age differience urgent help plz

[kristen_maroc 126]

thanx for replying .. so pictures can do the job if it's with my family and me .. if there's a stronger way to proof that plz tell me ... i'm bringing her to egypt for a weak so we can take pictures togither

Wow.

I hope that the reason that this sounds so bad is because of English language skills. Because this doesn't sound good at all.

[RFQ 110]

Not to be morbid and I'm sure its wasted typing but you got to really think this through. Being in love isn't enough. I've been in love. Lots of people have been in love. When you are in the prime of life, flourishing in a career, wanting to be raising children, etc and your wife is planning end of life concessions, it takes more than the fluttery first years of being in love feeling to make that work. I'm sure she's an amazing woman and you'd give the world to her if you could. But one must fast forward 20 years down the line...

I wish you the best, really truly. I pray it all works out.

[del-2-5-2014 1,339]

Not to be morbid and I'm sure its wasted typing but you got to really think this through. Being in love isn't enough. I've been in love. Lots of people have been in love. When you are in the prime of life, flourishing in a career, wanting to be raising children, etc and your wife is planning end of life concessions, it takes more than the fluttery first years of being in love feeling to make that work. I'm sure she's an amazing woman and you'd give the world to her if you could. But one must fast forward 20 years down the line...

I wish you the best, really truly. I pray it all works out.

I like your wiseness. Very moving.

[Shoot Em Straight 385]

Not to be morbid and I'm sure its wasted typing but you got to really think this through. Being in love isn't enough. I've been in love. Lots of people have been in love. When you are in the prime of life, flourishing in a career, wanting to be raising children, etc and your wife is planning end of life concessions, it takes more than the fluttery first years of being in love feeling to make that work. I'm sure she's an amazing woman and you'd give the world to her if you could. But one must fast forward 20 years down the line...

I wish you the best, really truly. I pray it all works out.

RFQ Great points. Eloquently written too!!!I got it.

correct me if I am wrong...but,I am not sure "end of life concessions" would be understood by OP.

Again, OP invite your love to come on VJ and co-learn about what is needed to have a strong case.

[RFQ 110]

RFQ Great points. Eloquently written too!!!I got it.

correct me if I am wrong...but,I am not sure "end of life concessions" would be understood by OP.

I will write a bit more simple just in case.

@_Big_Deal

What I am hoping for you is that you sit and think. In 22 years you will be only 45 years old-- in the prime of life, where a career/job is going great. You still have some of your youthful attractiveness. Most people are raising kids. She will be over 70 years old. She would be in the part of life where planning for major health problems and end of life events is common.

We say here "love is blind." Its easy to over look any differences now. You want to believe that your love is different. But reality is harsh and cruel. The divorce rate of all couples is over 50% and this is when most are close in age with similar goals, and similar cultures.

Sometimes loving is about letting go.

[hamigirl710 112]

I found this link when looking up that issue with the law of 25 year age gap, and just found it interesting that they actually did a study: Age Gap Study

I am speechless over this study.....

[2HeartsR1 1]

Because of the small sample used i this study, and how the sample was collected, I would question the validity of this research. It is very easy to shape the results of a study. Companies do that to support their products regularly. The study may provide some interesting things to think about and consider, however, that does not mean that the study is valid or the results are reliable.....Just a thought

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

Unsuspecting ? Well, maybe. They say there's no fool like an old fool.

Or an old fool with access to the internet and the ability to fly to another country and sponsor someone who is her childs age..

I will write a bit more simple just in case.

@_Big_Deal

What I am hoping for you is that you sit and think. In 22 years you will be only 45 years old-- in the prime of life, where a career/job is going great. You still have some of your youthful attractiveness. Most people are raising kids. She will be over 70 years old. She would be in the part of life where planning for major health problems and end of life events is common.

We say here "love is blind." Its easy to over look any differences now. You want to believe that your love is different. But reality is harsh and cruel. The divorce rate of all couples is over 50% and this is when most are close in age with similar goals, and similar cultures.

Sometimes loving is about letting go.

Or finding someone else to sponsor you and staying friends with the older woman

[Shoot Em Straight 385]

Did we not only not get to help his hun, we lost OP???

If it is real, why doesn't the USC come onto VJ????

It is only for both their benefit

Or an old fool with access to the internet and the ability to fly to another country and sponsor someone who is her childs age..

Or finding someone else to sponsor you and staying friends with the older woman

Hi Kat, what are you doing now? I hope things are better for you

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

Did we not only not get to help his hun, we lost OP???

If it is real, why doesn't the USC come onto VJ????

It is only for both their benefit

Hi Kat, what are you doing now? I hope things are better for you

I am doing good.. How are you doing? My daughter has just started 2nd grade and loves it..

[kristen_maroc 126]

Because of the small sample used i this study, and how the sample was collected, I would question the validity of this research. It is very easy to shape the results of a study. Companies do that to support their products regularly. The study may provide some interesting things to think about and consider, however, that does not mean that the study is valid or the results are reliable.....Just a thought

Actually, the methods look fairly solid for a qualitative study... what alternative would you recommend?

[X Factor 1,110]

Not to be morbid and I'm sure its wasted typing but you got to really think this through. Being in love isn't enough. I've been in love. Lots of people have been in love. When you are in the prime of life, flourishing in a career, wanting to be raising children, etc and your wife is planning end of life concessions, it takes more than the fluttery first years of being in love feeling to make that work. I'm sure she's an amazing woman and you'd give the world to her if you could. But one must fast forward 20 years down the line...

I wish you the best, really truly. I pray it all works out.

You are being very realistic

[KittyPollitt 284]

Hi Big Deal OP-

I don't believe your relationship is real. You haven't even bothered to claim that you love her so much, can't live without her, etc.

Dude, I know Egypt sucks right now and you wanna get out. Find a woman your own age, or pray that your "hun" doesn't have kids, because if some 24 year old punk was pushin up on my mama for a greencard, I can assure you he would WISH he'd stayed his @ss at home.

That is all, good day, folks

[Mithra 1,185]

Hi Big Deal OP-

I don't believe your relationship is real. You haven't even bothered to claim that you love her so much, can't live without her, etc.

Dude, I know Egypt sucks right now and you wanna get out. Find a woman your own age, or pray that your "hun" doesn't have kids, because if some 24 year old punk was pushin up on my mama for a greencard, I can assure you he would WISH he'd stayed his @ss at home.

That is all, good day, folks

[RFQ 110]

Or finding someone else to sponsor you and staying friends with the older woman

I am so glad there wasn't any liquid in my mouth... i would have a dead laptop.