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[Peikko 1,575]

Women ARE one thing or the other just like a cat is cat and a dog is dog

Ever seen two lesbians ?

One is small and pretty and soft bosomed and powdered and scented and demure - the other is Rachel Maddow

Get the picture ?

What have lesbians got to do with the fact that not all sexual relationships entail a dynamic of dominant/submissive?

[Ban Hammer 14,800]

What happens after the man climaxes?

Who cares!

how does a real man know his woman reached orgasm?

real men don't care.

[Captain Oates 911]

I think you'll find open-minded men could give two sh!ts about how many men a woman's been with.

I couldn't - and that's because I think I am better than all of them.

If they were better than me - where are they now ? eh love ?

I could make a lass oo before I came to the West

Edited July 27, 2010 by saywhat

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how does a real man know his woman reached orgasm?

real men don't care.

the wrath of madame cleo shall rain down upon you for that one.

[slim 1,534]

I don't know, Alan. I think I'm somewhere in between the soft, pretty and scented and Rachel Maddow. On the one hand, I'm a take charge kind of woman, who knows what she wants and isn't shy about it. On the other hand, I recognise what you might call "sub" tendencies within myself -- I enjoy pleasing men, and in particular being stereotypically "feminine" while I do that. I feel a distinct tension between these two aspects of myself, and I almost wonder at times as if there is a public persona (dominant) and private one (submissive).

I actually just had to google Rachel Maddow. She kind of looks like dude from American Pie.

Anyway, the part bolded there is probably #1 in what most "modern" men are looking for. A woman who handles business outside the house, is respectable, etc., but then at home doesn't mind ####### in her kitchen apron and heels when she enjoys being both feminine and sexual.

[Captain Oates 911]

I actually just had to google Rachel Maddow. She kind of looks like dude from American Pie.

Anyway, the part bolded there is probably #1 in what most "modern" men are looking for. A woman who handles business outside the house, is respectable, etc., but then at home doesn't mind ####### in her kitchen apron and heels when she enjoys being both feminine and sexual.

You have me in stitches dude - if you two ever split up and we both switch, let's get a little cottage in Tennessee

[slim 1,534]

You have me in stitches dude - if you two ever split up and we both switch, let's get a little cottage in Tennessee

Are you saying we should go up a mountain?

[elmcitymaven 9,712]

I actually just had to google Rachel Maddow. She kind of looks like dude from American Pie.

Anyway, the part bolded there is probably #1 in what most "modern" men are looking for. A woman who handles business outside the house, is respectable, etc., but then at home doesn't mind ####### in her kitchen apron and heels when she enjoys being both feminine and sexual.

But being feminine does not necessarily mean being submissive, mind you.

[Ban Hammer 14,800]

the wrath of madame cleo shall rain down upon you for that one.

real men don't care.

[Peikko 1,575]

Should I have assigned a value like "I'd give my life for her?"

What's a good way to quantify something that's invaluable?

Sure they do. Men are called pimps, players, hustlers, macks, studs, lady-killers, ladies man, etc. However, for every one of those, there's a guy out there who thinks that's kind of gross, even if he does high-five his buddy at the pub.

I think you'll find open-minded men could give two sh!ts about how many men a woman's been with.

Nor would I expect you to have one. You're a woman!

Some of the more modern versions (maven and amby come to mind) are equipped with them.

I believe it's up to the two consenting parties up front. If one doesn't believe the other or is used by the other... that's kind of their fault. I'm a firm believer in both parties being responsible for what happens in relationships.

It is 'normal' for men to view women in that way when they don't care about them. Women too, if applicable. (Back to that "switch" I was talking about.)

Have you ever had sex?

While it's not always better than masturbation, it's still pretty good. I guess to justify this in your head, you should start looking at sex with a person who someone is not interested in as a form of masturbation. The person being used is no different than a sex toy.

Then they should up their rates.

Hookers make great friends. Remember, sometimes that meter's off!

There is a fundamental difference between what Amby and Maven describe and what you describe - ie they may not care about the person outside of sex, but they do care about the encounter and whether it is mutually beneficial. You keep ignoring that aspect - not sure if it's possible to go any further if you can't acknowledge that.

As to dismissing the cost of prostitution on prostitutes as simply a failure on their part to set the rates appropriately - unbelievable really.

[spookyturtle 9,466]

real men don't care.

Are we talking real men from back in the days when men were men and sheep were nervous?

[Ban Hammer 14,800]

Are we talking real men from back in the days when men were men and sheep were nervous?

way baaaaaaaaaaaaack when......

[spookyturtle 9,466]

way baaaaaaaaaaaaack when......

Too bad Scandal's not here, he really likes sheep.

[elmcitymaven 9,712]

There is a fundamental difference between what Amby and Maven describe and what you describe - ie they may not care about the person outside of sex, but they do care about the encounter and whether it is mutually beneficial. You keep ignoring that aspect - not sure if it's possible to go any further if you can't acknowledge that.

Yup. Although now I think I am more interested in the person outside of sex as well, I certainly was able to keep it separate in the past. 15 years and 2 marriages makes it harder to keep emotions and sex apart.

Edited July 27, 2010 by elmcitymaven

[Captain Oates 911]

I actually just had to google Rachel Maddow. She kind of looks like dude from American Pie.

Anyway, the part bolded there is probably #1 in what most "modern" men are looking for. A woman who handles business outside the house, is respectable, etc., but then at home doesn't mind ####### in her kitchen apron and heels when she enjoys being both feminine and sexual.

I am not kidding about lesbians - the 'woman' one is very often stunning !

Weird how the 'man' one thinks like these other horrible men - the ones these modern women need to turn into the human equivalent of a smokeless california park - clean, available, trimmed and can be hosed down when required and compliant with their requirements.

I think these women are just too cheap to buy vibrators so they get a guy and slap him around until he does exactly what they want. Poor saps