Visa refused Sent back to NVC

[Mazlyn 15]

9 hours ago, Soloenta said:

   You need to find a sponsor as soon as possible, age is a huge red flag, but, legally they can't discriminate because of age. 

   They will look hard for other things to use against you.  Five days together, huge red flag.  You have a lot of work ahead of you.  You need to visit him often and I know money is tight everywhere.  

   Question, did you meet in person be for you married him and stayed five days.  If so how long did you stay?

 

   How long have you known him?  Do you have pictures with his family besides them not being in the wedding pictures?  Not having them in the pictures is a huge mistake.

 

   He should feel blessed they sent his passport back!  They kept my husbands, said it was lost.  Second interview they handed his passport back mutilated, it was stapled in so many places my husband had to pay for a new one.   

 

  With much respect, there is no meanness in what I'm going to say.  The future for you will be an uphill hard battle full of stress.  Money will fly out the window and you will most likely need a lawyer which will be a minimum of $5,000.00, minimum.  Are you confident, he's worth it, that he feels the same way you do?  I ask you this because I know several women from VJ married to Pakistani men, that once they arrived it was a living hell.   Please take some time to think this through.  If you decide it's worth the struggle and stressful work ahead then, I'm here for you if you need me, to talk and hold your hand.  I can also give you information on a great lawyer and his firm I used.  Please think seriously about this.  Please PM me if you like.  💓

 

No we didn’t get any family photos tho I told him we needed that. I only met him the 5 days in person which was the same week of marriage. I never met him beforehand in person. I am 100% sure he is worth it and that he feels that same way. As I said before once him and I get an official letter from nvc denial letter or something we will not try again and I will move to him maybe permanently, but I won’t try for citizenship right away there I will give it a year at least to adjust and see if I like it. 

[Soloenta 2,218]

On 12/14/2020 at 1:53 AM, Mazlyn said:

No we didn’t get any family photos tho I told him we needed that. I only met him the 5 days in person which was the same week of marriage. I never met him beforehand in person. I am 100% sure he is worth it and that he feels that same way. As I said before once him and I get an official letter from nvc denial letter or something we will not try again and I will move to him maybe permanently, but I won’t try for citizenship right away there I will give it a year at least to adjust and see if I like it. 

   Ok good, then it's worth fighting for.  If NVC sends you a denial,  they give you a chance to reply.  You can send letters from his family, parent's,  uncle, aunt, anyone prominent they may know stating they were at your wedding.   A letter from you about the wedding explaining reasons, your husband should do the same.  Find a sponsor now if possible and send that information along with all the rest. Leave no stone unturned.  

If they still deny you, staying with your husband in his country for a year, two better and refile with tons of pictures with family and friends, would be great if your family visit you.  Also make friends while you're there, again picture and letters. 

 

  I wish you only the best, I know well it's  not easy but it can be done with more evidence.  Please keep us up to date.  🤗♥️🤗

[Ryan H 3,791]

On 12/16/2020 at 6:45 AM, Soloenta said:

If NVC sends you a denial,  they give you a chance to reply. 

 

Strictly speaking for the benefit of the OP, the NVC won't be sending anything; it would be USCIS and they would be sending a Notice of Intent to Revoke (NOIR).