Please help !!!!

[Cathi 5,613]

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[sally&serif 8]

Everyone has their own opinions I respect that with saying this I wanna add my fiancé WANTS to fly directly to me keep in mind his brother is older they're foreigners ( traditions and respect towards the older brothes is the same as the father ) I can buy his ticket to come but in their mind it's unrespectful FOR US to say o no thank you but we got it and he's coming to me directly ...am sorry if you don't understand me clearly , I know what I been through to get this far in the process I really am happy and sad at the same time and I honesty don't feel like there's is a red flag in my relationship I been with him 5 years this won't change anything negatively just more patience is needed ... As long as he can pass POE and most of you said yes he can it's ok .. Thank you all for writing and again may God be on our side always and our loved ones .

[usmsbow 796]

Everyone has their own opinions I respect that with saying this I wanna add my fiancé WANTS to fly directly to me keep in mind his brother is older they're foreigners ( traditions and respect towards the older brothes is the same as the father ) I can buy his ticket to come but in their mind it's unrespectful FOR US to say o no thank you but we got it and he's coming to me directly ...am sorry if you don't understand me clearly , I know what I been through to get this far in the process I really am happy and sad at the same time and I honesty don't feel like there's is a red flag in my relationship I been with him 5 years this won't change anything negatively just more patience is needed ... As long as he can pass POE and most of you said yes he can it's ok .. Thank you all for writing and again may God be on our side always and our loved ones .

Well said. While my fiancee doesn't have any family here, if she did, I could see such a situation arising, especially if it were an older sibling (or uncle or aunt). Just the way some cultures are, for better or worse.

[Pheebs1201 269]

Everyone has their own opinions I respect that with saying this I wanna add my fiancé WANTS to fly directly to me keep in mind his brother is older they're foreigners ( traditions and respect towards the older brothes is the same as the father ) I can buy his ticket to come but in their mind it's unrespectful FOR US to say o no thank you but we got it and he's coming to me directly ...am sorry if you don't understand me clearly , I know what I been through to get this far in the process I really am happy and sad at the same time and I honesty don't feel like there's is a red flag in my relationship I been with him 5 years this won't change anything negatively just more patience is needed ... As long as he can pass POE and most of you said yes he can it's ok .. Thank you all for writing and again may God be on our side always and our loved ones .

Well said. While my fiancee doesn't have any family here, if she did, I could see such a situation arising, especially if it were an older sibling (or uncle or aunt). Just the way some cultures are, for better or worse.

This is exactly the point I was trying to make.

Good luck with everything OP