I-751 Interview During Seperation?

[Cmptrsdeal 76]

The divorce has not yet been officially filed... I see that might be a key thing.

[evapaula 230]

8 hours ago, Cmptrsdeal said:

On the letter she received,  it doesn't show that.  here is what I see on the letter:

 

at top it says For I797C Notice of action

 

This notice does not grant any immigration status or benefit. 

 

part 1:  

 

part 2:  

 

 

UNSURE WHY UPSIDE DOWN< I REDID IT SHOWING CORRECTLY AND IT STILL SHOWS THIS...

 

.IT SHOWS NOTHING ABOUT ME HAVING TO BE AT THE INTERVIEW... ANY IDEA?   Should I submit a withdraw request? 

A moderator should probably remove these attachments, as they show sensitive information

Edited February 2, 2017 by Ontarkie
Removed personal information. from quote

[mindthegap 2,543]

 I saw it before the attachments were removed - probably not a good idea to post up scans without personal information being redacted!

 

That is a biometric appointment notice, which every immigrant going through ROC has to do, and is not a notification of an interview, which is a totally different thing.

 

 

[NikLR 13,220]

Thanks for the poster who said it was a biometrics appt letter.  Thats not an interview.  Yes you can write to writhdraw your support of a joint ROC at this time.  I do suggest being the person to file for divorce as this gives you control over the proceedings. 

[mindthegap 2,543]

9 hours ago, Cmptrsdeal said:

The divorce has not yet been officially filed... I see that might be a key thing.

Which totally contradicts what you posted earlier when you were specifically asked how long until the divorce is final.

Most of the subsequent advice given has been on the basis that divorce had been filed and was in progress.

 

 

I'm out.  Good luck.

[Yan_Inna 32]

I am sorry to say this, but she can still get her gc without you and citizenship. This is one of the faults of people's rights in this country. Sometimes they work the wrong way.  She can say she was abused by you, hire a lawyer and she will get everything anyway. My friend went through this. Most of the laws favor women in US. You don't have to show up and don't do anything just plead your case and hopefully the ungrateful B...will get deported. 

[Cmptrsdeal 76]

ohhhhhhhhhh, sorry about that.   Yea I'm going to be filing this upcoming week.  I should have been more indepth with clarifying that.  Sorry...   I thought it was an interview, so it's just biometrics,  so she won't have an actual interview then, correct? 

[Cmptrsdeal 76]

24 minutes ago, Yan_Inna said:

I am sorry to say this, but she can still get her gc without you and citizenship. This is one of the faults of people's rights in this country. Sometimes they work the wrong way.  She can say she was abused by you, hire a lawyer and she will get everything anyway. My friend went through this. Most of the laws favor women in US. You don't have to show up and don't do anything just plead your case and hopefully the ungrateful B...will get deported. 

I have saved conversations where she had talked to her friend, that was born in US and she's filipina and she told my wife to just stay with me till she gets her 10 yr gc and leave me.  and I have conversations of her belittling me and telling me that I am F*cked up and I brought her here and f*cked her life up..  my friends told me she should be grateful, if not for me bringing her here, she wouldn't have anything she has now.  but I don't know...   I use to not be on antidepressants and anxiety medication, but I can't be around her without it.  I swear she's bipolar, she can be ok 1 moment and then the slightest thing sets her off and she becomes a totally different person.  I don't know what to do,  so depressing.  I'm gonna try my hardest to get spousal support.  She's a nurse and ever since she past her NCLEX, she feels/acts like she is so much better than me.  :-(

[Georgia16 2,858]

3 minutes ago, Cmptrsdeal said:

ohhhhhhhhhh, sorry about that.   Yea I'm going to be filing this upcoming week.  I should have been more indepth with clarifying that.  Sorry...   I thought it was an interview, so it's just biometrics,  so she won't have an actual interview then, correct? 

She might not get an interview it could be waived. You can contact them with the new info that you are not together anymore then file divorce and then she can file on her own with the divorce waiver.

[evapaula 230]

38 minutes ago, Yan_Inna said:

I am sorry to say this, but she can still get her gc without you and citizenship. This is one of the faults of people's rights in this country. Sometimes they work the wrong way.  She can say she was abused by you, hire a lawyer and she will get everything anyway. My friend went through this. Most of the laws favor women in US. You don't have to show up and don't do anything just plead your case and hopefully the ungrateful B...will get deported. 

Why should she be grateful? And why should she be deported because they're not working out anymore? If the marriage was bona fide, she doesn't need to claim abuse to ROC. 

[Ash.1101 1,755]

I guess the best question is, do you want to help her or do you want to hurt her? Because you'll get two different answers from people who would rather see her fail at her green card interview and those who would rather see her move off on her own but stay here. Some people will see that she belittled you, and will call that enough info to say she defrauded you.

If you want to help her, then you can either:
just coast on this separation that you have, and come to the interview and explain the separation, make sure to bring plenty of proof the marriage was entered in good faith
start the divorce, and aid her with the divorce waiver and any documents she may need to show the marriage was entered in good faith

I won't give ways to hurt her. I don't think anyone deserves that. We only ever know one side of the story, and generally those who have gone as far as to ruin their ex's life's in the US have either regretted it or had a history of just being bad people. I believe a civil divorce can happen if both parties are willing to try, aside from VAWA cases of course. But every person we've seen try to hurt their ex immigration has just been rageful, sometimes cocky eve.

