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I-485 Interview and Spouse not cooperating.

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milimelo
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OP, stop opening new threads.    My advice would be cut your losses, pack up and go back to India - there's no way for you to adjust with the situation you have. Kids are resilient - will ad

smilingstone
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How can you say it's a bona fide marriage when everything you have disclosed says otherwise? Do you think it is normal to not only not live with your husband, but to not even know where he lives? 

milimelo
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Umm, you sure you have a real marriage? Why wouldn't you live together with your spouse? Why wouldn't you have a lease together, or the joint bank account? 

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"The US immigration process requires a great deal of knowledge, planning, time, patience, and a significant amount of money.  It is quite a journey!"

- Some old child of the 50's & 60's on his laptop 

 

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In summary, it took 13 months for approval of the CR-1.  It took 44 months for approval of the I-751.  It took 4 months for approval of the N-400.   It took 172 days from N-400 application to Oath Ceremony.   It took 6 weeks for Passport, then 7 additional weeks for return of wife's Naturalization Certificate.. 
 

Crazy Cat Grand Master

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Time for a good attorney.....I see no other way to even have a possibility of staying.

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"The US immigration process requires a great deal of knowledge, planning, time, patience, and a significant amount of money.  It is quite a journey!"

- Some old child of the 50's & 60's on his laptop 

 

Senior Master Sergeant, US Air Force- Retired (after 20+ years)- Missile Systems Maintenance & Titan 2 ICBM Launch Crew Duty (200+ Alert tours)

Registered Nurse- Retired- I practiced in the areas of Labor & Delivery, Home Health, Adolescent Psych, & Adult Psych.

IT Professional- Retired- Web Site Design, Hardware Maintenance, Compound Pharmacy Software Trainer, On-site go live support, Database Manager, App Designer.

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In summary, it took 13 months for approval of the CR-1.  It took 44 months for approval of the I-751.  It took 4 months for approval of the N-400.   It took 172 days from N-400 application to Oath Ceremony.   It took 6 weeks for Passport, then 7 additional weeks for return of wife's Naturalization Certificate.. 
 

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2 minutes ago, Sam222222221211 said:

I have a 8 year old daughter with me she is going to school over here. 

 

I am genuine bonafide married but lack documents and cooperation. 

 

Can I explain the visa office my situation???? 

 

 


what can you explain? Your husband doesn’t want to confirm you’re together and you don’t live together?!

 

yeah, USCIS will totally understand…

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8 minutes ago, Sam222222221211 said:

Can I explain the visa office my situation???? 

 

When your spouse fails to show for the interview, that will doom your case, imo.  Even if husband is there, your evidence of a bona fide marriage is severely lacking.

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"The US immigration process requires a great deal of knowledge, planning, time, patience, and a significant amount of money.  It is quite a journey!"

- Some old child of the 50's & 60's on his laptop 

 

Senior Master Sergeant, US Air Force- Retired (after 20+ years)- Missile Systems Maintenance & Titan 2 ICBM Launch Crew Duty (200+ Alert tours)

Registered Nurse- Retired- I practiced in the areas of Labor & Delivery, Home Health, Adolescent Psych, & Adult Psych.

IT Professional- Retired- Web Site Design, Hardware Maintenance, Compound Pharmacy Software Trainer, On-site go live support, Database Manager, App Designer.

______________________________________

In summary, it took 13 months for approval of the CR-1.  It took 44 months for approval of the I-751.  It took 4 months for approval of the N-400.   It took 172 days from N-400 application to Oath Ceremony.   It took 6 weeks for Passport, then 7 additional weeks for return of wife's Naturalization Certificate.. 
 

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1 minute ago, Sam222222221211 said:

Can someone help me with a good attorney with my case that can help me.

 

Need a good attorney Helpp!!

Check AILA for good lawyers in your area - https://www.ailalawyer.com/

 

I think most of them will suggest leaving the US. There's no obvious path for you to stay.

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Married for 4 months ,

No financially support from Spouse.

Does not live together. I have no idea where he lives.

