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Well... you do now, and it's your fiance. And at this point instead of trying to see if they can get a new appointment, I'd be sitting down having a long talk. If they are going to do this at one of the biggest appointments of their lives, what will you do when they get "cold feet" at the altar or at any other stage? I can imagine the consulate won't be thrilled about this.
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Utah Zoom Marriage
yuna628 replied to us-citizen's topic in What Visa Do I Need - Family Based Immigration
Well it is entirely possible the attorney did at the time hit the wrong button or select the wrong option. Doubtful they would admit this either. It's also possible someone at the USCIS messed it up too. Certainly they would not admit it either. They once changed my husband's gender on his card from M to F. Infuriated him for years. At naturalization he asked about it. Everything in the USCIS system was M and correct, so the officer concluded it was all just a printing error and no consequence other than the hassle and stress it caused him. They stressed the importance of making sure the naturalization certificate was correct before leaving the building. Unfortunately, the ideal scenario was for you to correct it on the day you received it or the next best option to correct it soon after. Your path forward is pretty much the same. FIOA and then correct the record. Then you can proceed with your spouse. The burden is placed on you, because that is how things go. -
Utah Zoom Marriage
yuna628 replied to us-citizen's topic in What Visa Do I Need - Family Based Immigration
The issue is you need to correct the naturalization record first and then proceed immigration with fiance or spouse. You will be going through piles of money wasted in application denials. -
I think everyone has given you good advice here but a few other things: ISAs are a big no no. You'd need to get rid of those before coming here. If you are living in the UK, how far is your wife through the UK's process? Close to citizenship? Green cards are for living in America and keeping your life there. If you are close to citizenship, you might want to consider finishing that first before forfeiting any status she has.
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Unfortunately, I understand why you may not have thought it was important to correct it at the time... but at some point it was going to become a big problem especially as you are trying to marry someone and get the USCIS involved in it. It's their error, but you're going to have to now fight with them and go through the process to correct this, before you can proceed to do what you want to do. If you don't respond to it, it will be denied... but trying to correct this mistake will be taking a very long time. You'll likely need to reconsider your previous plans, soon you start working on this the better.
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If the spouse has already had multiple shots and they have not hindered her in currently trying to have a baby, then having the required booster will not hinder any future baby making endeavors. While it is true that said vaccine can temporarily in some cases effect the length or flow of a cycle, this can be related to a complex reaction between hormones and stress response. The risk of body damage due to becoming sick with COVID is high, especially for some women with pre-existing gynecological conditions. Temporary cycle changes can happen for any vaccine, medication, illness, stress event, anything or nothing at all. There is no evidence in preventing pregnancy. Consult with your spouse's OBGYN for further medical confidence. Your reasoning will not qualify for a waiver.
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If she lives in NI instead of ROI then she falls under London.
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He is incorrect. Either he is intentionally lying, delusional, or completely ignorant. An SSN doesn't expire. It is his for life. He just cannot use the number to work until authorized (the authorization is the EAD or the green card). The SSN must be updated several times during the immigration process, but the number never changes or expires. I don't normally suggest going into the SSN and asking them questions as the employees aren't always helpful, but if he suggested that to one they'd laugh him out of the building. All of this doesn't matter. Because you have waited too late to obtain the SSN from the beginning, it now cannot be obtained until the EAD arrives. About jobs, I must stress to please don't think for one second that as soon as you have an EAD jobs will be so easy to obtain. From experience, my husband was extremely qualified in the IT field and even with that EAD no one wanted him. The problem to me is not only the market itself but that employers and some HR don't understand what an EAD is. They wanted to see a green card. The EAD only helped him with documentation for his DL not jobs. Experiences will vary of course. Once my husband had a green card he was hired nearly immediately, but by that time we were quite desperate. That did not mean he took a high qualifying job either. It was a part time, without benefits position, in low end IT work. Good people there saw the potential and qualifications and realized he did not belong in that role. I can only imagine what will happen when your spouse realizes not being able to achieve a job he believes he deserves or is forced to take a menial one. Are there mental health issues going on here? Strange statements and laying on the floor seem odd to me. What are you aware about the I864 obligations, in light of the potential breakdown of this relationship?
