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Out of the very large number of divorces there are very very few court cases, I would be very surprised if you could find a comparable set of circumstances and then if you could would it apply in your courts.

so would you look like a midget next to DiAssio?

Falsehoods! Reported!!!

Back to the disinformation line
Given the time frame he filed to adjust status, I wouldn't be surprised if his petition was misplaced and it wasn't until his congressman inquired that they went searching for it. AOS applications were totally overloading USCIS at the time, and many waited over a year. But it doesn't really matter, when they issued the green card is the date he's stuck with, together with all the others that waited longer than normal back then. His isn't the first, nor will it be the last case, where USCIS misplaced a petition for a couple years.

Its pretty common not to see what we don't want to see, particularly when we feel ourselves attracted to someone. Which is how many end up in this part of the forum. I'm sure the clues were there, but human nature made you ignored them. When we don't really know the person we're attracted to, people tend to fill in the blanks with what they want that person to be. When the clues start popping up, we ignore them because they don't match with the image we built of that person.
Just a couple of things you likely ignored.
You knew he had kids, where was the child support coming from? When did he pay it and how if he wasn't working?
How often was he going to see his kids or bring them down, or even seeing them when he was still there?
There's plenty of excuses we naturally put in place to excuse all this when we love someone, so I hardly blame you for not seeing it, but I'm sure the evidence was there.
As to my comment about his green card, your original post was a bit vague and this is an immigration forum. I randomly took a stab at you may want to try to yank his green card as many who come here do. Although they generally find out its rarely possible.
Good luck with how ever this plays out. And I hope your child with him can work out some type of relationship with the father.

This isn't a divorce forum, this is an immigration forum and I don't see any immigration question here. You married a deadbeat father by his history with kids in Canada. He moved away from them apparently and I would guess doesn't see them either or pay his support. With no job, don't expect any child support to be issued, this is something you'll have to bring him back to court for once he's working again. So there should be nothing surprising about his actions in the separation and divorce with you, as its exactly what he's done in the past.
If you're trying to get his green card yanked, you have no evidence of fraud that would cause it to be yanked. You only have evidence he's not a very good father.

Its pretty common not to see what we don't want to see, particularly when we feel ourselves attracted to someone. Which is how many end up in this part of the forum. I'm sure the clues were there, but human nature made you ignored them. When we don't really know the person we're attracted to, people tend to fill in the blanks with what they want that person to be. When the clues start popping up, we ignore them because they don't match with the image we built of that person.
Just a couple of things you likely ignored.
You knew he had kids, where was the child support coming from? When did he pay it and how if he wasn't working?
How often was he going to see his kids or bring them down, or even seeing them when he was still there?
There's plenty of excuses we naturally put in place to excuse all this when we love someone, so I hardly blame you for not seeing it, but I'm sure the evidence was there.
As to my comment about his green card, your original post was a bit vague and this is an immigration forum. I randomly took a stab at you may want to try to yank his green card as many who come here do. Although they generally find out its rarely possible.
Good luck with how ever this plays out. And I hope your child with him can work out some type of relationship with the father.

This isn't a divorce forum, this is an immigration forum and I don't see any immigration question here. You married a deadbeat father by his history with kids in Canada. He moved away from them apparently and I would guess doesn't see them either or pay his support. With no job, don't expect any child support to be issued, this is something you'll have to bring him back to court for once he's working again. So there should be nothing surprising about his actions in the separation and divorce with you, as its exactly what he's done in the past.
If you're trying to get his green card yanked, you have no evidence of fraud that would cause it to be yanked. You only have evidence he's not a very good father.

Its pretty common not to see what we don't want to see, particularly when we feel ourselves attracted to someone. Which is how many end up in this part of the forum. I'm sure the clues were there, but human nature made you ignored them. When we don't really know the person we're attracted to, people tend to fill in the blanks with what they want that person to be. When the clues start popping up, we ignore them because they don't match with the image we built of that person.
Just a couple of things you likely ignored.
You knew he had kids, where was the child support coming from? When did he pay it and how if he wasn't working?
How often was he going to see his kids or bring them down, or even seeing them when he was still there?
There's plenty of excuses we naturally put in place to excuse all this when we love someone, so I hardly blame you for not seeing it, but I'm sure the evidence was there.
As to my comment about his green card, your original post was a bit vague and this is an immigration forum. I randomly took a stab at you may want to try to yank his green card as many who come here do. Although they generally find out its rarely possible.
Good luck with how ever this plays out. And I hope your child with him can work out some type of relationship with the father.

This isn't a divorce forum, this is an immigration forum and I don't see any immigration question here. You married a deadbeat father by his history with kids in Canada. He moved away from them apparently and I would guess doesn't see them either or pay his support. With no job, don't expect any child support to be issued, this is something you'll have to bring him back to court for once he's working again. So there should be nothing surprising about his actions in the separation and divorce with you, as its exactly what he's done in the past.
If you're trying to get his green card yanked, you have no evidence of fraud that would cause it to be yanked. You only have evidence he's not a very good father.

