VISA ON HAND BUT?????

[BirdyGirl85 23]

Wow, just wow. I can't believe people who do this. I am sorry your husband is treating you this way, but I don't know why you think you have the right to move here with a spousal visa when the two of you know that you aren't going to be together anymore. That is the point of that visa. If you want to move to the U.S., then get a different kind of visa, one that fits your purpose of coming here...

Edited March 23, 2014 by BirdyGirl85

[uscparent 4]

50% inaccurate. You don't need consent but you do need a signature.

Either party can file for a divorce without the other but for a divorce to be legal in the US both parties have to sign it. This can be done willingly or with a court order.

You don't need a signature to file for divorce. As long you the petitioner has a proof that the respondent was served, even if the respondent did not return the divorce paper back, the court will still grant it

[*HappyInlove* 6]

OMG!! I'm so sorry about that It's really so sad that this happens to you because I can't imagine how happy and excited you were when your visa got approved and thinking of coming here in the US after all the waiting in this long processing. In my opinion, It's really not good for you to come here if you are not gonna be with your husband. I got also a spouse visa like you. When I arrived at the port of entry, the immigration officer asked me of my purpose in entering the US and of course my answer is TO BE WITH MY HUSBAND. It's so hard to lie and commit fraud here in the US, trust me it's very scary. We need to be honest in our immigration process to avoid deportation and forever be banned in entering here. From applying LPR to Citizenship, they need you to submit proofs of your relationship of living together based on marriage, documents like joint accounts, joint income tax returns, photos, birth certificates if you have children together, utility bills with both your names etc...And it's really hard to be an illegal immigrant here, you cannot drive and work freely. It's sad to have that kind of husband that treats you like that, it hurts but life must go on. You will really have a peace of mind if everything is done the right and legal way. I just wish you the best of luck. Don't forget to pray God and ask His guidance in this times of trials. I wish you the best and hoping you will meet the right man for you and be happy forever with him. God bless

[No name 88 48]

That's not what I meant. For a fast no fault divorce both parties need to sign. Some states don't have no fault divorce.

I never said a signature is needed to file a divorce.

Yes it is possible to divorce without a signature from one party. Cases of absentia are usually granted when you have no idea where the spouse is or they never responded to the court papers. The papers are served and generally after two years of no response you need to publish ads in the local paper where the souse was last seen. If no response the court will grant a divorce. In some states this can be done much faster than 2 years or it can be granted very fast if the spouse is in prison which is where the OP will be going if she commits visa fraud.

Edited March 23, 2014 by Todd&Hanh

[malenliam 18]

Now i feel sad. Me and myhusband lived togrther in Kuwait for two years until finally we decided to move to US. We applied for spousal visa last june 2013. Worst thing happened he went back to US from Kuwait while me and our son went back to Philippines, how sad thst this girl have a spousal visa on her hand but the marriage was over. But for people like me here waiting for months for our visa to be with our husband is still here hsnging,hoping, praying.

i can not give you an advice, we dont know the real story behind, the story could be , oh i gotmy VISA, i dont need you anymore...because the truth is. No man can be as angry as that without any reason

im sorry my kabayan.

[Cathi 5,613]

sounds like shes's setting herself up for VAWA long before she arrives. My my my...kids start so early these days

Edited March 23, 2014 by mimolicious

[careless00045 0]

What the!! you husband is insane and you still wanna Fly to the US?!

Its obvious that you just wanna have the greencard no matter what !!

and that goes under fraud !

[missing_tulips 4]

First of all i would like to thank you all with your comment reactions here. yes we have a daughter she's going 4 yrs. old and she's a dual citizen. i already talked the immigration lawyer from new york.

[missing_tulips 4]

sounds like shes's setting herself up for VAWA long before she arrives. My my my...kids start so early these days

Yes this is what the lawyer says about me.

[Avery Cates 1,141]

Yes this is what the lawyer says about me.

I lol'd.

VAWA is for people who come here and are abused. Since you're not in the US and have no reason now to come to the US, this isn't an option. Neither should you want to come to the US to put yourself into an abusive situation.

...because it's not just all about the green card, right?

[belinda63 2,981]

You have no reason to come to the US and lots of reasons not to come. If you attempt to come there is a good chance you are already flagged in the computers by your husband since you are not planning on uniting with him and he may have already filed for divorce. If you come you can't claim VAWA since you never lived with him or were around him in the US.

And your daughter can't do anything immigration wise until she turns 21.

Edited March 23, 2014 by belinda63