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It is clear to me that they got married going by his post stating " we got married". Past tense. It appears OP is confused about the return process in Ghana thinking that they still have a chance to get the K1 approved but as I said Ghana has not returned it nor notified NVC and USCIS. That's what Ghana does, they keep the case collecting dust instead of returning it in a timely manner which leaves everyone confused including NVC and USCIS. OP genuinely thinks that even though they married he can still be issued the visa. I don't think there is willfull deceit. OP can't enter the country even if the visa would be approved now that they "got married."

OP stated in his previous thread " we got married"
OPs wife now states they have a date. Let's keep it real here. A k1 even when issued or hung up in AP can not be used to enter the US when the couple has married before leaving his country.

Ah, so you're married, making you ineligible for a K-1 visa, but still find it to be the C.O's problem. The entitlement here is strong.

That's a clear cut sexual offense and a high level felony in every State. Forceful kissing is a form of sexual assault and you should report him to the police ASAP. No counseling, no second thoughts. If what you wrote is true, he is a sexual predator and needs to be stopped. If you told him to stop, that's a clear cut withdrawal of consent. Report him before his tongue heals as evidence will be needed for criminal prosecution. Do not let this one slide. He can do that to other women/children.

I think it's a taste of what is to come. Have you thought of what else she could be hiding?

Thank you all. All of you have excellent points. I shouldn't be afraid to bring it up, but I think that i have to for my own peace of mind, and possible safety. If her response is anything like it was last night, then I reckon this time tomorrow, I'll be cancelling flights, cancelling interview, and crying like a baby. Her past is questionable, so I'm leaning toward it having been a STD of some sort. She says she's cured and no longer sick and to not talk about it again. I understand it possibly being a self-pride thing, but in my opinion, the trust and honesty should trump that. Sorry for rambling. I'm nervous.

You two aren't aligned. At this point in your life you want someone to be on the same page as you. Not one person being an open book while the other is a closed one.
I don't know about you but any threat to my family, life, or health is a deal breaker. I would be sceptical as well.
If she is refusing to understand how important discussions about health is and is shutting it down. Then some serious decisions need to be made by you.
This is just my opinion.

The overstay in Greece is a total nonissue. If anything it shows that he is serious about you. it's not like Greece is a place where US citizens normally go on economical grounds. If he had overstayed before meeting you (as a tourist, for example) that might, in a very far fetched theory, make him look less credible. But in your case, you have nothing to worry about at all. Greece's (or Schengen's) immigration issues have nothing to do with your US visa.
That said, if irrelevant to the topic, he will probably have problems visiting any EU country in the future. So once you're in the US you should try to solve that so that you can travel together.

This is a very cruel world we live in and the leaders of this cruel world are participants on this forum. You people have no clue what my situation is. You have no clue that I met this woman online and visited her and her family, friends, and even went to church and had counseling with her pastor in Manila. You are clueless that I saved her life by giving her a lifesaving surgery. You're clueless that I literally gave her and her mom and place to live for many many months because her mom was ill and couldn't work. But of course I'm a bad guy because my x from 2015 scammed me right? And you read my posts? Ha! I really don't care what you people think you don't know me from Adam's house cat. I will never seek advice / counsel from anyone else on this board as it's 100% negative / demeaning / I'm glad it happened to you / you're a loser !!
In fact, I'm deleting my account and seeking advice elsewhere. I already know all there is to know about K-1 I could write a book!

Your original post didn't seem to be soliciting support - it primarily appeared to warn of scams by foreign partners.
Its admirable to want to warn others, but would you have taken such advice from others, if offered, before your latest k1? I think unfortunately people in these situations don't listen to advice, and make up their own minds.
I know that I would never marry anyone that I'd only spent 2 weeks with, I just don't think its long enough to really get to know someone. In my case my wife is the USC and I'm British so there was no thought of fraud, but I still want to get to really know someone before getting married. Its a massive decision.
I think if you're getting married to someone who you haven't spent much time with, and who is from a very poor country you have to consider that they have much to gain and little to lose from getting married to an American. At the very least I'd probably want to spend longer with them, and perhaps talk about me moving to their country for a while, rather than bringing them to the US - if only as a bluff to see whether marriage still interests them without the green card offer.

If the husband nearly beat her to death he shouldn't be around his kids and should be in jail for a long long time

It's hard for countries that no longer exist or are in the middle of extreme conflicts to provide documents. We read about the city of your birth nowadays as a center of a war theater like no other in recent years. There must be a provision that allows for missing documents in such cases. There are people with no known place/date of birth too. And they somehow get through.
Since you've spent all your life in Sweden and are presumably a Swedish citizen, can your government help with that? How does Swedish law treat cases like yours? You're probably not the only one without those documents there. See how is it handled in your locality. I would start there.

