FIANCE CAME IN, WE WERE MARRIED, THEN SHE LEFT

[allenr 0]

I have a question. I petitioned for my fiance from the Philippines on a fiance visa. We arrived here in Texas on April 15, 2008, and were married April 18, 2008. By the 1st year anniversary, she decided to leave me because we would have arguements. She has left and is with her oldest sister in Arizona. Right now her case is in Adjustment of Status. It was in deportation court because we traveled to California to see other family members in the summer. We were detained at the Border Patrol in El Paso due to not having filed a Conditional Resident Application, which Catholic Services didn’t advise us we had to do. We just recently (January) got out of the deportation proceedings. And the judge transferred the case back to Adjustment of Status court. My question is: WHAT HAPPENS IF I WITHDRAW MY SPONSORSHIP? WHAT HAPPENS IF I WITHDRAW THE AFFIDAVIT OF SUPPORT? CAN HER FAMILY MEMBERS PETITION FOR HER OR DOES SHE HAVE TO LEAVE THE U.S. FIRST AND THEN BE SUBJECT TO THE THE 10 YEAR BAN? I don’t know what she is doing, and she hardly answers the phone when I call her. Can you please help me. Please email me at txheartbreaker2000@hotmail.com also if you can. Thanks.

[allenr 0]

I CAN'T TELL IF ANYONE IS ANSWERING.

[allenr 0]

I REALLY WISH I WOULD GET SOME MORE RESPONSES. I COULD REALLY USE SOME GOOD ADVICE HERE.

[jsnearline 2]

You just posted your thread. Don't expect immediate responses. Give it at least an hour before you start to panic.

[jsnearline 2]

You might consider making an INFOPASS appointment with your local USCIS office and asking them how you should proceed.

This sounds like it belongs more in the AOS forum.

[rmncm 0]

Chill out man. Withdraw your AOS if that will validate your manhood and move on. Let the woman move on and you should to.

[daboyz 36]

I REALLY WISH I WOULD GET SOME MORE RESPONSES. I COULD REALLY USE SOME GOOD ADVICE HERE.

Turn off your CAPS LOCK

[Hell0W0rld 10]

notify USCIS and have ICE pick her up....

[allenr 0]

I thought that would be what could happen. Then back into deportation court, and to facility with her 6 year old son to await hearing.

[Ban Hammer 12,845]

moved from K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & Procedures to Effects of Major Family Changes on Immigration Benefits

[Penguin_ie 5,986]

Sounds like she hasn't adjusted status yet. If that is correct, and you withdraw the affidavit of support, she will need to leave the country. Are you sure you want to give up? Catholic charities often have excellent marriage counselling....

[Ed+Cindy 1]

Chill out man. Withdraw your AOS if that will validate your manhood and move on. Let the woman move on and you should to.

I disagree with you.

If he doesn't withdraw his support, she will have legal status in the US. Basically, she would have married for immigration. She wanted out of her life in the Philippines and married an American, then she left him once she got here.

Its ok to leave him, but she needs to return to her home country, If she doesn't return, then she is showing that being in the US was her main concern, in which case she has basically #######'d her way into this country.

Sorry that sounds harsh, but I am tired of all the third world women just trying to come to the US for a better life. People like the women this post is about is why the K visa process has gotten so scrutinized, forcing us all to wait longer.

[allenr 0]

No, I don't want to give up. Of course not. But I don't know what to do, because she won't answer the phone, she's been ignoring me. When she does answer ALL she does is yell. Then she says she's not coming back. That it's been a year and she's tired of trying to make it work. I don't know if she's there planning a divorce. Because she has her sister in her ear. If you know what I mean. Then other family members and mom in California. But I can't see her getting off like that. When I told her the other day that she is leaving me no other choice but to stop processing paperwork, she asked, "Why do you have to do that for?" And I told her, "Well you say you don't know if you still love me, then what am I holding on for?"

[john & jean 37]

Chill out man. Withdraw your AOS if that will validate your manhood and move on. Let the woman move on and you should to.

I disagree with you.

If he doesn't withdraw his support, she will have legal status in the US. Basically, she would have married for immigration. She wanted out of her life in the Philippines and married an American, then she left him once she got here.

Its ok to leave him, but she needs to return to her home country, If she doesn't return, then she is showing that being in the US was her main concern, in which case she has basically #######'d her way into this country.

Sorry that sounds harsh, but I am tired of all the third world women just trying to come to the US for a better life. People like the women this post is about is why the K visa process has gotten so scrutinized, forcing us all to wait longer.

yes indeed, ####### like this should result in immediate deportation. this is a clear cut case of marriage fraud. sometimes REAL TRUTH IS HARSH....

[allenr 0]

Her fingerprint notice came in, and she emailed the lawyer and rescheduled it.