Its pretty common not to see what we don't want to see, particularly when we feel ourselves attracted to someone. Which is how many end up in this part of the forum. I'm sure the clues were there, but human nature made you ignored them. When we don't really know the person we're attracted to, people tend to fill in the blanks with what they want that person to be. When the clues start popping up, we ignore them because they don't match with the image we built of that person.
Just a couple of things you likely ignored.
You knew he had kids, where was the child support coming from? When did he pay it and how if he wasn't working?
How often was he going to see his kids or bring them down, or even seeing them when he was still there?
There's plenty of excuses we naturally put in place to excuse all this when we love someone, so I hardly blame you for not seeing it, but I'm sure the evidence was there.
As to my comment about his green card, your original post was a bit vague and this is an immigration forum. I randomly took a stab at you may want to try to yank his green card as many who come here do. Although they generally find out its rarely possible.
Good luck with how ever this plays out. And I hope your child with him can work out some type of relationship with the father.

This isn't a divorce forum, this is an immigration forum and I don't see any immigration question here. You married a deadbeat father by his history with kids in Canada. He moved away from them apparently and I would guess doesn't see them either or pay his support. With no job, don't expect any child support to be issued, this is something you'll have to bring him back to court for once he's working again. So there should be nothing surprising about his actions in the separation and divorce with you, as its exactly what he's done in the past.
If you're trying to get his green card yanked, you have no evidence of fraud that would cause it to be yanked. You only have evidence he's not a very good father.

Its pretty common not to see what we don't want to see, particularly when we feel ourselves attracted to someone. Which is how many end up in this part of the forum. I'm sure the clues were there, but human nature made you ignored them. When we don't really know the person we're attracted to, people tend to fill in the blanks with what they want that person to be. When the clues start popping up, we ignore them because they don't match with the image we built of that person.
Just a couple of things you likely ignored.
You knew he had kids, where was the child support coming from? When did he pay it and how if he wasn't working?
How often was he going to see his kids or bring them down, or even seeing them when he was still there?
There's plenty of excuses we naturally put in place to excuse all this when we love someone, so I hardly blame you for not seeing it, but I'm sure the evidence was there.
As to my comment about his green card, your original post was a bit vague and this is an immigration forum. I randomly took a stab at you may want to try to yank his green card as many who come here do. Although they generally find out its rarely possible.
Good luck with how ever this plays out. And I hope your child with him can work out some type of relationship with the father.

FYI: You have no question related to immigration so I would not be surprised if the moderators close or delete this thread.

This isn't a divorce forum, this is an immigration forum and I don't see any immigration question here. You married a deadbeat father by his history with kids in Canada. He moved away from them apparently and I would guess doesn't see them either or pay his support. With no job, don't expect any child support to be issued, this is something you'll have to bring him back to court for once he's working again. So there should be nothing surprising about his actions in the separation and divorce with you, as its exactly what he's done in the past.
If you're trying to get his green card yanked, you have no evidence of fraud that would cause it to be yanked. You only have evidence he's not a very good father.

This isn't a divorce forum, this is an immigration forum and I don't see any immigration question here. You married a deadbeat father by his history with kids in Canada. He moved away from them apparently and I would guess doesn't see them either or pay his support. With no job, don't expect any child support to be issued, this is something you'll have to bring him back to court for once he's working again. So there should be nothing surprising about his actions in the separation and divorce with you, as its exactly what he's done in the past.
If you're trying to get his green card yanked, you have no evidence of fraud that would cause it to be yanked. You only have evidence he's not a very good father.

numb nuts was Tuesday's word of the day you vulgarette.

Out of plus ones again, but great posts

Fuller than Tarklar at an all you can eat weinner roast?
I was hungrier than Frenchy at a free clam bake...

Mike Tyson is truly a vulgar man. I mean who bites a guy's ear off, its not chicken you know.

I think she means she eats vulgas. And that is just vulgar to think about.
The high school festivals have drag queens over there? The religious right in this country drop dead of a heart attack. Can you set them up to be exchange students?

wicked witch shoes!

There is no case he can close. The only case he had was the I-129F petition, which is already expired when she entered the country. He could file another one today if there was someone else he met in person within the last 2 years. Heck he could have even filed another before she ever arrived in the country.

None of which will matter one bit to USCIS, she has no legal path to stay. His case was closed when the visa was issued and used. Had she filed to adjust status after marriage then a new case would have been opened. At the current time there is nothing for him to do. There are no open cases. The only thing open is her I-94 which allows her to legally stay in the USA for 90 days if she marries or not. He didn't marry her, what she does now is up to her and not him. Even if she chooses to stay illegally, he can't force her onto an airplane.

Which why I mentioned confronting the owners of the salon with trafficking laws after this is complete. You want to insure there is no repeat of the shady business. And yes, he needs to have a serious heart to heart with his wife. To me it appears she was forced into this situation against her will. Partly by her parents, and partly by the salon owners. Its likely the parents got money in their pockets, and the salon owner got labor below market rates.