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I had to tell one of them that I needed to finally get a shower and to please don't yell at me to help about hulu during that time... 🤪
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my labor day. 1) Plan to write important letter 2) get sidetracked taking care of dog and injured husband 3)go on a wild goose chase tracking down an object that had been misplaced by family members 4) go on another wild goose chase trying to track down an object husband has misplaced (no luck) 5) ask someone to reorder lost object 6)with everyone raging about satellite tv and alternative options, I was now asked to set up 4 different hulu accounts (this took some time) 7)lunch! 8)try and teach the elderly how to use hulu for the millionth time (frustrated) 9)get sidetracked helping husband sort through items we need to pack 10)look through some maps 11)finally get to writing some of the important letter 12) book appointments for next week 13)be asked to try and teach the elderly how to use hulu again.... 14) cook dinner 15) elderly... hulu... again 16)clean up mess 17) continue planning trip abroad 18) hulu... AGAIN (can they just make a streaming service for old people)
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This is just very strange to me, no offense. You immigrate because you love someone and want to be with that person and have a life with that person together. Kitchens are rather irrelevant to the process. If kitchens were very important, then applying for an SSN (which it seems he did not want to do) opening an account together, working on a DL, and maybe even asking for an EAD expedite) would have been a key component to the process. Over the years have we been thrilled living at the same location as my parents? No. They drive us bananas but I am also responsible for their care. Still we have a life together. If this is not the life he wanted, you must both decide together what course of action to take. Immigration is not easy, and it will not get any easier or shorter. If you proceed with the adjustment process you need to show a life together... it does not sound like there is much togetherness right now, and that may show clearly during an interview.
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So when my husband came here on his K1 we lived at my family's house. We had saved a great deal of money, as I didn't work at the time because I am my parent's caretaker, and I knew it would take a while before he found a stable job. It was not easy. He applied to so many jobs and was rejected, and my parents were less than helpful in their comments at times. He felt dejected and unable to provide. There were deaths in the family and hardships to come. After a while, and still waiting on the USCIS to come through, money was getting tight. We nearly lost our health insurance. Thankfully a job came through and from there over the years we are in a pretty good place now. He is happy with life in the US and making more than he'd ever dreamed of. One thing in all those struggles though and I think is very important for every US citizen in the relationship to understand: Everyone's situation is different but YOU ultimately are responsible for supporting your foreign spouse, especially if they are not working. That doesn't just mean financially it means ensuring that they understand how life in the US works and also how the process works. Based on several things you've said here, I'm not sure either one of you understand some of the process. It is incorrect about there being two different SSNs. What you should have done was applied for his SSN immediately upon arrival. His SSN is his for life. It does not change. Without an SSN is significantly delaying the process. And sure, he wouldn't be able to work until his EAD comes even with an SSN, but an SSN helps you with insurance and gives the spouse some documents to their name. If this info has come from him this is false. You are the US citizen, you are responsible for knowing the information and having a plan. Don't rely on the immigrant to tell you how our customs are especially if it is clear their info is wrong. If they have misunderstood the info that's one thing, but if it is an intentional falsehood I don't know.. Always double check where the info has come from. Don't assume he is correct. You are responsible for his care. A DL: everyone is going to be different but if you live in an area like I do that is more rural and far to get to a shop driving is essential. My husband was happy driving in his own country but he absolutely wanted to drive here, and we made sure to set that up as soon as possible. A DL/ID is yet another important document for the immigrant. A joint account: I think that's typically very important in showing co-mingling of finances to the USCIS, setting the spouse for a future job etc. Of course if a divorce or abuse is occurring that is a situation where tangling finances might not be for the best - so you need to figure out what the future will be. If you terminate the marriage, adjusting status isn't going to happen because you're not continuing with the process. You said you cannot divorce because you haven't been married six months? I don't believe that to be true. The process in CA should take six months to finalize, but a divorce could be filed at any time. You said he doesn't want to take your money to go see a doctor? Why isn't he added to health insurance? Finally... marriage is hard work. Asking an immigrant to give up their entire way of life to move to a new country with new customs, language, and expectations is even harder. For reference I have known my spouse for nearly 20 years, but he only moved here 9 years ago. I don't know how long you were in a relationship with your spouse before the decision was made to immigrate, and most people certainly wouldn't wait that long - but for some I think waiting until both persons understand what they are getting themselves into and expectations of what it entails is important. Do you love him, truly, or is this a marriage of obligation? Does he love you, truly, or is this a relationship of something else entirely. You need to decide. You both do.
