 21 years of age. There is no special visa for these type of situations, there are thousands of children who are USC, and they are not residing in the US.

There are millions of children in the US who are USC but there parents are living as illegal immigrants in the US.

This is a common occurence, there is no legal solution available for the mother, but to try to get the USC absent parent to suppor their child, and try to live a decent life in their home country.

You can only have one legal family, therefore adoption dissolve one and create another.

Now on to he legal aspec, yes an adoption disolve your legal ties with your birth parents and siblings. When a child is legally adopted, a new BC is created with the adopted parents name as the parents. Inorder to see a BC with birth parents name, most of the time they need a court order or if the adoption was done as an open adoption.

adoption dissolved the birth relationship. You will not have a Birth Cert to prove relationship. Adoption creats a new Birth cert wih new parents.

Noe: adopted children cannot petition for their birth parents, the relationship is dissolved through adoption. All they have in common is DNA.

Hi everyone,

I would like to get your idea about this case.

My friend was petitioned by father's wife who is a US cit.

My friend aged out, got married.

The father divorced,I think before he become a US cit.

Now,he's a US cit.He learned that the petition for his son was

cancelled? it's bec. he divorced.

Does my friend's father needs a lawyer for this? Our calculation

would make my friend wait for just less than 10 years if that petition

was pursued.

I am not much familiar with this, just so sorry to hear,knowing that my

friend was looking forward for this petition,although he was not able to

stay as single.Now he have kids too.

thanks for everyone's thoughts on this.

When the USC divorced he father, the paren and step child relationship was dissolved. Therefore the petition became void and null.

My sons SSN came and I have it. The 3 year old was born in the USA and both of us know the SSN. I had to go in apply for mine and he got it in the mail when I returned to Jamaica.

I have no intention to call him and ask for the number. Do you know any alternate way in which I can get to know my number?

Go to the SS office and ask or ask for A DUPLICATE ID card to be mailed to you.

Everyones is at fault and everyone is to be blamed, but it doesn't stop the pain. Sorry this has happen to you. Now it's time to make some decisions about what is best for you and your child.

Yikes. I didn't say you were incorrect. The OP, however, was not asking about what you think they should have done in the past. They want to know if their plan for the future will work. And it will.

So Please use your typing time to respond to the OP on how they can make it won't, not trying to tell me how to respond.