the benefits to marrying a former hooker (joking)?

[BYRON-LEIDY 0]

Very true!! I guess you have to analyze the person...the ones who havent changed sould be pretty transparent.

[almaty 19]

Very true!! I guess you have to analyze the person...the ones who havent changed sould be pretty transparent.

good point..and allot of the ladies, do not have a great education and their past lives have been nightmares...and are not hard reads

[BYRON-LEIDY 0]

This is what actually going through it in my life has done...i have become very cautious with women! The one i was with was a nightmare...she didnt tell me she use to strip until after 4 months of being together! She was crazy!! i went through hell with her...when i started telling her that i didnt want to be with her anymore , she would scratch her face and say well im calling the poice and keeping you condo...your the one thats going to have to leave not me....just remembering it makes me sick!!!!!!!!!

[Ban Hammer 12,865]

It would actually be fairly easy for a woman to pretend she's a virgin when she's not one. Sure, she wouldn't have her hymen anymore, but that could easily be explained away by numerous things -- years of tampon use, excessive masturbation (including the insertion of an object, like a #######), accidents (bicycle or horse riding incidents come to mind), and there are even some women who're born without an intact hymen to begin with!

So knowing the above, it'd be quite simple for a woman to make a man believe she was a virgin, provided she was a good actress. I'm not quite sure why a woman would feel the need to do this, however. While it might make the man feel "good" that he's the woman's "first," the truth would eventually come to the surface. Then he'd not only know he wasn't his partner's first, but that his partner was also a lier as well.

rule of thumb.....if you stick a piece of chalk in her butt and she can write the declaration of independence on a chalkboard, odds are she's not a virgin.

I am not advocating one position or another.

should i should i should i?

good restraint brother charles..you pissed off enough folks today

actually the tally list is quite short today..........

[Peikko 1,575]

It'd take a lot more than that to piss me off, lol

[almaty 19]

This is what actually going through it in my life has done...i have become very cautious with women! The one i was with was a nightmare...she didnt tell me she use to strip until after 4 months of being together! She was crazy!! i went through hell with her...when i started telling her that i didnt want to be with her anymore , she would scratch her face and say well im calling the poice and keeping you condo...your the one thats going to have to leave not me....just remembering it makes me sick!!!!!!!!!

hmmm..i am glad you got away from her brother

[BYRON-LEIDY 0]

Believe me so am I!!!!!!!!!!!! Ufortunately she still calls...i reject the calls

[almaty 19]

Believe me so am I!!!!!!!!!!!! Ufortunately she still calls...i reject the calls

whoa! she sounds like my ex girl friend fay..she being calling in for numerous years.,..she was not a stripper or a hooker..but, not afraid to dot you eye either..

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I think every man has to go through a girl like this in their life...like i said before, it just makes you appreciate what you have so much more!!

[Carlawarla 1]

Through years and years of working with the "johns", I have got to know many many of the victims. And that's exactly what they are. There is never consent in a solicitation. Whether the sex trade worker is wanting money for food, diapers, drugs, alcohol...whatever, we KNOW well over 90% of these women have horrendous backgrounds of abuse. Anyone that leaves the streets I say...all the power to them. These women are beautiful people inside and need our help and support to leave the street.

Carla

[Sheriff Uling 3]

...ever heard the saying ..."you can't make a ho a housewife".....im sure not every woman falls into this

You watch way too much "Rap City", but you are correct... Hehehehe!!!

[isleta521 5]

Through years and years of working with the "johns",

[BYRON-LEIDY 0]

...ever heard the saying ..."you can't make a ho a housewife".....im sure not every woman falls into this

You watch way too much "Rap City", but you are correct... Hehehehe!!!

RAP CITY...

[Jaseball 0]

I'd be wary of any woman in the sex trade - porn actress, hooker, stripper, etc.

Virgins are also a turn off. First, she has no basis to compare you to and will always be curious about other men. There are also just women who are frigid, hate sex, have massive hangups, etc. For someone I am marrying and with me pretty much swearing off other women, we have to be compatible in bed.

If she's had sex a few times with a few guys at least she has some experience and if those guys were horrible, selfish, and inexperienced lovers and you rock her world, well that is optimal.

Hookers are like playing Russian roulette with 5 chambers full and having to pull the trigger 6x.

I mean, they already have a certain mind set. Their customers probably use the services of several hookers, so each act the woman performs her exposure to linked sexual partners is just exponentially higher. Hookers view sex as a job and not as pleasure. They've been stretched out, demeaned, and used by probably every type of guy imaginable.

Nope, I see no benefit at all to dealing with any of that. There are millions of women out in the world with hundreds of thousands of quality, worthwhile women. No reason to take the added risk by marrying someone who went that path in life.

Heck, I wouldn't want to date anyone in the sex trade and even just a one time roll in the hay isn't an attractive deal.

[BYRON-LEIDY 0]

I totally agree on the virgin thing!!! A curious woman is a dangerous woman!