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All medications should be placed in your carry on baggage. Never put them in the checked hold baggage. If it needs refrigeration via a freezer pack/ice pack/gel pack these are an accepted allowance/exemption (because of the liquid rules) but TSA agents generally need to be informed. https://www.tsa.gov/travel/tsa-cares/disabilities-and-medical-conditions/medications#:~:text=Before the screening begins%2C inform,IV bags%2C pumps and syringes. That's the advice on the US side, but you're going to need to check on the regulations on the country of origin and the airline. Remember you are coming on a K1. You're moving to the US, so taking medication isn't unusual.
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Bringing my wife From the UK to the US
yuna628 replied to Antonio92's topic in IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures
Entering the US under the VWP with the intent to stay and adjust status is a big no no. Ask the lawyer what will happen if she announced her intentions to the CBP upon entry, and then fire him. 😉 To best protect your spouse, going the spousal visa route is the legal way. -
He wasn't just arrested for waving a flag. He was arrested for disorderly conduct, disturbing the peace, carrying incendiary devices with the intent to harm, resisting arrest and disobeying police orders. He also pleaded guilty to the charges. https://www.thescarboroughnews.co.uk/news/crime/scarborough-teen-jailed-for-racially-aggravated-behaviour-following-police-crackdown-on-civil-unrest-4753540
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You do not receive 3 or 4 COVID vaccines at once. There is a dosing interval that is regulated for safe and optimum protection and you have the option to space out as many vaccines as you wish right now. For instance my husband went to his GP and received his vaccinations before even going to the medical. Multiple dosages have to be spaced out and for those with no issue to be given together you could still space them out if it made you feel more comfortable (I actually do this with my dog - no more than two standard vaccinations at a time and if due for rabies it must be spaced out alone). Some are not problematic to be given together, but for those that are a series they are required to be spaced anyway. The vaccines as they currently stand do not prevent you (they may in some) from acquiring COVID for a variety of complex reasons, however they may protect you and others from severe illness or death. If we were serious globally about stopping COVID we could certainly do that, where you could have full confidence in the vaccine's protection - alas that is not where we are right now, so the vaccine offers what protection it can in the circumstances humans have created for themselves. All vaccines have side effects, largely because of your own personal immune response. In some, there is no way to predict that response so certain effects while rare, can amount a challenging symptom afterward. That is why in taking a vaccine a patient and doctor should evaluate risk vs reward. Initially I was advised that based on my own reaction that I should avoid future COVID vaccines, but was also advised to take thorough precautions to avoid getting sick and research continues on the subject. The risks of acquiring an infection and causing me further severe harm are high. Recently, I have seen good success of those with similar reactions taking Novavax (the risk profile for tinnitus still exist though), which delivers protection in a different mechanism and that is an option for some. When it comes to immigration however, the public health requirements are an important factor for the safety of the patient and for the protection of citizens. These are the requirements given by the government for a reason, as the immigrant is asking to live there afterall. Your personal assessment of risk becomes irrelevant to the government. Ultimately, like Boiler said, it doesn't matter how we feel on the subject of vaccines, the requirements are the requirements. There is a process one can go through if they qualify for it. No guarantee of approval.
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Hi OP: hearing loss or tinnitus can happen with a variety of vaccines, not just COVID. That being said such hearing loss conditions can happen after acquiring COVID infection as well and they may also occur after exposure to COVID followed by a vaccination afterward. Statistically incidents are low from the vaccine, however they are far higher after an infection. I personally know one individual that did experience tinnitus following their 4th booster. They have several risk factors for tinnitus. This was after a prior infection so it would be hard for a doctor to say 100% that is what caused it, only that the symptoms began within 24hrs of the vaccine (and there are theories why). A year following the symptoms emerging, the condition comes and goes, and they have certainly spoken to doctors that acknowledge it is a possible side effect but one that may wane over time. As someone that experienced a different and also rare side effect from the vaccine, but also know many more people that are completely fine and healthy, I know it's a difficult issue and you have limited options. It is a known side effect though rare, and some countries disclose it as such. But you have likely had vaccines in your lifetime that have the same amount of side effect risk. You're going to have to decide if a waiver, delays, and additional money is worth it. Unless you have a lifelong religious objection to all vaccines it will be an uphill battle.
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Sen. Bob Menendez indicted on bribery charges
yuna628 replied to yuna628's topic in Current Events and Hot Social Topics
Well, how to make bribery conviction disappear? Beg for a pardon from the President apparently. https://nypost.com/2024/08/19/us-news/menendez-negotiating-pardon-reduced-jail-sources-say/ All I got to say is I hope it's not true or Joe leaves him to rot.