He's probably a drama queen but also seems a lot like a common profile of an Islamist terrorist that we read about nowadays (drinking and all included, since these are especially "permitted" for potential jihadists). This case is not for ICE but rather for FBI to handle. If any of the this is true he must, at the very least, be deported. You are a victim of delusion. Stay safe and be strong. Report him to FBI.

He's probably a drama queen but also seems a lot like a common profile of an Islamist terrorist that we read about nowadays (drinking and all included, since these are especially "permitted" for potential jihadists). This case is not for ICE but rather for FBI to handle. If any of the this is true he must, at the very least, be deported. You are a victim of delusion. Stay safe and be strong. Report him to FBI.

He's probably a drama queen but also seems a lot like a common profile of an Islamist terrorist that we read about nowadays (drinking and all included, since these are especially "permitted" for potential jihadists). This case is not for ICE but rather for FBI to handle. If any of the this is true he must, at the very least, be deported. You are a victim of delusion. Stay safe and be strong. Report him to FBI.

He's probably a drama queen but also seems a lot like a common profile of an Islamist terrorist that we read about nowadays (drinking and all included, since these are especially "permitted" for potential jihadists). This case is not for ICE but rather for FBI to handle. If any of the this is true he must, at the very least, be deported. You are a victim of delusion. Stay safe and be strong. Report him to FBI.

He's probably a drama queen but also seems a lot like a common profile of an Islamist terrorist that we read about nowadays (drinking and all included, since these are especially "permitted" for potential jihadists). This case is not for ICE but rather for FBI to handle. If any of the this is true he must, at the very least, be deported. You are a victim of delusion. Stay safe and be strong. Report him to FBI.

He's probably a drama queen but also seems a lot like a common profile of an Islamist terrorist that we read about nowadays (drinking and all included, since these are especially "permitted" for potential jihadists). This case is not for ICE but rather for FBI to handle. If any of the this is true he must, at the very least, be deported. You are a victim of delusion. Stay safe and be strong. Report him to FBI.

He's probably a drama queen but also seems a lot like a common profile of an Islamist terrorist that we read about nowadays (drinking and all included, since these are especially "permitted" for potential jihadists). This case is not for ICE but rather for FBI to handle. If any of the this is true he must, at the very least, be deported. You are a victim of delusion. Stay safe and be strong. Report him to FBI.

He's probably a drama queen but also seems a lot like a common profile of an Islamist terrorist that we read about nowadays (drinking and all included, since these are especially "permitted" for potential jihadists). This case is not for ICE but rather for FBI to handle. If any of the this is true he must, at the very least, be deported. You are a victim of delusion. Stay safe and be strong. Report him to FBI.

Call FBI if he's talking about bombs, ISIS and assault rifles.

Please, do yourself a HUGE favor and stop talking to this woman!

She is obviously a scammer: 1) It sounds like they didn't know each other that well, I mean, come on, she didn't even know his profession?!, still they got married. 2) She obviously is NOT in love with him if she dumps him because "he is just a plumber". 3) She just applied for K1 visa to get a way into USA: if you're actually in love and it doesn't work out with your new husband for whatever reason (which, by the way, IMO would take more than one week to know), you would just LEAVE the USA, because theoretically you only decided to move there FOR LOVE: but no, she is trying to stay no matter what, which I think is proof enough that was her actual goal from the beginning, and just used this guy as a means to achieve it. 4) The "He made me eat American food" part is a joke, right?

If I were you I would block her straightaway, so that she stops harassing you. Do not get involved with her and by all means do not shelter her, or you could potentially be accused of helping an illegal immigrant stay in the USA, which obviously wouldn't be great for you.

You don't really know her, just through Facebook. There're a lot of liars out there. Just block her, take care of yourself, and focus on your own journey. Good luck!

Just remove yourself from the situation completely. Don't even offer any more advice to her. It is not worth your time. Let her figure it out on her own. She didn't need your help scamming this guy to get him to bring her here.
Move forward with focusing on YOUR visa journey.

He's a plumber?!? That's so abusive! He fed her some food?!? The monster!

yup she says I married him on Saturday the 8th and he forced me out of the house on the 9th.
however she has no one in Texas and she managed to buy a plane ticket (her cousin) to come to NYC.
I met her in a K1 FB group and I believe she states someone on there and her cousin told her she can adjust without spouse which I told her she couldn't.
the reasons she gave me for abuse were:
1-hes only a plumber
2-he made her eat American food
3-and he wouldn't let her sleep because he wanted adult time.
I never heard he forced her to have adult time or to eat.
I told her I would post so she can see I am telling her the truth but shes not listening to me and wanted to come stay in my home.
I cannot have an illegal person in my home especially since im doing everything right in my own relationship and don't want it to jeopardize me and my case.
my husband also says since he's from DR (and knows how woman there can be) he doesn't want her in the home....god forbid she try and say he did something to her since she claims abuse so easily.
and he wants no problems with our marriage.