Welcome to the forum. As the spouse of a Green card holder, you cannot file an I-485 or I-765 (EAD) until your priority date is current. If she was a US citizen, you could file the I-485 immediately. See the monthly visa bulletin links below. You are currently category F2a. She can file an I-130 for you now (the sooner the better), but that is all you can do for now. In addition, you must remain in legal status. You will be barred from Adjustment of Status if you go out of status.
When to File Your Adjustment of Status Application for Family-Sponsored or Employment-Based Preference Visas: March 2024 | USCIS
Visa Bulletin For April 2024 (state.gov)