Bad News

[realizment 18]

OP, In times like this as hard as it is, we need to approach it differently. First off im so sorry to hear this bad news. And can only imagine what it feels like. Well I have been in a really bad situation in a different form, but along the same lines i guess, extreme pain to the mind. When i was at my lowest, i decided to watch "The Secret" DVD. Im not kidding but from that moment, things changed, my mindset became a lot more powerful, even if at first you have to force the positive mindset upon yourself. In days it becomes natural. I dont endorse or condone watching movies for free, but if you need to watch it asap and cant get to a store that sells it. You can find it online, and can buy one later as it is worth the money. Along with the book or daily teachings its really powerful if you have faith in it and apply it. I believe in it from short experience. At a time like this, i really recommend using something to strengthen the mind set, and this is what i have found to be the best. Im sure you have heard of it. I had the book for years, never really read it, but after watching the dvd i feel some big changes have occurred in my life so far. Anyone who ive seen down and recommended the same thing have came to me afterwards and told me thanks very much it really helped.

Give it a shot, the logic behind it basically states you can attract the things in life you want by appreciating what you have, and feeling like you already have what you want. The law of attraction. No matter how hard try it. Dont give up, and in time i could bet things will look up. Positive thoughts are more powerful than anything. I know how worried you must be, watch it and let me know what you think. Prayers and godspeed healing for your fiancee.

God bless.

[leenas 2]

Hi. I've been a member for a while now and i have never posted anything. But i just had too after reading this story. It just amazes me how strangers can come together in time of need. Im very happy to read that after all this journey everything will finally be ok. Keep faith, God only gives us obstacles he knows we can overcome.

[max+patricia 24]

Just wanted to send my best wishes too. My sister-in-law had dengue at age 15 (in Venezuela) and fully recovered a few months later. Definitely not fun, but the hospital is the place to be if you have it. Hang in there guys!

[Dr. A ♥ O 203]

Sending my best wishes she gets well soon and you both are reunited.

[Andrea&Henry 311]

Hello.

I am from Suriname. It is always good to see a fellow South American

Thank you for your support. I will do everything I can to stay positive. I hope Thu's dengue fever is not serious. Too many times in Suriname have I seen dengue cases turn fatal...but the majority of cases are not bad at all. Thanks again!

jajajajaj we are almost neighbors!yes I know in some countries where medical care is ineficient, people can die from it. But is really really weird and uncommon when somebody dies from dengue. Most of the cases are because they live in small villages without any kind of health care.

Let me tell you, the first one I got dengue I went to the docrtor once and he sent me home and I recovered here. The second time I was hospitalized for 4 days and then they sent me home. It's like a relly nasty flu, you got fever, headache and feel weak. And I wont lie to you, is nasty and painful, but see it like a strong flu. Shw would be fine, she needs to rest and eat well. When I was recovering I start taking vitamins suplements and help me a lot.

Dont worry she will be perfect, remember I had it twice and Im totally fine

[dreamcometrue4 0]

I just got off the phone with Tuan (TcTTct). His fiancee called Thu and spoke with her. I was told that the doctor said if Thu had shown up to the hospital even 1 day later or something like that, she may have died

Thu did not answer my phone calls because she was afraid I would panic or get angry. My God we dodged a bullet here. My older brother was killed in a car crash 13 years ago and I would not be able to handle losing my Thu. I am so relieved.

I want to thank Tuan for coming to my rescue. You will be a dear friend of mine forever

I believe all will be well, want to say very thankful you have had such supportive comments from others. This journey in itself is not easy so when something like this comes up can be very difficult, but as someone mentioned that it provides us with strength and truly believe the relationships people have developed long distance and to continue moving on shows just how serious you both feel about each other. Time always proves more and as you and all here know that time is what we have all had. It will all work out, and a year from now you will look back at this journey and realize love can endure all things. May her health improve quickly.

[The Rice King 1]

I hope you both feel well soon.

I am from Puerto Rico. Weather and vegetation is exactly the same in Vietnam.

Edited March 12, 2012 by Jacob and Ngan

[Zach&Lara 25]

This is indeed terrible to hear. I am so sorry about this. I'll pray for you both. God Bless.

[WeatherEmperor 21]

Hello everybody. Thu is feeling much better now...and drinking a lot of coconut juice It will take a couple of weeks or so for her to fully recover but she is on the way to good health. It brings tears to my eyes when I see how much support there is on Visa Journey. I also want to apologize for over reacting a bit the other day. When I heard "dengue" and "hospital" in the same sentence, I just freaked out and feared the worst. Even though we have never met, you are all family to me. Trust me, I am struggling to hold back my tears as I write this. I love you all from the bottom of my heart

Thu and I will make purchase the airplane ticket in a couple of weeks or so. She wants to leave VN in late April so that she can be with her family to celebrate her sister's birthday on April 23rd. Thank you all and God bless

[dreamcometrue4 0]

Hello everybody. Thu is feeling much better now...and drinking a lot of coconut juice It will take a couple of weeks or so for her to fully recover but she is on the way to good health. It brings tears to my eyes when I see how much support there is on Visa Journey. I also want to apologize for over reacting a bit the other day. When I heard "dengue" and "hospital" in the same sentence, I just freaked out and feared the worst. Even though we have never met, you are all family to me. Trust me, I am struggling to hold back my tears as I write this. I love you all from the bottom of my heart

Thu and I will make purchase the airplane ticket in a couple of weeks or so. She wants to leave VN in late April so that she can be with her family to celebrate her sister's birthday on April 23rd. Thank you all and God bless

That makes me smile she is working back to health. It is understandable getting excited when hearing news such as your loved one not feeling well, and with the entire stress that this process brings think there is no such thing as overeacting. Hope oneday soon will be able to say the same as you that of purchasing plane ticket; will be dream come true; currently my case is still pending administrative processing. The best to you both!!! and good health!!

[Andrea&Henry 311]

Hello everybody. Thu is feeling much better now...and drinking a lot of coconut juice It will take a couple of weeks or so for her to fully recover but she is on the way to good health. It brings tears to my eyes when I see how much support there is on Visa Journey. I also want to apologize for over reacting a bit the other day. When I heard "dengue" and "hospital" in the same sentence, I just freaked out and feared the worst. Even though we have never met, you are all family to me. Trust me, I am struggling to hold back my tears as I write this. I love you all from the bottom of my heart

Thu and I will make purchase the airplane ticket in a couple of weeks or so. She wants to leave VN in late April so that she can be with her family to celebrate her sister's birthday on April 23rd. Thank you all and God bless

jajajajaja coconut juiceee!!! yeyyy!!told ya...I know that she needs the medical treatment but even the doctors recommended (coconut juice), worked for me twice...Also there's a soup recepy made with "pata de pollo" basically chicken feet. I know is totally disgusting but trust me IT WORKS! my doctor recomended to me when I was sick and I was like "KIDDDINNNNG" my mom made me the soup with carrots, potatoes etc and a I beg her at least take those stuff away from my plate jajajajaja. Helped me a lot besides I was taking vitamins suplements. She is gonna feel weak for a few days maybe a week but she will be totally fine.

When you live in a third world country, we learn how to recover and heal from this kind of disease very fast jajajajaja

Don't worry that's why we are here, to support each other I always thanks God for found this website...

I'll keep praying for Thu....

God bless you

[Mr. Leggs 0]

@WEmperor, i am so glad your Thu is doing ok, god bless you both.