When things like this happen, you tend to forget you actually loved each other at one point, and you can end up believing you never did, or they never loved you. While fraud does exist, it just sounds like the OP's wife soon to be ex is a mean lady and their incompatible, it doesn't mean though that their marriage wasn't entered into with love. And not everyone is compatible, and it's harder to realize that when you date internationally/Long Distance, and then end up moving in marrying, and surprise, you just don't work out at the end of the day. 

Edited February 3, 2017 by Ash.1101

[Cmptrsdeal 76]

On 2/3/2017 at 0:15 PM, Ash.1101 said:

I guess the best question is, do you want to help her or do you want to hurt her? Because you'll get two different answers from people who would rather see her fail at her green card interview and those who would rather see her move off on her own but stay here. Some people will see that she belittled you, and will call that enough info to say she defrauded you.

If you want to help her, then you can either:
just coast on this separation that you have, and come to the interview and explain the separation, make sure to bring plenty of proof the marriage was entered in good faith
start the divorce, and aid her with the divorce waiver and any documents she may need to show the marriage was entered in good faith

I won't give ways to hurt her. I don't think anyone deserves that. We only ever know one side of the story, and generally those who have gone as far as to ruin their ex's life's in the US have either regretted it or had a history of just being bad people. I believe a civil divorce can happen if both parties are willing to try, aside from VAWA cases of course. But every person we've seen try to hurt their ex immigration has just been rageful, sometimes cocky eve.

When things like this happen, you tend to forget you actually loved each other at one point, and you can end up believing you never did, or they never loved you. While fraud does exist, it just sounds like the OP's wife soon to be ex is a mean lady and their incompatible, it doesn't mean though that their marriage wasn't entered into with love. And not everyone is compatible, and it's harder to realize that when you date internationally/Long Distance, and then end up moving in marrying, and surprise, you just don't work out at the end of the day. 

I really liked what u said.  "When things like this happen, you tend to forget you actually loved each other at one point, and you can end up believing you never did, or they never loved you"  

 

Its so true and yet very sad

 

 

Well i sent the letter requesting to withdraw support for the I-751. I gave it till today to try to get her to help me go to marriage counseling but she is still ignoring me and making me sleep on the floor.  She locks the bedroom door so i cant sleep in there.   If she cant support our marriage, i cant support her with her immigration.  Any idea what will happen next once USCIS recieves my letter?

[Cmptrsdeal 76]

On 2/3/2017 at 0:15 PM, Ash.1101 said:

I guess the best question is, do you want to help her or do you want to hurt her? Because you'll get two different answers from people who would rather see her fail at her green card interview and those who would rather see her move off on her own but stay here. Some people will see that she belittled you, and will call that enough info to say she defrauded you.

If you want to help her, then you can either:
just coast on this separation that you have, and come to the interview and explain the separation, make sure to bring plenty of proof the marriage was entered in good faith
start the divorce, and aid her with the divorce waiver and any documents she may need to show the marriage was entered in good faith

I won't give ways to hurt her. I don't think anyone deserves that. We only ever know one side of the story, and generally those who have gone as far as to ruin their ex's life's in the US have either regretted it or had a history of just being bad people. I believe a civil divorce can happen if both parties are willing to try, aside from VAWA cases of course. But every person we've seen try to hurt their ex immigration has just been rageful, sometimes cocky eve.

When things like this happen, you tend to forget you actually loved each other at one point, and you can end up believing you never did, or they never loved you. While fraud does exist, it just sounds like the OP's wife soon to be ex is a mean lady and their incompatible, it doesn't mean though that their marriage wasn't entered into with love. And not everyone is compatible, and it's harder to realize that when you date internationally/Long Distance, and then end up moving in marrying, and surprise, you just don't work out at the end of the day. 

I really liked what u said.  "When things like this happen, you tend to forget you actually loved each other at one point, and you can end up believing you never did, or they never loved you"  

 

Its so true and yet very sad

 

 

Well i sent the letter requesting to withdraw support for the I-751. I gave it till today to try to get her to help me go to marriage counseling but she is still ignoring me and making me sleep on the floor.  She locks the bedroom door so i cant sleep in there.  So immature. If she cant support our marriage, i cant support her with her immigration.   Ill include a screenshot from a chat i sae her have with one of her other filipina friends telling my wife pretty much to use me.    My wife txt is blue color

 

 

Heres a question.... Any idea what will happen next once USCIS recieves my letter?

[Transborderwife 4,666]

10 minutes ago, Cmptrsdeal said:

I really liked what u said.  "When things like this happen, you tend to forget you actually loved each other at one point, and you can end up believing you never did, or they never loved you"  

 

Its so true and yet very sad

 

 

Well i sent the letter requesting to withdraw support for the I-751. I gave it till today to try to get her to help me go to marriage counseling but she is still ignoring me and making me sleep on the floor.  She locks the bedroom door so i cant sleep in there.  So immature. If she cant support our marriage, i cant support her with her immigration.   Ill include a screenshot from a chat i sae her have with one of her other filipina friends telling my wife pretty much to use me.    My wife txt is blue color

 

 

Heres a question.... Any idea what will happen next once USCIS recieves my letter?

No idea but she can still remove conditions on her own.

[Cmptrsdeal 76]

1 hour ago, Transborderwife said:

No idea but she can still remove conditions on her own.

So even though were not going in process of divorce yet. She wont be out of status? Or immigration will wait til we r divorced and her green card will stay valid til then?