LIFE'SJOURNEY

To those who asked her to tell him she would move there, everything he stated as to why it wouldn't work is true he has spoken the truth on these facts. The rest are relationship issues, those I don't/won't address.

K, if he found her to petition for him, why do you think he won't find another YDS USC to petition for him. If he has tried 8 times to get to the US, he will try a 9th time and he may/will succeed. So as I say, that child will tie her to him.

The US and Jamamica does have reciprocity between certain states. Second, you are making an assummumption that he doesn't have any tie to the US, he may have more family in the US than in Jamaica. We don't know any of this, and the OP doesn't either based on what she has posted.

He has rights as a father, US and Jamaica have reciprocity rights toward custody and childsupport within some states in the US. I really doesn't matter where he lives he has rights as a father.

He has the father has done no know harm toward the child, the parents are at conflict, not child and parent.

As the parent of the child she may have to deal with him for the next 18 years, if ther was no child she could leave him in the wind and hve no follow up. Since there will be a child between the two, they will have to deal with each other.

Where is your Native America tribe registered first?

You do realize you are carry this man's child, so it's not over that easy. :o

Dont i meet the criteria from the below link

There are five primary elements to the Convention adoptee classification. In addition to other applicable requirements, all of the following must be true for a child to be eligible for the Convention adoptee classification:

The child is under the age of 16 at the time the I-800 is filed on his or her behalf (taking into account special rules on filing dates for children aged 15-16), is unmarried, and lives in a Convention country;

The child will be adopted by a married U.S. citizen and spouse jointly, or by an unmarried U.S. citizen at least 25 years of age, habitually resident in the United States, whom USCIS has found suitable and eligible to adopt (Form I-800A approval) with the intent of creating a legal parent-child relationship. Note that at this stage the child must not have been adopted yet, unless that adoption has been voided by the country of origin. (USCIS, in September 2008 FAQs on its website, offered guidance on cases in which the adoption cannot be voided in the country of origin.);

The child's birth parents (or parent if the child has a sole or surviving parent), or other legal custodian, individuals, or entities whose consent is necessary for adoption, freely gave their written irrevocable consent to the termination of their legal relationship with the child and to the child's emigration and adoption;

If the child has two living birthparents who were the last legal custodians who signed the irrevocable consent to adoption, they are determined to be incapable of providing proper care for the child; and

The child has been adopted or will be adopted in the United States or in the Convention country in accordance with the rules and procedures elaborated in the Hague Adoption Convention and the Intercountry Adoption Act of 2000 (IAA), including that accredited adoption service providers were used when required, and there is no indication of improper inducement, fraud, misrepresentation, or prohibited contact associated with the case.

http://adoption.state.gov/adoption_process/how_to_adopt/childeligibility.php

You are missing the other see bold,

How long will you be at the postion in Poland.

Option1. Postpond the interview up to a year....no GC, so he would need a visa to visit the US.

Option2.. Continue with the interview, have him POE in the US and stay with family and friends until he receives his GC. Not sure how he will be able to enter Poland.

Option3..Hubby goes to Poland, and if you and hubby have establish residence 6 months later, than have the interview in Poland by having he case transferred to the Poland consular.

Thank you so much.

You are in Dc too? nice.

OOh men the list is long ;)We will know how the job works out might PM if I need more help. Thanks you so much.

Best px

Anytime, Good luck

Great Art work is being done in Haiti and Cuba.

Thank you again! we are in DC and trust me it over 90+ everyday since I am here(April)so I think weather will be comparable or worst.We both don't speak any french or native so will see how the job interviewer takes it.If you were suppose to relocate to Haiti what will you pack for 2 yrs? Tv, radio, movies, fan, iron,coffee maker? we both love love Caribbean food so that a plus.

Once again thank you!

I live in DC, this 90 is a different type than the constant 90 degrees you will be feeling there.

coffee maker 1st

iron, dvd player, laptop, movies, radio, flat screen tv, bedding, towels, soap, favorite bath items, sunblock(plenty), favorite shampoo, reading books, flashlights and batteries, favorite cookies and candy.

