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fantonledzepp

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  1. I advise you to follow the K1 guide on this site as if it were gospel.

    Guayaquil will be the post at which she'll interview, Quito doesn't do K1's or spousal visas. There have been instances where people have scanned signatures, some have taken, others have not. Your choice, but if you ask me, original all the way.

    Also, Guayaquil is a hell hole of a consulate, but there is much info here in this thread:

    http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/110313-us-consulate-in-guayaquil-ecuador/

    You will find lots of your questions answered as you read through this thread.

    I followed the K1 guide and also the USCIS instructions, and our process was really smooth. Any questions, just ask.

  2. You have to apply for the I-130 and I-129F. Which cannot be filed when that foreign fiancée/spouse is in the USA. They consider that as marriage fraud. And the non-American citizen will be deported. If you are here in the USA as a tourist you cannot marry an American citizen. Also if your here as a student you cannot marry an American citizen. That's what the K-Visa is for so you can stay legally with all the benefits of being married and your not a tourist or a student. The government considers this as marriage fraud. You will have a hard time proving why you both want to get married (government will think you only want to be married to come to USA and live here). If you violate your status of being in the USA. You will be banned from re-entry for 10 years or life.

    OP, do not listen to any of this rambling. I don't even know where to start... This poster is wrong.

  3. I say that one all the time, si man...

    How about: "You're still my final wife... for now."

    Hahaha. I dare not. I prefer to take the passive aggressive route when it comes to food, fill up on water.

    Does she eat guinea pig? "Cuy"? Has she cooked it? Don't let her go to the pet store! Hahaha.

  4. Make sure she brings her Cedula. Cops have been cracking down on expats returning to Ecuador. That should be enough. Also, we went to the Ecuadorian Consulate and had them "amend" her name. Basically, the passport is still in the maiden name but they put an "official stamp" in the passport that said that she was married to me and the difference in name. But who knows if that is good enough. Knowing Ecuador, somebody will come up with something that we've never heard, so bring a copy of the marriage certificate.

  5. I am far from delusional!!! I am a woman of God and know that forgivness and second, third and fourth...chances are possible. Everything is possible with God, but from what I am reading from the majority here, ya'll need God in your lives.

    Oh and yes, how old are you, and you have never heard of mental adultery?????? Just because you dont commit the physical act, the mental thought was there. You say that your spouses are not screwing other people and making babies....hhhmmmm....do you know that for an absolute fact???? Is everyone with their spouse 24/7? I think you are the one delusional. How many times have you heard one say...oh no, not my wife/husband...they know better than to cheat...i wish they might....i would leave in a heartbeat and then oh, truth comes out, the spouse has had an affair. It is not easy to swallow, but nobody would like to think our spouses are cheating, but fact remains, many do. Some get caught, some dont and some admit the affair due to feeling guilty. If there was no love, there would be no feelings of guilt!!!

    I would also like to see most of you in this same situation. You sit here and say what you "would do", but quite frankly, if it happened to you, the decision is not so easy. I can almost guarantee that the majority of you would attempt to work out your marriage.

    I am going to pray for each and every one of you that God touch your lives and soften your hearts. We as humans are not to judge, but seems that ya'll are doing just that.

    Because you are a "woman of god", do you think that only "god's" code of morals is the only right one? Trust me, there are a lot of people that don't "need god" in their lives in order to make sound decisions.

    You should get off your preachy, high horse.

    Oh, and watching porn is not cheating, having intercourse with another person, and getting pregnant, that's cheating.

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