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[Peikko 1,575]

What value do you personally place on sexual exclusivity (monogamous relationships) if you do? (Because my god demands it is NOT an answer)

If you do not currently place a value on sexual exclusivity, can you imagine a time when you might want to enter a monogamous relationship, and what change in personal circumstances do you envisage that would make this an attractive option? (if you have already made this change, same question)

For clarification, sexual includes all the varieties of full sexual contact - not 'kissing and heavy petting'.

How much does the fear of sexual disease affect your decisions relating to number of partners that you consider 'appropriate' (either serial or simultaneous)?

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What value do you personally place on sexual exclusivity (monogamous relationships) if you do?

$2,657.88

Edited July 27, 2010 by Legacy member

[Peikko 1,575]

$2,657.88

You're cheap.

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You're cheap.

I can go as high as $2750 but I have to draw the line somewhere.

[Gemmie 142]

I said this to some of my friends and they looked at me as though I had sprouted a potato from my head.

I will only be part of a monogamous relationship. This isn't because I'm afraid of disease but because I want an exclusive connection between me and my partner.

BUT I don't think humans are naturally monogamous.

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I don't think humans are naturally monogamous.

Correct. We are not. Monogamy is very unnatural.

[Peikko 1,575]

I said this to some of my friends and they looked at me as though I had sprouted a potato from my head.

I will only be part of a monogamous relationship. This isn't because I'm afraid of disease but because I want an exclusive connection between me and my partner.

BUT I don't think humans are naturally monogamous.

By exclusive connection you presumably mean that the connection has more components than sexual ones - but that could also be true of a casual relationship or even simultaneous casual relationships.

Correct. We are not. Monogamy is very unnatural.

Most of 'modern life' is not natural - what has 'natural' got to do with anything? We don't have engines and wheels, we don't have shells, in fact, it's hard to find any aspect of modern life that is 'natural' except perhaps pooping, and even that's got to be done in private on a pot -unless you are french or muslim - allegedly

[Darnell 8,478]

What value do you personally place on sexual exclusivity (monogamous relationships) if you do

Value? What unit of measure?

[Matt&Divorced 0]

"Ha-Ha! Well now, we call this the act of mating. But there are several other very important differences between human beings and animals that you should know about."

"Doin' like Mammals" Bloodhound Gang

[Peikko 1,575]

What value do you personally place on sexual exclusivity (monogamous relationships) if you do

Value? What unit of measure?

Whatever measure you use to place a value on such things, if you do. If you are in a monogamous relationship, there is presumably a reason for that - or are you saying that it's some kind of accident, if you are?

[Deputy Purple 1,294]

For clarification, sexual includes all the varieties of full sexual contact - not 'kissing and heavy petting'.

Apparently your standards are lower than mine. If I found my wife "kissing & heavy petting" some other guy, she'd be divorced & he'd be the victim of a "Crime of Passion", I just hope I'd get acquitted because I'm sure I can clean the chainsaw blade (or replace it) and I really like that chainsaw!

Edited July 27, 2010 by Bob 4 Anna

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Apparently your standards are lower than mine. If I found my wife "kissing & heavy petting" some other guy, she'd be divorced & he'd be the victim of a "Crime of Passion", I just hope I'd get acquitted because I'm sure I can clean the chainsaw blade (or replace it) and I really like that chainsaw!

Stop talking like that, you are scaring Madame Cleo.

Most of 'modern life' is not natural - what has 'natural' got to do with anything?

A poster said monogamy isn't natural and I concurred. Is that a problem? Are you trying to micromanage your thread? I humbly suggest you not try that, unless you're looking for a hijacking.

[Peikko 1,575]

Apparently your standards are lower than mine. If I found my wife "kissing & heavy petting" some other guy, she'd be divorced & he'd be a victim of a "Crime of Passion", I just hope I'd get acquitted because I'm sure I can clean the chainsaw blade (or replace it) and I really like that chainsaw!

I didn't think anyone would read it that way. However, for clarification - what I meant was if you were not in a relationship heavy petting and kissing does not count as sexual interaction. Thanks for the heads up - I hope this is now clearer?

Stop talking like that, you are scaring Madame Cleo.

A poster said monogamy isn't natural and I concurred. Is that a problem? Are you trying to micromanage your thread? I humbly suggest you not try that, unless you're looking for a hijacking.

It's not a problem, but it's not very relevant.

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It's not a problem, but it's not very relevant.

I am glad it's not a problem

[Deputy Purple 1,294]

I didn't think anyone would read it that way. However, for clarification - what I meant was if you were not in a relationship heavy petting and kissing does not count as sexual interaction. Thanks for the heads up - I hope this is now clearer?

Wait a minute.... Who has sex outside of a relationship?

Do people Frack for Fun now?