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My partner and I, both retired musicians, met on a Keyboard Forum in 2013 traveling back and forth to UK & Virginia to visit each other- using the 90 day visa waiver options.
Last yearwe decided to make it permanent because we were tired of the travel .I filed the F129 and received the NOA dated 7/23/20. It's in California and per the status reports
for that office, it shouldn't be much longer till it's sent to NVC.
We are elderly- I'm 80 & he is 74, so our situation is unlike all stories I've read about here. Our mutual love of music, the arts & many other things brought us together for a wonderful
long distance IPAD & internet companionship and love affair. We love to provide music at care homes, I'm a church musician and we both are very young at heart.
I have 3 questions-
1. If we should change our mind about making it permanent- before he travels here with Approval docs (assuming it's approved) Would we need to formally rescind the F129 process?
- then would we be ok to re-start visiting each other on the Visa Waiver program.. Neither of us want to say goodbye, but I've got a pending major surgery - that will occur in the middle
of all this that could alter our thought process for the permanent solution.
2.Assuming we decide to complete the process, I read somewhere that my financial information would only be necessary if his income and assets don't qualify him on his own.
If someone has had similar situation or can give enlightenment, would appreciate it.
3.Health Insurance- According to an interview at SS office, he will be eligible for Medicare as my spouse after 1 year of marriage.(GN 00303.800) Does anyone have suggestions
for interim period starting on date of arrival into the US. We typically get visitors coverage for the normal 90 days, but will need something much more substantial as a permanent
resident. Looking at the Marketplace (Obamacare- now Bidencare, I assume) so wonder if anyone has accessed this easily.
Thank you in advance for some feedback
Judy