Unfortunate

[MNCouple 3]

Having read the other threads by this poster, it looks as if the "He" and the "She" have both posted under the same user name. Or, at least that's what looks like happened. I'm afraid that it makes it confusing to know who is who. So, Kramer, can you tell us which of you is the USC and which of you is the immigrant, and for that individual, what country were they a resident of? If she is the petitioner, then she is the USC or legal resident, however, in the previous thread, it seemed as if she was the one that was from overseas and that "she" would be returning to her country.

So, who is the USC. Who is the immigrant and when did they enter the USA and under what format, was it K-1 or VWP? I'm a little unclear on how you or she entered. When did you both get married and what is your current status with immigration? (where are you at in the filing of documents)?

Because of the unclarity and the questions raised, I think it might be more difficult for you to get the best advice and opinions from the great folks here at VJ. So, if you could please provide us with some more information, then we can help you better.

Thanks!

[sophannaven 0]

DID SHE CHEAT ON YOU ?

[DanielParul 50]

Wow! Who is who here?

Seriously, if this is true (having read the suicidal ex and trip to vegas thread too). If you are the USC guy, you should not have gotten another chance. If you are the beneficiary fiancee - He will never change. Go home and make a better life for yourself.

[kramervskramer 0]

Confusing previous posts:

May 2009 http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.ph...p;#entry2969898

April 2009 http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.ph...p;#entry2878151

sorry i was too embarrassed to admit the my wife did it to me.

[Romabell 6]

[quote name='kramervskramer'

sorry i was too embarrassed to admit the my wife did it to me.

I think you should see a doctor ASAP

[milimelo 4,245]

Confusing previous posts:

May 2009 http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.ph...p;#entry2969898

April 2009 http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.ph...p;#entry2878151

sorry i was too embarrassed to admit the my wife did it to me.

Ok, need more info: you say wife so I presume you did get married.

Then, she filed for her AOS, you submitted the I-864 and then she took off with the papers? You don't have a single copy of her passport, AOS papers...

If I get this right, you want to pull the I-864 - affidavit of support so she can't adjust status?

[JimVaPhuong 4,863]

My wife and I are separated. We're not communicating. She has all my immigration papers. We have filed for AOS but when I left, we only got the receipt. I need to inform the USCIS that we are now separated so that they won't construe this as fraud. My wife did something unforgivable and she did it repeatedly after all her lies and she did to me. She was my petitioner and I am the beneficiary. I dont have the receipt for our papers or anything. How can I inform the USCIS about our situation? I am only waiting for our divorce at this point so I can go back to my country. Any help, suggestions will do.

Thanks everyone.

What is "Unfortunate" is that you've not been able to tell a consistent story in your posts. Unless you can be truthful there is no way you can get any useful advice. From the content of your posts, it appears your habit of lying extends to your personal relationship, as well.

Since you wont be truthful, I'm going to draw my own conclusions.

I believe you are the female beneficiary. The questions you've asked about immigration in your threads would not generally be of much interest to a petitioner, and the vast majority of fiancee/spousal visa applicants from your country are female. I believe that you are trying to figure out a way to remain in the US without having to remain in a relationship with the man who petitioned you. You asked for advice on precisely this in your second thread. You do not need to notify USCIS nor wait for your divorce (presuming you have actually been married) in order to leave the US. You simply need to buy a ticket back to the Philippines and go. If that was your real intention then I believe that's what you would do. I believe that at some point soon after your arrival in the US your relationship soured. It's not clear to me if it was your fiance/husband who made the trip to Las Vegas with an old girlfriend, or you with another boyfriend, but you came here looking for advice on how to salvage the relationship and your chances of getting a green card. Obviously, you weren't able to patch things up because you returned asking for advice on adjusting status without your fiance. It now appears that things have deteriorated even further, and perhaps your fiance/husband has taken your immigration papers. You're now asking how you can "inform USCIS", which I believe is actually a request for advice on how to continue the immigration process without your documents and without the assistance or cooperation of your fiance/husband.

I make no apologies if I'm wrong about any of this because these are all reasonable conclusions, given the convoluted mixture of half truths and lies you've laid out in your posts.

I can make only two recommendations. Choose whichever you feel is the most appropriate.

1. Forget about all of this and go home. You don't need divorce papers or immigration documents to do this. All you need is a plane ticket and your passport. If your fiance/husband also has your passport then you can get a replacement through any embassy or consulate of the Philippines.

2. Decide, for a change, that you will be open and honest about your situation, your problem, and the type of solution you are looking for. If you can manage to do this then you'll get honest advice that might actually be useful to your situation.

[luckymom 0]

If my understanding is clear, you are the beneficiary and you seem to be the "victim" here. I read all the posts in the closed thread. I can't imagine that you didn't even tell the truth yet after the chaos. You are from the Philippines and not from Australia as some posters said in the closed forum. I think it's better to go home now and start a new life after this experience.

[TBoneTX 43,413]

Since you wont be truthful, I'm going to draw my own conclusions.

Way to tell her, JimVa!

[bhajishah 4]

The road to hell is paved in streets and cities of gold..seems you followed the wrong path

take rest and try again

[Brian&Naty 0]

Confusing previous posts:

May 2009 http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.ph...p;#entry2969898

April 2009 http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.ph...p;#entry2878151

Excellent detective work O&K. KRAMER is at the very least, interesting. KRAMER tell us why there is confusion on who is who? Are you the US citizen? Or is your Fiancee the US Citizen? I am thinking you are the one from the Philippines.