Tried going to the place where he stated he lives, he told currently he is not there and did not allow me to come

comes to meet me once a while and we live in a motel (I keep quiet as I am in a remarriage, have a child from my previous marriage with me.)

AOS pending, spouse not cooperating.

I entered in good faith, now I am having sleepless nights.

please help. I am tired, worried.

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Crazy Cat Grand Master

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14 minutes ago, Sam222222221211 said:

Married for 4 months ,

No financially support from Spouse.

Does not live together. I have no idea where he lives.

Tried going to the place where he stated he lives, he told currently he is not there and did not allow me to come

comes to meet me once a while and we live in a motel (I keep quiet as I am in a remarriage, have a child from my previous marriage with me.)

AOS pending, spouse not cooperating.

I entered in good faith, now I am having sleepless nights.

please help. I am tired, worried.

There is no case, that I can see, for a marriage based Green card.  I'm sorry.  Time to go to plan B.

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"The US immigration process requires a great deal of knowledge, planning, time, patience, and a significant amount of money.  It is quite a journey!"

- Some old child of the 50's & 60's on his laptop 

 

Senior Master Sergeant, US Air Force- Retired (after 20+ years)- Missile Systems Maintenance & Titan 2 ICBM Launch Crew Duty (200+ Alert tours)

Registered Nurse- Retired- I practiced in the areas of Labor & Delivery, Home Health, Adolescent Psych, & Adult Psych.

IT Professional- Retired- Web Site Design, Hardware Maintenance, Compound Pharmacy Software Trainer, On-site go live support, Database Manager, App Designer.

______________________________________

In summary, it took 13 months for approval of the CR-1.  It took 44 months for approval of the I-751.  It took 4 months for approval of the N-400.   It took 172 days from N-400 application to Oath Ceremony.   It took 6 weeks for Passport, then 7 additional weeks for return of wife's Naturalization Certificate.. 
 

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OP, stop opening new threads. 

 

My advice would be cut your losses, pack up and go back to India - there's no way for you to adjust with the situation you have. Kids are resilient - will adjust to the return and going back to school with old friends.

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Cw1977 Explorer

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5 minutes ago, Sam222222221211 said:

Married for 4 months ,

No financially support from Spouse.

Does not live together. I have no idea where he lives.

Tried going to the place where he stated he lives, he told currently he is not there and did not allow me to come

comes to meet me once a while and we live in a motel (I keep quiet as I am in a remarriage, have a child from my previous marriage with me.)

AOS pending, spouse not cooperating.

I entered in good faith, now I am having sleepless nights.

please help. I am tired, worried.


You need to stop worrying. That isn’t helping anything. The sooner you realise the marriage is over and you are not getting a visa, the better for your mental health it will be. 
 

forget him and the visa idea. They no longer exist. 

Crazy Cat Grand Master

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7 minutes ago, milimelo said:

OP, stop opening new threads. 

 

My advice would be cut your losses, pack up and go back to India - there's no way for you to adjust with the situation you have. Kids are resilient - will adjust to the return and going back to school with old friends.

100% accurate.  That is the honest truth.

"The US immigration process requires a great deal of knowledge, planning, time, patience, and a significant amount of money.  It is quite a journey!"

- Some old child of the 50's & 60's on his laptop 

 

Senior Master Sergeant, US Air Force- Retired (after 20+ years)- Missile Systems Maintenance & Titan 2 ICBM Launch Crew Duty (200+ Alert tours)

Registered Nurse- Retired- I practiced in the areas of Labor & Delivery, Home Health, Adolescent Psych, & Adult Psych.

IT Professional- Retired- Web Site Design, Hardware Maintenance, Compound Pharmacy Software Trainer, On-site go live support, Database Manager, App Designer.

______________________________________

In summary, it took 13 months for approval of the CR-1.  It took 44 months for approval of the I-751.  It took 4 months for approval of the N-400.   It took 172 days from N-400 application to Oath Ceremony.   It took 6 weeks for Passport, then 7 additional weeks for return of wife's Naturalization Certificate.. 
 

 
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