APPROVED FASTER BECAUSE OF LIVING ABROAD?!

[Roosha 51]

The people overseas are already with there loved one.. so it doesnt even matter if there's takes long..

I tell ya... The poor stay poorer the rich get richer...

Are you F***ing kidding me?!? Who are you to say who should take longer to get processed? And how many times has it been mentioned that overseas filers make up a TINY percentage of immigration that it doesn't even affect the process for anyone else? Or are we just looking for a punching bag?

Also? Their, NOT "there"; theirs NOT "there's". Are you sure you live in the states?

[NikLR 13,234]

That is some bull...

Its not fair our ladies have to wait a longer to see us when there half way around the world.

The people overseas are already with there loved one.. so it doesnt even matter if there's takes long..

I tell ya... The poor stay poorer the rich get richer...

You should really do some research and inform yourself. Ignorance of a situation doesn't improve either your outlook or the result.

[MeredythB 38]

Are you F***ing kidding me?!? Who are you to say who should take longer to get processed? And how many times has it been mentioned that overseas filers make up a TINY percentage of immigration that it doesn't even affect the process for anyone else? Or are we just looking for a punching bag?

Also? Their, NOT "there"; theirs NOT "there's". Are you sure you live in the states?

You should really do some research and inform yourself. Ignorance of a situation doesn't improve either your outlook or the result.

Y'all, I have read some of this guy's other posts. Don't waste your breath. Troll.

[fcat 79]

That is some bull...

Its not fair our ladies have to wait a longer to see us when there half way around the world.

The people overseas are already with there loved one.. so it doesnt even matter if there's takes long..

I tell ya... The poor stay poorer the rich get richer...

What rubbish, What on earth has people living together in another country got to do with being rich or poor ?

[Rahstyles 10]

Dont be calling me no troll..

Thats f'd up attacking me when i didnt say nothing about any of yall

The reason i said the richer get richer and poorer stay poorer is because its the same concept

If your overseas and living with your wife/husband and getting your visa processed faster .. Thats a Plus on top of another plus

IF you live in the USA and live far from your wife/husband and get your visa processed slower.. thats a Negative on top of another negative

Hence richer get richer poorer get poorer

And yea I do live in the US yea my typing and grammer is bad.. But you know what im talking about . You dont gotta attack sombodies handicap cause i didnt do well in english when i was in highschool.. I apologize i was one of those kids in school who got kicked out of class for joking around and thinking my popular status in school was more important than education. I regret that now but i cant go back in the past.

So i guess im the only one who agrees people living abroad and people living in the USA should have the same processing times as the others

[N-o-l-a 7,168]

The reason i said the richer get richer and poorer stay poorer is because its the same concept

If your overseas and living with your wife/husband and getting your visa processed faster .. Thats a Plus on top of another plus

IF you live in the USA and live far from your wife/husband and get your visa processed slower.. thats a Negative on top of another negative

Hence richer get richer poorer get poorer

It turned into a nightmare for us to live abroad. I won't rehash the details because they are out here on VJ, but we are beyond elated that we are going back and my daughter couldn't be happier.

With your metaphor, that wouldn't really work at all.

Why would someone want to move back from abroad if everything was going peachy keen?

Trust me, my wait apart from my husband when we lived in different countries can not compare to the situation we had living abroad. I'm not saying that to downplay what anyone is feeling, it is just apples and oranges.

See where this is going?

At the end of the day, the process is too long for everyone. It needs to be revamped in its entirety.

[Pw3t 6]

I don't understand all this anger.

In my point of view, the only reason why people living abroad are processed faster in most cases is because the USCIS doesn't have to study their file really hard. When you give them proofs such as joint utility bills, joint lease, joint foreign tax returns, joint papers for everything ; they don't need to think a lot, they just approve because you already live together. That's a fact. Their principal goal is to detect fraud, they don't care about people's feelings. We are just numbers.

I guess that when you are married and never lived together before, you don't have proofs of common residence, they have to dig a little deeper so they make people wait more, which is very sad at the end. That's one of the reason that made my husband come to France first to avoid this desperate situation. It took him less than a month to get his visa for France 2 years ago.

Now we're moving to USA and believe me, if I could trade my fast approval (if I'm approved fast, I don't know yet) against one of your slow processing to make your life happier, I would do it ! Because I know it's hard. Our futures are in the hands of the USCIS and there's nothing more to do, being angry or mad won't change anything. We don't chose, we juqt go with the flow.

I really hope that everyone will get a fast approval without suffering too much and I wish you the best

[MeredythB 38]

Dont be calling me no troll..

Thats f'd up attacking me when i didnt say nothing about any of yall

The reason i said the richer get richer and poorer stay poorer is because its the same concept

If your overseas and living with your wife/husband and getting your visa processed faster .. Thats a Plus on top of another plus

IF you live in the USA and live far from your wife/husband and get your visa processed slower.. thats a Negative on top of another negative

Hence richer get richer poorer get poorer

And yea I do live in the US yea my typing and grammer is bad.. But you know what im talking about . You dont gotta attack sombodies handicap cause i didnt do well in english when i was in highschool.. I apologize i was one of those kids in school who got kicked out of class for joking around and thinking my popular status in school was more important than education. I regret that now but i cant go back in the past.

So i guess im the only one who agrees people living abroad and people living in the USA should have the same processing times as the others

You mean the entire thread you started (that is now locked) stating that American women are lazy, useless, grasping beasts that basically trade sex (I believe you called it "showing a t*t") in exchange for being supported by their husbands WASN'T supposed to be offensive to me, an American woman? Who, by the way, worked full-time, supported herself completely, bought her own house and car, and struggled with not having an income when I became a stay-at-home mom, something that my husband and I decided together, since child-care costs are prohibitively high here? Oh, I also cook him dinner every night, make sure his laundry is done, entertain his parents once a week, do the lion's share of the housework, and work in the family business to help meet our visa and moving costs. Sorry, must have misunderstood.

As I've said before in this thread, other applicants' progress does not come at the expense of yours. So this blaming attitude isn't helpful to anyone. We come to these threads for support, not to be vilified.

Edited March 2, 2013 by MeredythB