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Tberguat 21 November 2005 11:57 21 November 2005 11:57

If you see yourself you want to settle in this country and have a future here, I agree in marrying a US citizen just for green card, and suffer emotionally for couple years and secure your future..., things these days are only getting harder for the illigal immigrants, they even been called terrorists , because the paths to legalize yourself here are so long and uncertain. If your employer want to sponsor you it will take years and years I think between 7 to 10yrs and you have to stuck with that same employer for years with low pay and sometimes no benifits. If you have a US citizen child, he has to be 21yrs old before he/she can apply for you, so the only way is marriage!!

I remember back in the early nineties, the new comers had to find the least attractive woman in the city, all the 200lbs and up were married to Moroccan men, happy with their little toys just arrived from back home (skhoun) that he tells her horror stories about what had happened to him back home and how miserable he was back in Morocco so she'll love him and feel sorry for him and do all possible way for him not to get deported, and she will never dare to think visiting Morocco with him!! They use to call the period of their marriage "passer le service millitaire" ... If they see an ugly, old fat lady (shayta 3la 7babha) she will be perfect for lwri9at.

So, the only way to build a future here and be one of the crowd, go ahead do it, the only thing is the ugly, fat, old ladies 3a9o ..

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Not surprising....

jenn whats more funny is some of the girls furor when its real love between the guy and the girl...........white marriage sometimes becomes amazing love

Even if the USC in question is 'fat, old and ugly'? ;)



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Not surprising....

jenn whats more funny is some of the girls furor when its real love between the guy and the girl...........white marriage sometimes becomes amazing love

I'd bet that doesn't happen all too often.

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And the sad thing is there's a woman somewhere that will go with this BS!

I actually found this post on a berber forum. i read it , read it again and was kind of shocked to see it in writing

but let me tell you a flip side. I actually know of one moroccan guy who married for papers, got his american wife pregnant and had a moroccan girlfriend on the side from back home. The moroccan guy decided he loved the "fat american" and decided to stay with her much to the furor of the moroccan girl.

I posted this post because I thought it gave a little insight into the perception of American women by SOME not all Moroccan women and how they view cross cultural marriages. The weirdness comes into play when the "man" does NOT leave the '"greencard" after he gets his papers. Then it becomes a guessing game for the "native" girls as to why he stayed the course with the "greencard".

Its perplexing to some North Africans when the SO stays with the person who sponsored them and does NOT return home and marry one of their own. Love really does rule sometimes, yes... and when it does its confusing often to those who thought they knew the score.....

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when my husband lived in saudi arabia one of his friends married an ugly english girl. they made a deal if he married her she would get him english citizenship so he agreed...they now have a son together and are as happy as can be.

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Not just woman...women. Sadly there are several photos in the VJ gallery that can attest that this sort of thing is alive and well.

And the sad thing is there's a woman somewhere that will go with this BS!

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Not just woman...women. Sadly there are several photos in the VJ gallery that can attest that this sort of thing is alive and well.

And the sad thing is there's a woman somewhere that will go with this BS!

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O rly? I've been waiting for it all day! :whistle:

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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

I get so tired of hearing people say all cross cultural marriages are for green cards only.

It happens. Sure, it does. But, it isn't fair to label all just because of some.


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Not just woman...women. Sadly there are several photos in the VJ gallery that can attest that this sort of thing is alive and well.

And the sad thing is there's a woman somewhere that will go with this BS!

2qb7gjs.gif

O rly? I've been waiting for it all day! :whistle:

LOL patience.... it'll come....


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