Journey Over!!!! :.(

[DazednConfused31 2]

Thanks, he said we will talk tonight.

God is the only one that really knows what is good for us eventhough we sometimes cant figure out why things happen. Dont be afraid or embarased to tell your family because it is better now then later when your have gone thru marriage. In my opinion you should wait a couple of days before you break the news to everyone. You never know if he woke up on the wrong side of the bed today. Hope everything works out and im here if you need to talk.

[jose_leti 7]

wow but if you guys REALLY loves each other WHY NOT move there???? i mean if you love this guy either u or him will make way..why give up?

goodluck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

happy birhtday! Time will heal your wounds and give you know hopes and dreams! The right person will come along and this guy will be a distant memory...

[bsd058 296]

I am the U.S. citizen, he is from the DR.

oh ok. I didn't realize that. Sorry.

[Almost done 0]

No need for her to move anywhere - the guy is not a good person. He used and dumped her. What makes you think if she relocates to his country - he will treat her better? Its better now or never.

The Lord will bless her with a better man. Sorry and Happy birthday

wow but if you guys REALLY loves each other WHY NOT move there???? i mean if you love this guy either u or him will make way..why give up?

goodluck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[MarielManuel 0]

Im really sorry to hear that i dont know you and i dont know what type of relationship you guys had but i know how sensitive is the heart..you would probably want to go and see whats going on that depends on you so you could see with your own eyes and not just belive what hes telling you i wish you the best and imreally sorry icant imagine how heartbreaking you feel right now

[deleted this acco 44]

Happy Birthday! sorry but its better he ended it now be4 u pour any more money in getting him here (&filling out massive paperwork) then have him break up with u like that. Hope u will heal from this. Good luck to u.

[MrTee12 64]

Sorry for the situation you're in, but he did you a favor doing this now instead of later. Just think if you would have gone through the entire immigration process and then said (oh, by the way, I dont want to be with you anymore}. It has happened to many people. I know it still hurts!

On the opposite thought...maybe he has cold feet. Maybe someone is hating on your relationship and they dont want to see him have a better life with you in America. Either ways its a RED FLAG, he should not have just dumped you...especially on your birthday...If he would had the heart to talk with you about his feelings or what happened at his family vacation you have more trust in him. But whatever you do. BE CAREFUL. Dont just rush back into this. Hopefully he isnt a SANKY.

Edited June 25, 2012 by MrTee12

[MissAAA 9]

I have been dumped. And what's even worse is that today is my birthday. He gave me excuses about his family was starting a business and he was the only one who could run it and someone here can make me happier and his family doesn't want him to come here. I think he has someone else but he insists that he doesn't. My heart is really broken. So I think I will be alone for awhile. What's crazy is that I wss reading messages from the beginning of this months and it was the opposite. I was the one telling him how hard this was and he was assuring me that it could work if we love each other. I'm just so sad. I'm too embarrassed to tell my family and friends. Everything was fine until he went their annual family vacation. He has been back since Friday and picks my birthday to break up with me. But God knows best. I hope I will soon find that person that he has made just for me.

Im so sorry! he does not deserve you! Take care!

[eromano6981 3]

No hay mal que por bien no venga. Its very heart breaking but look at the brighter side....its better now than later (although he picked a very bad date to do this). One day you will laugh at all this and he will be hurting inside for realizing too late what he lost. Keep your head up and always remember "un clavo saca otra clavo" y el que rie ultimo rie mejor"

Best of luck to you oh and HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!! :D

[goodgurl 3]

so sorry!!!

[jkelly07 120]

first, happy birthday i hope the next one will be much much better for you.it will take some time to get over this one, but you will get over it an fine a nice person in your life,think positive you will be fine.

[In<3 11]

Am so sorry to hear this .. but everything happens for a reason what a loser to pick your bday.. remember God don't like ugly..

[summersurf 10]

So sorry. Happy Birthday!

[anr1207 0]

First of all HAPPY BIRTHDAY. There are no words that can ease the pain you are going through right now. But trust me he did you a huge favor by doing it now instead of when you married him. He ended up losing the best thing that happend to him.

[Lalo & Susana 50]

First I'm so sorry about what you are going through. And as you've said yourself everything happens for a reason. Maybe this was just something you needed to go through to find your true love. Someone who would never hurt you in this way especially not on your birthday and even less your 30th bday. Don't be embarrassed to tell your family they are the only ones who will be with you through the good and bad times no matter what. During this time just focus on you and healing your broken heart. Hope you feel better soon.