Husband admits during medical he smoked weed 4 years ago

[JE06 54]

I just had my medical this week, and because I am so curious I asked my doctor what do they test exactly....he told me that since Obama administration, they just care about tuberculosis and blood test for syphilis...not even drug tests, or HIV. I don't think the doctor will make a point on that, but that is my personal conclusion since what they only care now is about those two things (tuberculosis and syphilis).

Don't be too hard on him, this process is so hard and sometimes anxiouness take control on us!

Good luck

not true... trust me. had to learn the hard way... LOL

[ppihtr123 68]

Well i think in between murder and smoking weed there is a line. Instead of what you may think i have moral and there are lines i wont cross such as murder, cheating etc... but i won't blame anybody for trying weed and not wanting to talk about it at a medical for an interview for a US visa.

Not talking about it or lying to a direct question when you honestly know you are lying?

[loladolly 51]

If I had decided to hurt myself by smoking weed or not buckling my seatbelt, and that had no more importance in my life, then i don't see the purpose of ruining my future because of it. Nobody is perfect,

Edited March 22, 2013 by loladolly

[loladolly 51]

Not talking about it or lying to a direct question when you honestly know you are lying?

Yes because the consequences of saying something with no more importance (for the 100000th times) and that is not meant to happen anymore, are way too important!

not true... trust me. had to learn the hard way... LOL

What happened to you? Why did you get a denial?

[loladolly 51]

hahahahah i was thinking the same thing

Yeah i almost looked evil here.

[Shiobhan 235]

Be thankful to your husband....someone dare suggest you divorce him ??? this individual has displayed he has a conscience

and not a penchant to lie even after being tutored....U have a good man respect his decision, yes it may be a yr later and a few

more bucks but his action shows he wont be one to come here, lie and cheat causing you heartache, and he may or may not

be penalized for the truth .stay bless

[JE06 54]

i sent you a msg. about it

[squirrelisan 23]

I would consult a lawyer at this point. Perhaps your husband misunderstood the question because his English is not perfect? Since nothing should show up on the medical report, it could've been an honest mistake or miscommunication. I wouldn't give up hope just yet. This is a nation of (imperfect) laws, and the only thing that really matters in court, is what you can/cannot prove.

[Shiobhan 235]

I would consult a lawyer at this point. Perhaps your husband misunderstood the question because his English is not perfect? Since nothing should show up on the medical report, it could've been an honest mistake or miscommunication. I wouldn't give up hope just yet. This is a nation of (imperfect) laws, and the only thing that really matters in court, is what you can/cannot prove.

Jamaicans speaks English, the largest Englisg speaking Caribbean country (they do have a local dialect) broken English just as we/some Americans speak Ebonics

[Boiler 43,558]

Lola, you will find in the US people are much more honest than in France. Lying doesn't get you anywhere here. Welcome to America.

(I am a French historian and have been to France many many times, so my comments are not based on "prejudice".)

Now you must be smoking!

I did not inhale?

Just follow the news media, which I must admit is probably much better in France.

[loladolly 51]

Just follow the news media, which I must admit is probably much better in France.

Haha for sure

[Boiler 43,558]

Jamaicans speaks English, the largest Englisg speaking Caribbean country (they do have a local dialect) broken English just as we/some Americans speak Ebonics

Sort of.

But they also like the ganja so not unheard of to check for such things at the medical.

[Michael-Moneth 6]

I am really sorry to hear that you got into this situation and I feel how devastated you are. I know you have been looking forward to the day that he will be with you and on your mind it was soon... but something like this happened... For sure he feels awful for causing this trouble but I look up to him for telling the truth! like you said in your earlier post that the doctor kept asking him about it and he just did the right thing... Answered him with all honesty... For sure if he lied the doctor might caught him that he was lying... In what way? Doctors know when people do lie. Guess there are studies that shows how people tend to act or react when they lie. Usually when people lie they can't look at the other person eye to eye and for sure the doctor will notice that... I guess the doctor too would really kept asking him since I guess most men in Jamaica really tried smoking weed so they have that doubt in them already.

Just keep the faith and everything will pass... whatever is the outcome of this situation, keep loving each other and may it help to keep your relationship stronger...

Edited March 22, 2013 by Michael-Moneth

[loladolly 51]

Nothing to do with the case?

You might want to reread the certification of the form I-693 that you signed.

http://www.uscis.gov/files/form/i-693.pdf

I still think, nothing to do with the case, long time ago, nothing with present. DO what you want and i think what i want. damn freedom of thinking

[fcat 79]

I still think, nothing to do with the case, long time ago, nothing with present. DO what you want and i think what i want. damn freedom of thinking

Whether you think it has anything to do with the case is irrelevant, its whether immigration do!