You deal with the what when it happens, not to create an environment to make it happen. Marriage has it's ups and downs, they seem to be at a down time.

A sucess marriage requires alot of hard work, you seems to have missed that part.

Thank you so very much for replying, I have been so tense.I have spend allot of time on reading about Haiti and think I have a better understanding now.I have lived in India for 10 yrs, but not in poverty( India is very big and people are either poor or rich).I have a bit of experience is washing my own laundry, no electricity, poverty and very poor hygiene.

Can you help me with any information? on what food will we get there? what to pack? I think his NGO will give us accommodation, health care, car and other basic stuff. Its a big step but we both are young(25-28) and have no kids, and this experience will really boost our CV. A bit freaked out though? Have you been their?

Thanks again.

I have been to Haiti, things are changing slowly. The new President Sweet Mickey was a well known musician. Proverty is rampage because they still have not recovered from the major earthquake a couple years back. In PP, new buildings are being constucted. Food, would be your basic carribbean staples.

Th weather is very hot, so pack wash and wear. French is spoken along with an native patwah language.

I am of small help here but maybe some others could tell him names of Social Service agencies. Names and 800 numbers.

Since the OP has not name the state or county that he is living in, it is hard to give name and numbers to social service agencies. They are either state funded or private funded.

I agree that every situation is not VAWA, but OP is not far from it. If genders were reversed, no one would doubt VAWA. As far as not stay - that's not why people seek advice on immigration forum. Don't turn immigration forum into anti-immigration forum

There was nothing that was stated orginally that indicated that there was any kind of abuse happen. You wants to turn every situation ino your new found toy. If Mr. King wants out of his marriage it's quite simple, open the front/back door and leave. He is not being held hostage in his room.

What he doesn't want to do is leave without his newfound toys, or waiting for someone like you to offer him some new ones.

This is just a martial situation that should never have happen in the 1st place. He is the only one that will know if he would be safer and happy on the streets of US, or back a home on familiar grounds.

You'll need the aid/help of the social service agency. Your wife needs some mental health service. Please seek the help/aid of an social service agency before it is too late.

I know Haitians who wouldn't move back to Haiti. Will you'll be living out of one of the hotels that are still standing, proverty is rampage. Have you ever lived in a country with this kind of proverty before?

This is probably a troll too many discrepancies.

Show your marriage certificate, that's the only proof they need.

Apparently you do not understand. No woman or man should beat someone because they do not obey their rules!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

My friend they are deceased.

We were living with an uncle and cousin. But I have no contact with them.

I am scared because I do not have paperword (just the visa).

And we live in the south. There is a lot of discrimination.

Would u tolerate someone beating you?

So are you telling me that no people of color live in that entire town? Liar Liar pants on fire. Do not use that as an excuse for not seeking HELP.

Apparently you do not understand. No woman or man should beat someone because they do not obey their rules!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

My friend they are deceased.

We were living with an uncle and cousin. But I have no contact with them.

Okay, let me correct myself, have you spoken to her relatives about her mental health issues? You can contact them if the need be. This is NOT A GAME you are playing.

I am scared because I do not have paperword (just the visa). And we live in the south. There is a lot of discrimination.

Have you spoken to her parents about her mental health issues. You'll were living with them at one time correct.

Please don't envote issues that are not there into your life to escape the real issues.

SingleDad, have misguide information.

Was the rape reported back in 1990? Has she reported it in 2012? She will have to report the crime inorder for her to be considered a victim.

From a female perspective, after I have traveled for 12-18 hours flying, a 3 day road trip would be the last thing on my list of things to do. I would only be intrested in looking at the place I would be living and some much needed sleep.

The next week, 3 days traveling around would be nice couples time. Ask her what do she think before you plan.

Sorry for butting in.

Mr. Liberia

Being that only one side of the story is being told, and there seems to be missing pieces, all I can offer is this if you want to bail then leave. Remember you will never know when you might need the aid again, so bail and leave on a good foot.

You fiqure out the rest of your future on your own and don't leave scars in doing it.

Good luck.

What did you'll talk about durning the 10 long months of waiting for a visa approval? Please try to understand, bailing out now is only a case of returning back to your native country.